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Archived questions from: June, 2005 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

His ex girlfriend had a miscarriage and he wants to help her through it, but I might be pregnant too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7114 days ago

30 June 2005 (F) - Okay Cupid, I have one for you. I have been dating this guy for almost two months that I met in my Orchestra last semester. We connected right off the bat, my only concern at the time is that he had broken up with his ex-girlfriend two months prior. ...

I'm married... he's married, but he said he was "madly in love" with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7114 days ago

29 June 2005 (F) - I have been seeing a married man for about 7 years. It all started as a bit of fun with a sneaky cuddle here and there and a few trips to the cinema. In the last year I myself have married my partner of 10 years and had 2 children. Just lately t...

I feel for an older guy, then we broke up. Now I'm with someone else and my feelings for my ex are back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7111 days ago

29 June 2005 (?) - I met "Chris" when I was 17-he was 42. Everyone thought I was crazy but we had such a great relationship and are still very close. We split up 2 years ago then I met my current boyfriend "Dom" whom I have a great relationship with. But, I visited ...

If he thinks I'm so hot, why won't he dump his girlfriend for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - Hi, Here's my problem, this guy I have known for about 4 years always flirts around me. He tells me I'm special, sexy, high up in his books and would make a great gf. He has even said he loves me but he has a gf. He has had this gf for the whole ti...

Falling for my boyfriend's best friend. Help!

This question has 158 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

28 June 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriends for a couple of years now but I have fallen in love with somebody else: his best friend! What do I do? I love his friend but do not think he loves me. Do I just stay with my boyfriend and hope that it is just a passin...

I'm starting to fall for a work-friend and I think if he came onto me, I wouldn't be able to resist...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7117 days ago

27 June 2005 (?) - Do I end it after 6 years? I met my current boy 6 years ago when I was 19. I had not had sex with anyone else and didn't really get to experiment with my sexuality amongst guys or girls. He was my first love and someone who I have had an incredibl...

What started out as a harmless crush is really starting to develop... much to my chagrin!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

25 June 2005 (?) - I have been working with this guy for nearly 3 years already. I've always had a crush on him but the first time we met, he was in the process of a divorce (he's 28 and I'm 24 at present) and he was my boss at that time. I also had my own problems in ...

His ex-girlfriend rings him, and vice versa. Am I the bad guy for wanting it to stop?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6989 days ago

23 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend, whom I have been dating for about 8 months, still talks to his ex-girlfriend almost every day. It bothers me because I feel that he is not over her; even though he tells me they are "just friends". She always calls him when she is d...

I'm interested in her, and I want to win her over from our workmate...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7122 days ago

21 June 2005 (?) - I have a friend who I have known for a while now and recently we have been hanging out a lot. As we started to hang out more I suddenly became very attracted to her and I really like her. Then, a guy from my work, who is 1 year older than both of ...

Why am I jealous of my husband's time with his adult daughter?

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

20 June 2005 (?) - I have recently got married for the second time. We both have children, but my husband's are grown up. Except for his 18yr old daughter whom he is still very close with. I find it difficult to accept their close relationship as sometimes it has infr...

Does the 7-year itch cover visits to prostitutes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

20 June 2005 (?) - My partner of 7 years recently visited a prostitute. They didn't have full sex and he admitted to me what he had done the day after. He said that his reason for going was that as I had been the only woman he had ever been with he had got curious ...

My girlfriend spends too much time flirting with other guys!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

20 June 2005 (?) - I have been with my girlfriend for a year and a half and recently things havent seemed right. She spends a lot of time with a 'friend' but I have met the guy and don't trust him. A few days ago my girlfriend swapped sim cards in to my phone an...

Was I out of line being offended that my female friend would show an interest in someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7122 days ago

20 June 2005 (?) - I had a very regrettable night the other night with my female companion who I have known for over 2 years. We were just doing the usual thing, having a drink at the table we were at the club we regularly go to. All of a sudden this guy decides ...

My best friend and my boyfriend can't stand each other!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7112 days ago

20 June 2005 (?) - Jealousy & competition I'm dating a wonderful man but my closest girlfriend does not get along with him & he doesn't like her either. When they first met, it was great, but over the past year, they've developed mutual conflict. They both accu...

She says there's no chance of her going out with my mate... ever. But I still get worried!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7125 days ago

19 June 2005 (?) - Hi.... Ok here's my question. I've been dating this girl for 2 months now.... it's been all good and I love her very much. Just before we got started we had a mutual close friend. He'd known the girl longer than I had so I thought I'd get some ins...

