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writes:I need all the help I can get! I just went on my boyfriend's myspace and he's been cheating, what the hell do I do? I'm scared, it's been happening for a couple months. I'm so stupid, why didn't I see it before? What can I do? I'm having his baby and I'm worried about what I should say or do. Please help me as soon as possible. I'm freaking out and I'm about to drive to his work to confront the chick because she works with him and beat her ass and also kick his ass. I'm freaked out and pissed all at the same time, please help me! Ohh god got to go, I just threw up! I hate morning, well evening sickness!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): I guess I'm wondering how you know he's cheating based on a myspace page? Before you bring the drama, are you completely and totally SURE it's not just some inappropriate flirting? There is way too much at stake here to jump to conclusions based on circumstantial evidence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): I guess I'm wondering how you know he's cheating based on a myspace page? Before you bring the drama, are you completely and totally SURE it's not just some inappropriate flirting? There is way too much at stake here to jump to conclusions based on circumstantial evidence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): When my (ex) wife conceived our first child I soon realised that it took love to stand by her sporting her new bump and the changes that it made to our love life.
I'm sorry to break the news to you but somewhere within this guy doesn't have the depth of love needed to do the right thing by you and your unborn child so the problem is not what he's done only, but also what he isn't...
That being so, you face the reality faced by many mothers that they took the genes from out of the man, but the man himself for whatever reason is no good.
Still, there is many a beautiful child that has come from a mean father and more will depend on both your care and nurture, not to mention possible future choice of partner.
The decision to split from this guy is yours but personally I don't have alot of time for people who would do that to their baby mother to be, I think that's real callous and low. Truly I pity you. Know also that there are guys out there who would love and cherish somebody as yourself and I hope you meet somebody who will show you the proper respects. Now his guilty of putting you through this in your current condition and you might like to remind him of the hurt his already causing his unborn child while your discussing his infidelity with him.
If he's practicing child abuse before the baby is born, then surely; wouldn't you be better off without him?
Tell him you think he's a joker. And then proceed to not take him very seriously no matter what his protestations.
What ever you do, under no circumstances make it easy for him. He doesn't deserve it. And he doesn't deserve you or even his own child...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): Calm down. You are pregnant and you have to take it easy, for the baby. Don't go after the girl, not necessary. Pile up your evidence and confront your boyfriend.
good luck
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (23 March 2009):
 Don't go beat her ass, she probably dosnt know about you either. He definetly needs to be confronted, but once you have calmed down a little. Remember, stress is the worst possible thing for your baby! How dare him do this to you and your baby, by the way! You have every right to be absolutley livid. However, you are the bigger person, and you are with child, and that is why you are going to have to keep your cool, think about what you want to do before confronting him (ie, leave his sorry ass, try to figure out why this has happend and fix it? Ect.) Then, when you have reached a good sence of direction with it, wait for him to come to you.
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (23 March 2009):
 First of all take a deep breath and calm down. Pace yourself. In my opinion you should focus on your boyfriend and not the girl that he is cheating you with.
Tell him straight out that you know what is going on between him and the other girl, and then see his reaction on his face, take it from there. Then discuss your situation with him and see if you want to forgive him or break up. Take care!
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