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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I like the wrong guy, and I have a mess in my head.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I like the wrong guy. I was in a relationship, and this guy I'll call "E" was my ex boyfriend's best friend, that was the moment when I started to like him. Then when my relationship was over he took distance from me. In those days I became clos...

Help!!!! Stuck in a love triangle!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I'm stuck in a sort of love triangle I suppose. I'm sorta with this guy Mark but a while back I went out with his best mate Josh, who I still love soo effing much but like I'm happy with Mark cos he makes everything amazing and I do love him... but ...

I moved overseas with my family to forget her... I can't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I'm married with a two year old son. Around a year and a half ago, I became close to a female friend of mine, who is also married. This grew quickly and I fell in love with her and she fell in love with me. It kept growing and growing and got ...

I told my husband I don't want his child (from his previous marriage) to be near mine

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Well do you think i'm wrong to have told my spouse that i don't want this child that he has gotten outside our home near my child. I told him that i know the child is innocent to what he and the child's mother has done but due to there disr...

Either way I don't want to hurt my friends feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid. There's a guy I like and we are friends but I don't know how he feels. A girl I know also likes him but whenever they're together she's all over him, like literally hanging off him, but he doesn't seem to be showing any interest in her....

Is it time to move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been going to marriage counselling now for a few months,during these sessions i have found out that he has cheated on me more times than he had confessed. Sorry its long but a bit back ground on my problems,Feb 08 i was told...

Help with boyfriend's lies

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I need some advice on dealing with my boyfriend and his lie. It all started a year ago when we had been dating for about 4 months. We had already opened up and talked about our pasts (exes, etc - but not in detail - just names and basics) and ...

Why am I so shy with girls? Do I feel intimidated by other boys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hi i;m 13 and I wondered why am I so shy with some girls and others not, forexample, I went to a girls party (meaning I was the only boy) and it went great, my best friend intoduced me to her friends and I had a great time but today I was ...

How can I forget somebody I love but the relationship is going nowhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello...I am married woman with 1 kid. Before, I am too much in love with my husband, to much to the point of giving up most of my dreams just for the sake of marrying him.Just to know in the end that he was not in love with me but with his first ...

He said he loves both of us and won't leave her for me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I been talking to this guy for a year. We dated briefly and after we broke up, we stopped talking for about a month. Well in that month he started talking to this other girl and they started dating. Well when me and him started talking again, he ...

Is it necessary to let your ex-husband know of your present boyfriend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - My husband cheated on me. However I have no courage to leave the marriage until I meet my boyfriend. We are very much in love. I decided to divorce my husband. Now that we are divorced, we are still staying in the same house because of the c...

I love him very much, but he is breaking my heart, and using me as a doormat when he needs a babysitter.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I was married to my husband February 14, 2005 and we have been married 4 years. I have been dating him since 2000. His son is now 12 years old and has become a menace to my life. My husband was dating a women before our relationship to whom he had a ...

My husband;s family is always at our place and we need our quality time!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I have been married for two years now and for those two years I can't remember spending quality time with my husband. We see each other and we actually don't speak to each other as much, when ever we can cuddle up, his family are always there and ...

My wife's college sweetheart is now my next door neighbor!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - About thee months ago, my wife's old college sweetheart "Ken" moved next door to us. Ken was the all-American jock-football player, well built, and smart, and, I have to admit, nice. They dated for nearly 4 years until they each went to grad scho...

I'm in love with my FWB....he is my ex boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I am in love with my friends with benefits....he is my ex boyfriend. we became best friends and then we went to being friends with benefits. the thing is that i have fallen for him and i don't know what to do. he is a really sweet guy. we have date...

My flirty fiancee wont stop flirting with our younger friend...why does she need to do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I am 47 and my fiance is 41. She constantly flirts with a younger 23 year old friend of ours everytime she sees him. She says she has no attraction toward him and it's innocent but this really pushes my buttons everytime she does it. I've told ...

Why does he treat me so differently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - i dont understand anything anymore theres a lad i like,he knows i do cuz my m8 thought he liked me n asked him n he sed he didnt like me tht way altho he did show it! thing is i don't understand y hes so different with me. With anyone he'll have...