Don't want to come between brothers, but do I give up on the man I have feelings for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6986 days ago

19 June 2005 (?) - I need advice. I have been friends with this guy (J) for a long time, and recently we both confessed that we have feelings for each other. The problem is that i dated his brother (R) 3 1/2 years ago and he found out about us. (R) was furious, ...

How can a mere girlfriend compete with my boyfriend's Mommy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7127 days ago

17 June 2005 (?) - My problem is boyfriend is 31 and lives at home with mommy. She makes things so easy for him and has him doing things for her, which is okay to a point. We have had an on/off relationship for 10 yrs. His mother is my competition. How can I ever w...

Six months after their break-up, and a marriage and pregnancy later - my bf still wants his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7127 days ago

17 June 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 months now. Recently we had the love discussion. He said that he felt as though he was falling in love with me and I told him that i already was. About 2 weeks later he suddenly anno...

He won't give me up and he sleeps with someone else., too. Neither of us can say NO.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7127 days ago

16 June 2005 (?) - Long love triangle. Was with ex for 18 yrs on/off. Split 3 yes ago drinking & cheating. Can't get over him. He now lives with g/f, not the one he cheated with. She's with one of his mates now as we (him & I) couldn't stay away from each other & ...

Even though I love my boyfriend, secretly, I want my ex back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7127 days ago

16 June 2005 (?) - Hi there, please help me. I was with my ex for nearly three years and have been with my current bf for just over a year. Obvious then that I really do have feelings for him. However, I am still in contact with my ex which my bf knows about an...

I trusted my boyfriend to lose the one-night-stand, but he's been seeing her for months!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6739 days ago

16 June 2005 (?) - About 8 months ago by boyfriend had a one night stand with another girl. I forgave him and we have now been going out for a year. The girl was, at the time, one of his friends but after this happened I told him never to talk to her again, and I was ...

My gf can't seem to move on from her ex... and I can't move on from her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7124 days ago

15 June 2005 (?) - Hi everyone,. I hope some of you agony aunts and uncles can give me some advise. Last year I met a wonderful girl, she is a lot younger than me and we both had a few problems of our own, she had just come out of a relationship, although she ass...

My bf wanted to learn to satisfy women, so he started with our landlord!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6159 days ago

15 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I haven't ever been able to have an orgasm during sex. But, this has been the case for all of my life. I didn't think it was that big of a deal, but my BF did. He said that before w...

I'm the girlfriend, but his female friend is jealous of me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7126 days ago

15 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend's female friend who he lives with is extremely jealous and it's really affecting our relationship because she makes him feel guilty about spending time with me. What is the best thing to do?...

I trusted him, but my mum didn't. Now he's mad at me and says it's over!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7130 days ago

14 June 2005 (?) - Hi. My boyfriend of nearly a year broke up with me last week because he had interest in another girl. But two days afterwards he phoned me and said that nothing happened with her because he still had feeling for me. That night we met up and talked ...

My ex-husband just uses me and the kids as a "back up" while he waits for the next relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

14 June 2005 (?) - I have been divorced for for 11 months, and my ex got married to this woman and he did everything for her and bought her the world. We have two kids together and she finally got to know the girls around 4 months age. My oldest daughter was gett...

I don't want to stop my boyfriend from having friends, but he treats her better than he treats me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7127 days ago

13 June 2005 (?) - Me and my boyfriend are having a baby soon and have been together for three years. I love him very much. Recently he has become really close to another girl. They text each other all the time and she's the one that he mostly spends with at the ...

Even though we live together, we have no physical contact, and now I've fallen for someone at work...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7108 days ago

13 June 2005 (?) - I've been with my partner for 6 and a half years now. We live together and have a son together. We have had no physical contact for about 3 years now and I've recently started work and have fell for someone there. I can't get him out of my head. I ...

Do I tell my boyfriend what happened when I was passed out, or will he leave me for good if I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

12 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend told me he was thinking about breaking up with me. I love him so much and was devastated, so I went out to a party and I told myself since techincially he hadn't broken up yet not to do anything stupid. Well I got really intoxica...

Cheated on Guy No. 1 with Guy No.2... I'm still with Guy No. 2, but falling for Guy No. 3!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7058 days ago

11 June 2005 (?) - I was with this guy for over a year and a half. Things weren't working out so I ended up cheating on him. The guy I cheated on him is the guy I am still with. The problem is I have this guy friend who I am really close to and I have liked for a lo...

