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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I love my girlfriend's best friend. I am confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - ok. so i have beem going out with this girl for over 3 years now. but recentley, she made a new friend (a girl), me and her got talking and became good friends. But in the past few dasy i have started to realy hate my gf but dont have the gu...

Should I give it one more shot with my ex or move on this other great guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - my ex and i had been apart for 3 months and then here he comes (lets name him Will) and saying that he made a mistake and learned what he did wrong and asks me if i want to give it another go. and i still had feelings for Will. thing is our friend ...

I am in love with my boyfriends best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend that i have been seeing for a year now,problem is he broke up with me two times and asked me back and i accepted,thing is now his best friend says he is inlove with me and i am inlove with him too, i think about his best friend ...

I want to re-kindle things with my ex, but she isn't interested. On top of this, another ex is wanting me back and I can't say no. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5988 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - what does this mean? ok me and my ex girlfriend (2 years ago) ended badly but we went through everything together like a misscarriage , holiday . and this year i got back in contact with her shes still fit as hell. i got with a girl wh...

I'm torn between my ex-husband and my boyfriend! What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. My very soon to be ex husband left me and our two younger children at the time ages 2months and 2years. He left me for his ex girlfriend who was is very first. I was a stay at home mom that was a full time student. I was so hurt he ...

I don't want our daughter to be involved with the "other woman"!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have a five year old daughter together. after an eight year relationship he says that he dont love me. days after he tells me this he is with another woman. i do not want my daughter to see him if he is with her. what do i do?...

My newly religious exhusband told our daughters that I and my new boyfriend are going to hell! How do I unring this bell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I was married to a man for about 6 years and we have two daughters together (one 8, one 6). We got divorced a couple of years ago (we weren't getting along, and the divorce was pretty messy). Now, I take care of the kids most of the time, but he has ...

My ex boyfriend, now married, tells me he has wanted a divorce for a long time. Should I just avoid him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Let me start by telling a bit of the past. Many years ago, approximately 14 yrs ago I had this boyfriend and we were pretty serious and very close. We dated for almost a year and we broke up because my Mother demanded that we do so and would punish ...

I love a man who is still married, but separated for 10 years, his wife will not sign divorce papers, I want to marry him, what should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 24 year old lady that has been dating a special man for over two years. A month ago, I found out that he was still married to his "ex-wife" but they have been separated for ten years. She has moved on to someone else and had ...

We've been together a lot, not just for sex, but our schedules prevent actual dates. Is he just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I met this guy about 6 months ago through work. For the first few months we barely knew each other - but he would chat to me, there was a little bit of flirting and on more than a few occasions I caught him looking at me. A few months later we ...

He doesn't quite treat me as this new fella does, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - so i met this guy...he is amazing.he treats me like a princess...and i am seriously falling for him.but there is a problem:i am currently in a relationship.and have been for three years now.my boyfriend is great.good christian guy,understands ...

My ex had the opportunity to break up from his GF as promised, but he did not do so! Can I trust that he will?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - hiya well i told my ex i still loved him and he told me he did too. but he hasn't dumped his gf yet. but he says he will.then his mate told his gf that she was dumped she asked him and said that it wasn't true. that was his perfect oppurtun...

I don't know what is happening to me or what I should do about either of these two guys!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - ok, this is really complicated. i'm in love with this lad who i've been good friends with for 2 years, we have talked about seeing each other but he's worried about the age difference, i'm 16 and he's 21, but he still talks to me all the time, ev...

My husband's male friend is at our home, almost every other weekend, our sexual acts have changed, could my husband be cheating on me with his male friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - My husband has a best friend that he hangs out with all of the time. He has recently gotten to the point where he goes outside to talk with him. I came home one day on my lunch break and when his friend called he was speaking in codes, and finally ...

I don't want to hurt my wonderful fiance, but I don't want this amazing, loving affair to end.

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - In Love with two people! I'm 35. Fiancé 32, Lover 21! I can't believe I have let myself get into this situation, I have a really nice Fiancé, 2 kids aged 2 and 5 we don’t argue, we still have Sex a few times a week. My problem is this a year a...

I fought with his ex. Will I ever hear from him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - This is a guy who chased me for a year only for me to find out he was still sleeping with someone who was suppose to be his ex. then he supposedly told her it was over but would still stay down her house on the weekend end it drove me crazy. so i ...