Now I'm being bullied by the co-worker he's dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I dated a guy in my workplace:we kept it secret due to policy.i previously helped him get a job there. he didn't know at the time that i was bullied there.i didn't want to get him involved and was scared he would think less of me. anyway, i fell i...

I'm wondering if I should break up with my girlfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - Hello, I have been in a relationship for a year with my girlfriend. My girlfriend is a waitress. I recently moved in with her 2 months ago. Everything was going great but then she left her myspace open so i looked at it and saw that she was talking ...

Should I leave my wife for this other women and risk end up being alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I am in a 20 years marriage that has lasted 10 yrs too long. I have been seeing another woman twice a month for 2 years. I don't want to hurt my wife, but I'm not in love w/her anymore. The other woman loves me, but is married w/three kids. She ...

Others say I can do better than whom I am with and I might think the same.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Ok. So I'm dating this guy and I love him dearly and we've been dating for 1 year and almost 7 months, but everyone I know/work with say I can do better. There's a coworker that I like a lot and he likes me back. He's completely sweet, makes sure ...

She wants to go see an old guy friend, but won't let me come with her...to meet him! Right or wrong??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I am a 28 year old male, in a long distance relationship with a 22 year old female. I had plans to go visit her, for a week in April 3. But we hit a snag here and now I am not sure if I should go, (in light of what's happened) After my visit...

Who do I choose...my wife or my lover?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I ended up having an affair due to lack of affection from my wife. I know I was wrong and I take full responsibility for my actions. Obviously, I wasn't looking for affection, it just grew from a friendship to an emotional level, which turned ...

He left me for another girl and it's killing me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - This guy left me for another girl. It's been a week. She is prettier and more popualar. I feel really gutted. But also, we parted on bad terms and I can't ever speak to him again, and I know for a fact he will never contact me ever again. I miss him ...

Am I being overly sensitive...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

27 March 2009 (M) - Hey All, SOME CONTEXT: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and a half now. We have been long distance almost all of that time, the worst was when we were both in different countries for five months and temporarily opened ...

Should I dump her, try and get over my feelings towards him, or stay in my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - My last question didn't have enough detail so here's my dilemma. I'm 15, 16 in october. You're probably thinking, "What? You don't know love! So young!", but please hear me out! When I was in 7th grade, I fell for my female friend; She was ...

Husband's homecoming from Iraq

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - My husband is in the army and has been in Iraq for the last 10 months, he is due home in less then 3 weeks. This is his first tour and it has been very emotional for the both of us. (we were only married 6 months when he left) He is a huge momma'...

Am I JEALOUS of the dog?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I hope there are some pet lovers out there that can help me with this. As a disclaimer, I LOVE animals, I've just never liked them indoors. All right, on with the show: My fiancée is pure magic. She's everything I've ever wanted, and...

I don't understand his reasoning on a 3-some???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Not sure why I can't get this off my mind or why it bothers me! My husband and I have been together for 3 years; married for 1 year. A few months ago the topic of threesomes came up. At which time he said he had one with both of his ex's (g/f ...

How do ask someone to be in a threesome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I want to have a threesome with another guy but don't know how to ask. How do I ask a gorgeous guy to join my boyfriend and I for a threesome?...

Is it me he loves or this other girl? I need to know for sure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Me and my husband are having problems. He was having an affair ad now I can't trust him. I love him, he is from Morocco and I'm from Ireland. Is it me he loves or this other girl? I need to know to end this marriage. I still love him too much. ...

Dazed and really confused. Really need to figure out what I'm going to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I am in a very interesting and complicated relationship. I have been dating a guy for about 6 months and we both love each other very much. Now here comes the complications. He's 32 and I'm 21. He has 2 very young kids (A 1 year old and an 8 month ...

The whole story - I don't know what to do any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend of 13 years with all my heart and soul! I can't picture my life without out him and I really don't want to! We have always had an awesome relationsip! Right now it's a bit rough-1st time ever! I just wanna fix it! He recent...

