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writes:i have a boyfriend that i have been seeing for a year now,problem is he broke up with me two times and asked me back and i accepted,thing is now his best friend says he is inlove with me and i am inlove with him too, i think about his best friend more than my boyfriend..me and his best friend spend a lot of time together.what do i do?i do not want to hurt my boyfriend but i love his best friend so much...help
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reader, KBABY  +, writes (8 July 2009):
I have the same problem. Me nd my boyfriend are in love(deeply) but me nd his bestfriend love each other too. The only thing i can really say to you is follow ur heart, if you feel that u are happier w/ ur boyfriends friend then dnt think about hurting ur boyfriend.... he left u twice! u deserve to be happy! =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): i know how you feel..im in the same situation right now. but mines probably a hella lot more complicated :/ ha
but my advise is to make sure you really love this guy and he really loves you back. and if so, then do what makes you happiest. which is going to be being in love. and when you truly are youre not going to need your exboyfriend. just let him down easy and try to remain friends with him...if hes willing to.
just remember..do what you know will make you happy :)
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reader, shelleyanne +, writes (31 July 2008):
 I've been there sweetheart. My advice is to leave them both alone. Your boyfriend obviously doesn't know what he wants, and neither do you. As for dating his best friend. Just don't do it. I know you're going to make your own mistakes, but i know from experience; it ruins lives.
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reader, QueenB gossip girl +, writes (31 July 2008):
Hey, well i have actually been in the same situation as you, i was with my boyfriend for nearly a year and then i fell in love with his bestfriend which eventually made me and my boyfriend split up. When i had finally broke up with my boyfriend, i missed him so much and i felt that i only wanted his bestfriend because it was becoming boring with my bf.
So what you do is make sure you completely love your boyfriend's bestfriend and if the answer is yes then you need to tell your boyfriend how you feel because it is not fair on him or you.
My advice is though make sure you really love this guy because if you start missing your boyfriend the chances are that he won't take you back. Just be careful and do what makes you happy! I know you don't want to hurt your boyfriend but ultimately you can't stay in a loveless relationship it isn't right and it hurts everyone involved so i wish you the best of luck, you know whats right for you and i hope things go well xxx QueenB
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