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Should I stay with BF or go with my mutual attraction with his best friend?

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Question - (25 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 December 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I am soon to be 14, and I have a bf. We r somewhat in "love" but I don't think it's working out. My other guy friend, Garrett has been acting weird around me lately also. Like in band me and Garrett both play percussion, and whenever one of us messes up, we both look at each other and start cracking up. But I still like my bf, and I don't know what to do. My friends are sayin I should break up with him and go after Garrett, they also say he likes me a little. They notice in band that Garrett looks at me or stares in a special way, I notice it too. Should I breakup and go after Garrett, or stay with my bf????? Oh and they both are best buddies. Help Me!!!!!!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2010):

heya :)

well if they are best friends that i think you should stay with your bf, because your bf still likes you. You still like him. Your crush on his mate will soon go, dnt worry. I think if you broke up a friendship you would feel guilty. So stay with your boyfriend babe :) unless you don't feel nothing for him. But do not go after his friend after, that would just destroy their friendship

i hope this has helped :)

good luck :) xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2010):

If you go with Garret then they won't be best of friends anymore. I think you should not be so serious with anyone seeing as you are only 14 and you are young enough to find the one you really want to be with so finish with your bf in a nice way then leave it a while before you head for Garret that way you may not ruin their friendship.

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