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writes:How do you choose between two guys that are a little alike? I'm dating one of then but I'm really falling in love with the other guy as well. The guy I'm dating hardly has any time for me and the other guy would have a lot more time for me. The other guy is going into the marines and the guy I'm dating is going to college. But I plan on going I to the marines after high school. Reply to this Question
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reader, smallworld  +, writes (30 December 2010):
I'm confused, why does the one in the Marines have more time for you? If it's because the guy at college is away at college, there is no guarantee the guy in the marines wont get stationed overseas even.
If it's a question of communication etc, then I'd say if you love someone you make time for them. In that case I'd say you have a greater kinship with the guy in the marines - if I read that correctly!
Follow your heart and don't stay in any situation you're not completely happy with. And above all don't play one off against the other, if you do that you run a high risk of ending up alone. I hope this helps and it all works out for you
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