My wife is talking to an old lover, should I feel jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - My wife said she loves me but is not IN love with me. She said I didn't pay attention to her just after I found out I have MS. Now shes talking to an old lover, but said they are "Just Friends". how should I feel? I had a bad time for about a year ...

Should I be worried about my girl's new male friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - Well this is kind of a follow up but new problem. my girlfriend and i been having few problems of late. we still love each other but something obviously wrong though. i lied to her over something silly to avoid an argument over a new male friend ...

Is my husband carrying on with a woman from his office?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I've been married for past 8 years. We dated for 3 yrs before getting married. In all these married years, my husband has always complained about me being overweight. I'm 5 ft 3 in and weighed 140lbs when i got married. Now I'm 155 lbs and I have a ...

How do I stop cheating with my friend, when I have a boyfriend ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5990 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend and a really great friend! I have an affair with this friend how can i stop it? he knows I hav a BF and doesnt want to say anything that will ruin my BF and I..how can i stop the love life with my friend, i dont think i need it if ...

We love each other but I can't fully trust her as she cheated and is generally flirty, how do I overcome my worries?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - hello i have been in a relationship for nearly two years now and i love my girlfriend to pieces, we have regular sex, a fantastic connection, we have talked about marriage, and we love each other with all of our hearts. the only thing is i dont ...

Phone calls to another girl in secret, deleted inbox. Can I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I don't know what to do about my boyfriend as he acts really suspiciously. He gets lots of texts from some girl he knows who apparantly 'lives in london'. He tells me that they're nothing but friends, but I find this really hard to believe as I have ...

He keeps saying he will break up with his girlfriend but he doesn't, is he using me, should I end what we have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - i have know this guy for three years and just started having sex.we both like each other and have feelings for each other but he has a girlfriend he keeps saying he's going to break up with her but he doesn't.my question is does he really want to ...

My ex and I still like one another, but there are other people in the picture now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5990 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - me and my ex fella have being good mates since we broke up ! we still love eachother and its so har seeing eachother with different people .. he wants to get back with me and i want to get back with him but him an a girl i no have being getting very ...

I can't get my mind off this married guy who kissed me and it's affecting both my work and my relationship!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - I'm a grown adult in a comitted long term relationship and I've recently found myself sliding back into the world of the teenage crush! I currently live with my partner of four years, and we are very happy in our relationship. About a year ago...

Can I win him in this seemingly impossible situation - or should I cut loose before I get really hurt??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - This is nothing new, and I've been over it a million times in my mind, but wouldso great to hear others opinions. I met a wonderful man a few months ago.....who is single.....tho still has issues with a lady who will not, or cannot be with h...

The baby turns out NOT to be my boyfriend's but he still supports him, should I meet this other woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - ive been dating this guy for a five years and he had a baby scare with someone right before our relationship got serious. the baby turns out not to be his and he still takes care of the child just to be a good guy by being a good support. my main ...

She has a boyfriend but opens up to me about everything! How can I show her how much I love her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

27 July 2008 (M) - I've been talking to a girl EVERY DAY for the past 5 months or so. Most of the calls came from her, and we talk for hours. We never went a day without talking. About 2.5 months ago, I admitted to her that I was in love with her (wrote a long le...

Do I tell him I love him even though he has a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - i love this guy and he awsome. we txt everyday since the first time we met. my friend asked if he would ever go out wit me and he said mayb but he has a girlfriend. i talk 2 him soo much though. he sent a pic of him 2 me at random. then sometimes ...

Leaving his girlfriend for me turned out to be more painful than he thought! What should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - I have been in love with my best mate for 6 months an we have frantically flirted all that time and hung out together. He has a girlfriend he sees a couple of times a week, I have a boyfriend who works abroad i hardly ever see him. 2 days ago he t...

Can a man love his wife and keep outside affairs seperate, and be content and happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) - I have been with my husband for 18 years, who never wanted to get married in the first place. He was and is a player ever since I had met him. When I gave him an ultimatum. he married me after dating for 10 years. Anyway, He had many affairs ...

I am going mad over my girlfriend's new male friend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

25 July 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been going out 7 months now. last month she got an email from a male friend she was at school with. she chatted on msn then decided to meet him. she told me about it and the fact he single. but instead of agreeing to meet ...

What am I to her now? Not even a friend? Is it best to walk away without a word?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

25 July 2008 (M) - I have been together with my girlfriend for a year. Until few months ago, I moved for working and no longer meet each other that often. We still talk to each other on phone everyday. Last month, she told me she is going to vacation on the ...

