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writes:I have been in love with my best mate for 6 months an we have frantically flirted all that time and hung out together. He has a girlfriend he sees a couple of times a week, I have a boyfriend who works abroad i hardly ever see him.2 days ago he told me i was his perfect woman an he'd leave his girlfriend for me. we had fab sex, but now hes back trackin an says he cant leave his girlfriend so easily its more painful than he thought, i wld do any thing to be with him, an wld def end things with my bloke who i never see any way - wot shld i do i really havent an idea an just spend all my time pacing about with my stomach in a knot
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reader, meadowsweet +, writes (19 July 2010):
meadowsweet is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell its 2 years later, to the month, i split up with my boyfriend, and this guy i was mad about has split up with his gf.. we ve been sleeping together for 2 months, he calls to my house most days for tea and chat, he says he doesnt want a relationship...thing is i am still in love with him, always have been , should i play it cool in the hope he eventually falls for me, or should i tell him i love him an finish it if he doesnt feel the same...
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reader, meadowsweet +, writes (28 July 2008):
meadowsweet is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys, in the end he told me he's never giong to leave his GF and we should just forget it. your right he prob never had any intention of leavin her.
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (27 July 2008):
 He just wanted to get you into bed and thought that by telling you he was leaving his girlfriend it would make it easier. It did. Now he has had what he wanted he doesnt need to say he will leave her anymore. Keep clear of him he is a player and a cheat x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): I think that you friend wanted the best of both worlds by having you and his girlfriend. You should try and talk to him about it and explain how you feel and try to resolve the situation between you. But if this is not possible then you have to face up to the fact that he's not a good a friend as you first thought 1) because he did this to you in the first place knowing that he wouldn't leave his GF 2) that he's not mature enough to talk and resolve the situation. And about your BF, I think if you could do this to him and gladly finish with him for your friend then he his not the man for you anyway. If you felt anything for him then it would be harder for you to betray him. Good luck, I hope it works out for you xoxo
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