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writes:My question is very simple. I am in love, deeplyin love. I went through a rough break up. and usually I handle breakups well, this guy was going to be someone very special to me and a few weeks before our engagement planning he broke up. I was very insecure so I drove him crazy. Anyway, its been 6 months now, I stil miss him and love him, I feel the love for him more than ever. Met him a few times in these 6 mnths we did not have sex or anything. Just kissed and hugged and I cried and he cried. I found out he was seeing some girl for a few months, all though it was expected I still don’t seem to care. I know she has no value ni his life, even though he says he cares for her, I just wish to have things work out between him and me, so much is invested, so much is inside of me, I feel love no more anger resentment. On a normal day I’d curse him out and let go. But I cant even think of doing that. He oeffred to be my friend along with that other girl-s friend. I cannot tell him what to do. so I decided to take up on the offer of being his friends, all though very hard, he asks me if I still have his necklace he gave me (3 yrs ago) around my neck and I say yes. I just need to know if anyone has ben in the situation where they have been friends with the person they want to be with and had to swallow there pride so it can work out for them and their love in the long run?
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reader, steph007  +, writes (28 December 2010):
I know what you feel now. Let me to advice you that meantime you are his friend you should also find a boyfriend (like he found his g/f), who is not so significant in your life like this guy, but who will take you into malls and other places, including bed, and so. In other words; do not let to torture yourself: do with him, what he does with you.
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reader, shanib  +, writes (27 December 2010):
I always say if its meant to be it will come back to you if not then it was never meant to be. I think it is hard being friends with someone you have been intimate with, how would he feel if he thought you had met someone else. I would keep my distance try and move on, you dont want to be someone he just wants to full back on if if doesnt find what he s looking for.
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