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writes:Me and my husband are having problems. He was having an affair ad now I can't trust him. I love him, he is from Morocco and I'm from Ireland. Is it me he loves or this other girl? I need to know to end this marriage. I still love him too much. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): i know you love him but please ask yourself what are you going to do if he chooses the other woman. i know you are hurting very much right now but soon you have to make a choice whether YOU WANT HIM IN YOR LIFE. People stray for a reason, and you need to find out what is missing in your marriage. and then work at re building it. you can only do this if your husband is totally committed to you and your marriage.be wared though, some husband feint remorse and say that they will end the affair. they just continue with the OW and the wife is none the wiser. The life of the other woman:And the OW is just accepts that she is there only to provide one thing - sex (JUST LIEING ON HER BACK, HOPING THAT THE GOOD SEX WILL MAKE HIM leave the wife) but then reality is the men have their wives and the OW too. The OW, when she knows that she is the OW, must not expect anyone to feel sorry for her. She knows what she is doing yet continues the affair. OW have no respect for themselves therefore they continue their illicit relationship. The question is, do you wait for him to make a choice or do you take back the power man make your choice. Do not seem so desperate for him. He may not be worth it.
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reader, Serenity1  +, writes (25 March 2009):
 are you still with your husband? i can't tell you who he loves but all you can really do is go off of his actions. has he left this other girl alone?
me personally...im involved with a man who has a girlfriend...she just found out about us maybe a month ago...she has obviously decided to forgive him for cheating...but he still pursues me and im still involved with him...i know i shouldn't but i love him too...
i figure she must be ok with him still messing with me...but i doubt if that's all the way true...just watch your husband's action you'll be able to tell if he's still seeing the other girl...my guy actually had the nerve to tell me he loved both me and his girlfriend...he's obviously chose her but he still wants me too...i just have to get up enough strength to let him go and stop being #2 and letting him get his cake and eat it...
hope this helps...
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 March 2009):
 WE can't answer this. You need to ask him.
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