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I wish life had a reset button! I would have chosen another guy...

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Question - (23 July 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 July 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, *MLBabyDoll writes:

I wish life had a reset button...why? I know 3 guys 2 my friends both 15, 1 my boyfriend 14, all 3 love me. If life had a reset button i would of taken my chance with the guy that asked me out, i didnt take it so i messed up there. my 2nd friend, he is so sweet to me but he's only a friend, i jut found out today he loves me, right after i told him i had a bf. Now down to my bf....ha he doenst want me to talk to any guy or something like that, i've known myfriends for years is he tryin to take me from them? I love him so much but how should i react to my friends though i cant o out with my friends, can i? well not a good idea for me.... what should i do, bf doesnt wantto loose me to my friends, okay i get it. i dont know how to put my quetion....

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A female reader, VMLBabyDoll United States +, writes (24 July 2008):

VMLBabyDoll is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I know i have a bf and i said i love him i do really. its just the other 2 ppl thou, they're my friends they said they love ME! i love them as FRIENDS, i understand one asked me out (lets call him B),but i love him as a friend well now, plus he told me he doesnt give a second chance, im fine with that. The one that said he loves me today (lets call him R) is mine and Bs friend.These guys would never try to tare me away from my bf(lets call him V), but i honestly think V is tryin to tare me from them..... I just think im really confused with whats going on, if i could call someone (cant) then i could explain this better. Im sayn if life had a reset buttoni would know that this would of happend and i could fix where i screwed up in the relationships that i've got with V,B, and R. So yeah you are right i need to get my head straight....Thanks i'll think about this issue. Im always honest, now i hope they dont get mad for what im gonna say to them......I guess i'll rethink, its gonna hurt but i'll do it. Thank you 4 helping me out

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A female reader, the ex wife United States +, writes (24 July 2008):

the ex wife agony auntOk little one, this is simple. You are way too young for this much drama...lol Go with whatever will make you a good person in the end, whether you win or loose. One other thing, this is my theory "Don't ever want to change your past, thank your past for your today.". When you are my age, you will just laugh at this whole situation because you will most likely NOT end up with the guys who are involved.

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (24 July 2008):

O Connor agony auntyou say you love your bf sooo much when just before that you say you wish you had chosen someone else? you need to sort your head out!! you say you wish you had a reset button to change guys so stop lying to yourself that you love your bf!

you and all these guys are so young, so stop making life so hard on yourselves. if you dont wanna be with your boyf anymore then dont - he has plenty of time to get over it. if you wanna be with the other guy then be with him!!

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