Been married for 25 years to a verbally abusive husband, now I long to see my old high school love!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

24 July 2008 (F) - I recently was contacted by an old high school boyfriend, my first love after 28 years! He now lives in another state. This contact brought up old feelings and although I am married with kids I want to have more contact with him, is that do bad, I ...

A guy is coming between me and my best mate

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24 July 2008 (F) - i adore my best friend, we have so much in common and can often finish each others sentences, think the same things at the same moment and buy the same clothes without realizing! the problem? her latest bf. they havn't been going out too long, bu...

Separated from my wife; she's recently met an old boyfriend and told me it's over, I'm in turmoil!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

24 July 2008 (M) - My wife and I spilt up last october. but i sort professional help for my problems and i became a changed man. for the last 9 months we bonded back again still separated but loving each other very much. bonded too with our 2 children. her parents ...

He was my 'first', but I found out he's seeing someone else. What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

24 July 2008 (F) - I use to see to see this guy sometimes and you know he was the first guy that kissed me and all of that you know so I was really having feelings for him but we didn't use to see each other very often so one time we met after a long time we hadn't ...

I wish life had a reset button! I would have chosen another guy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - I wish life had a reset button...why? I know 3 guys 2 my friends both 15, 1 my boyfriend 14, all 3 love me. If life had a reset button i would of taken my chance with the guy that asked me out, i didnt take it so i messed up there. my 2nd friend, he ...

What are my husband's intentions? Is he tired of this "other girl"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - My husband of 12 years left 8 months ago. He started living with a girl 12 years younger then him right away. As of today he has also not filed any kind of divorce papers. We have spoken in spurts off and on in this time but the day after what was ...

How do I get out from under my married boyfriend and his wife? We all live together.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5995 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - i am 35 with a6yr old son. I have been on and off living with my married boyfriend and his wife and kids. Earlier we moved in together it didint work he kept going back and forth. I was out of work and struggling to make ends meet so his wife ...

My husband told me he is attracted to her but they are only friends, do I have reasons to worry?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - my husband of 19 years met a 23 year old waitress in our local cafe. She has sinced moved to another state but they talk to each other 3-4 times a day. He seems to get upset when i ask if he has talked to her and what they talked about. he has ...

I'm stuck in a world where I have two hearts... I need help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - This is the story this is how it all starts there me and to guys one called frank and the other called alec their both very nice ppl and very good looking and kind and sweet and just down to earth ppl one 19 and the other 18 a...

How do I get my friend back? He doesn't want much to do with me because of his girlfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - My best friend(male) of 2 years(Whom I dated for the first year and half) is now dating a woman whom seems to be threatend by me. Without telling much more of the story, we have not had communication for 3 months. I gave him space to develop ...

I lost my girlfriend to a computer game, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

22 July 2008 (M) - I think i may have lost my girlfriend to a computer game called second life. we just broke up about a month ago. I didn't think anything of it until about two weeks ago. She spends every waking moment on the game for the last three months, ignoring ...

My roomate has a girlfriend but he wants sex with me. Is he just using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - My friend and I have slept together a few times. I talk to this boy everyday. We get along great, trust each other and have not once argued. We tell each other stuff we would not tell anyone else. He just recently started seeing this gir...

Do you think her male friend is jealous of our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

22 July 2008 (M) - Today my girlfriend(call her jessica) went out with her friend (call her sara).I didnt mind that i wasnt going because it was just her and her really close friend so i am fine with just the two of them. So im talking to her on msn and i find out ...

He's a great father and I don't want to lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5995 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - I did have a talk with him last night and he said he wants to be with, he just wants all the fightin to stop.BUt see he has a kid from a previous marriage and it is very hard getting along with his ex. HE always does what she wants over me, and it ...

He says he likes me and wants to date me, but keeps getting back together with his ex instead!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - i like this guy but there have been problems and things that have come in the way, he was datin this girl for months then they broke up and he said i liked him as number 2 , then i was number 1 but after this he got back with his ex then they broke ...

Should I tell my best friend I love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - My friend is 15 n im 13 now, we had a thing for each other last year but when be asked me out, i got nervous and said 'no' i feel really bad cuz i loved him and said no. We still love each other he has told me that he does and i'd love to be able to ...

Is she playing the jealousy game? Should I call her bluff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5901 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - Met a woman back in Feb. and we dated until the end of June. We live in different states and the distance got to be too much. We decided to not date and then I got a job which I will be moving to her area. The job is a promotion and by no means ...