I always think that if I hold on a little bit more she would love me again, but nothing's happening..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. At first were were having fun and I can see that she loves me as much as I love her but now things got a little bad for me. She told me about this guy that she was talking with on the inte...

What do I do to make her leave him and me alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - ok im 17 and i'm pregnant. my boyfriend of 2 years who got me pregnant is 28 and there is a huge problem and it's not the age gap its his ex girlfriend. he has a 3 year old daughter by his ex girlfriend and his 3 year old daughter looks nothing ...

Do I still try to make this friendship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - This is pretty much a best friend issue. Me and my best friend used to be so close. We used to hang out and talk ALL the time. This year we began to become less close and it really sucks. We barely talk and we never hang out anymore! He doesn't ...

Should I tell her I made out with someone when drunk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - Before I left for to Mexico for spring break I was kind of seeing a girl. We weren't officially dating but we told each other that over break we can look but not touch. So I went to Mexico and she went back home and I got blacked out drunk one ...

His friend Katie is getting to close to him for comfort!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. I love him to pieces. I'm not a jealous girlfriend and I know I can trust him but he has this friend called Katie and she fancies him. She is all over him all the time. She tried to kiss him in front of ...

He cheated... now what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I need all the help I can get! I just went on my boyfriend's myspace and he's been cheating, what the hell do I do? I'm scared, it's been happening for a couple months. I'm so stupid, why didn't I see it before? What can I do? I'm having his ...

I want to call him just to say hello, and see if that connection is still there between us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend who is relatively new. We get along great, and I have a lot of fun with him. Also our relationship has a lot of passion in it. But I have realized that passion is only temporary, and I'm starting to think What's going to ...

How easily can women change their attitude towards you so drastically after you have popped the big question?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - Hello. Here's a little question for you. Is it possible that an experienced woman in her early thirties might develop a crush on a guy, but realise that this is a crush and therefore try and focus her energies elsewhere so as to forge a relationship ...

My friends and boyfriend don't care

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - i went out to a town centre that i havent been to before with my friends and my boyfriend and they abandoned me. i sat down and got out my phone and when i looked up again they were gone. i walked around for an hour no clue were i was going and i ra...

She broke up with me to go back to him but now says she wants to be back with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - I'm a bit torn about what to do so i hope i can get some advice. Basically we were together for a while and fell in love, long story short her ex appeared and stirred things up and we ended up breaking up (its been a couple of months now), her...

What should I do to stop feeling crushed by the fact the love of my life will never be mines??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I'm in love with this guy that I know and I have been for about 4 years now. There's a big age difference between us but I don't care he's so nice looking and amazing. I know nothing will ever happen because he's got a girlfriend and there madly in ...

I've called the wedding off because of his ex! Help me, I'm going insane!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I'll start by telling you that I was meant to marry him on Thursday! All this happened the day before. We're both students and he lives in university halls. We have known each other for 3 nearly four years and been dating for 2 years. Now so...

Do you think he's just scared and will come back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 4 months pregnant with my ex's baby we had been together 4 years and this was planned. We started going through a rocky period recently, during this time my ex slept with someone else and ended up finishing with me for her. I got in touch ...

I don't want to lose a good friend just because my girlfriend tells me to!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I have a situation that is becoming problematic. See, I have this friend, we'll call her Sophie. Anyway, Sophie is a good friend, we get on very well, she is funny and interesting and intelligent, and she really doesn't like my girlfriend, Laura. ...

How can I totally forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - I'm in a LDR.... just 3 weeks ago I found out that my bf has been cheating with me for the last 3 years so I left him. Right now his with other girl and they are about to get married. I just can't get rid of his memories. It kills me when it comes ...

My boyfriend is driving me nuts!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5725 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my lad for a bout 9 months now, my longest relationship ever. I pratically lost my virginity to my current I have little experience. I've suggested things, would like to try things but it never works out. He comes too quickly ...

Weirded out with ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5724 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - We are going out for dinner, birthday party for a friend. My boyfriend of six years is friends with the birthday celebrant. The celebrant is friends with my boyfriend's ex girlfriend so I know she'll be there as well and this isn't the first time ...