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writes:i am with my girlfriend we have 4 children together, but i find myself falling in love with her sister. My girlfriend's sister is exactly like me. In every way we like the same things. Want the same things in life, even my girlfriend said i'm with the wrong sister. i dont know what to do. It's getting worse as the days go on please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): I'm in a similar situation but without the kids bit. I'm crazy about my girlfriends sister but I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for so many years, way over 5 years now and I'm very close to her family too. Her sister is much younger than us but we are perfectly matched for each other and everyone can see it. Although I'm sure my girlfriend and I will break up soon, I don't think I'll ever peruse her sister for the simple reasons that I don't want them to fall out with each other and I don't want the family to suffer. They are a tight family and are all lovely people. They are all very fond of me.I love her sister deeply. I have done for a few years now and the thought of losing her all together pains, no kills me but that is the price I'll have to pay for messing around with my girlfriends life. She doesn't deserve this at all. She has been the perfect partner.Saying that though, if my girlfriends sister were to ever come on to me sexually, I just don't think I'd have the strength to stop her! My attraction to her is just too strong. I want her so freaking bad and I can tell she is feeling it too.My plan is this, I'll break up with my girlfriend and say goodbye to her and her family and leave them all alone without telling them the real reason so that they can hopefully start again while having each other still. I know that I'll never love another girl in the same way for the rest of my life but hey, that is LIFE and fate really did throw me a curve ball with this one. I'm fucked now but in time, they will be OK.Is my resolution any help to you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): Zip up your pants and cut it out. Use your common sense here.
You getting it on with the sister (your children's aunt) will only screw up your children... not to mention the entire family. Use some self control and act like a gentleman and a father.
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reader, christopher 22 +, writes (27 December 2010):
we have been together for 5 years i love my kids so much and would do anything for them. We have had alot of differences in our time together but she always uses the kids against me cause she knows that it really hurts im not saying that i am a complete angel but if i go 2 leave then she says im walking out on the kids even though i have told her i would see them everyday then she says its up to her if i do my. And i wouldnt leave her sister shes smart funny and we like the same things even right down to not taking medicines if we arent well unless we really have to its such a mess and i dont know what to do i dont even know if she feels the same
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): I think You should go out with your girlfriend's sister, since you have feelings for her. You shouldn't be with someone if you like someone else, it isn't right. If you like someone a lot and want to be with that person, then you should be with that person.
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