Think I might have feelings for my wife's gay friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7131 days ago

11 June 2005 (?) - My wife's best friend is gay - and I think I'm falling for him. I don't think I'm gay but I have had feelings for men in the past. This guy is really nice though - we get along really well, play fight and flirt all the time. He's recently broken u...

My online woman doesn't know I'm married, and my wife doesn't know I'm cheating...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

10 June 2005 (?) - I embarked on an internet dating agency even though I am happily married. The problem is I have fallen head over heels with a lady I met. We have made love on numerous occations, then problem is I still love my wife but I also am deeply in love with ...

The boss gives me a cuddle before he goes home to his wife...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7134 days ago

10 June 2005 (?) - I've got this problem with my boss. I think he fancies me cos of the way he is with me. He keeps touching me and cuddling me and always comes to see me before he goes home to his wife. I quite like this. It's very flattering and sweet and now I'm ...

Why do I get so annoyed by my partner's ex-wife?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

10 June 2005 (?) - I am a 23 year old female. My boyfriend is 31 and has a six year old daughter with his ex wife. Every Friday he drives 45 mins to drop his daughter off at her mum's and picks her up every Sunday. His ex texts him quite often asking him to do th...

Recently, he asked if we could have an open relationship and if he could sleep with our new flatmate...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

10 June 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months next week and living together for 8 months. Over the last few weeks he has been hot and cold and recently asked if he could sleep with our new flatmate or have an open relationship. I was hurt as ...

My sleeping with other guys is OK with my husband... but will that include his brother?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

9 June 2005 (?) - Lemme give you some background. I am 32 and married 10 years to a 34 yr old wonderful man and we've enjoyed a great marriage and friendship. We have a open relationship. It's complicated. I can have sex with another man in our bedroom with the ...

My g/f has been seeing my best mate, but I only hate him. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6568 days ago

9 June 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I'd been dating a fantastic girl for over a year when she dumped me last week. Things have been difficult for a few months as I had a new job and she was in the run-up to her final exams at university. Yesterday I discovered she's...

My ex is off drugs and wants to come back, but in the meantime I'm dating someone else, too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6667 days ago

9 June 2005 (?) - I have gotten myself in a bit of a love triangle and I am suffering completely for it. Please help. My boyfriend of 2 years and I had been experiencing many bad times. He always ignored me, was around then wasn't around, and we fought a lot to s...

I'm a girl in love with my best girl friend... but she's already with a guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6341 days ago

8 June 2005 (?) - Ok my problem is that I'm in love with my best friend. I'm a lesbian and she is a girl- I've never actually told her this outright, but it's quite obvious so I guess she might kinda know. But she has a boyfriend (the 3 of us live together with an...

He seems to think of me all the time, so why has he got a new girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7136 days ago

8 June 2005 (?) - I've been in love with the same man for 7 years. We've been on and off. He has a girlfriend now but he still have feelings for me, and he's very honest about what he feels. To me he seems confused. I love him and I want to be with him but I don't ...

She offered me a threesome, but I'd rather sleep with her one-on-one...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

7 June 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm in a bit of an awkward situation. I'm a male guy who has a female friend who is going out with my mate, however tonight I was talking to her online and she asked me to have a threesome with her (she is bisexual) so I said to her I prefer ...

He was separated when we first went out; now his wife is back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7137 days ago

7 June 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, a few months ago I met this guy who truly loves me, and the problem is he was once married and has a child. When I met him he was separated from his wife and child, so I went out with him with no problem. Now she is back, I don't know ...

I make him happy in ways his wife can't... Now what do I do?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

6 June 2005 (?) - I have somehow gotten myself into a relationship with a married man. He set boundaries at the beginning stating what he was comfortable with happening between the two of us, but he has slowly broken all of his own rules. He is definitely starting to ...

An old flame has contact me... but I'm married now!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 2763 days ago

5 June 2005 (?) - I have been married for 10 years and thought the relationship was pretty good. Suddenly a girl from 12 years in may past contacted me and I know she had tried a few times over the years. She truly was the love of my life but we parted due to ...

I got dumped for a younger girl. Now he's back, but I can't stop thinking of the hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7139 days ago

5 June 2005 (?) - I'm 18. I dated this guy for about 7 months and we were crazy about each other. But we fought a lot, and he ended up breaking up with me to date a girl 3 years younger.... To make a long story short, 4 months later, he was back with me where he ...

I love my boyfriend deeply, but I still think about my best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7139 days ago

5 June 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, and I love him deeply and more than anything in the world. I plan on some day marrying him. But before I was with him I started having feelings for my best friend. At first I thought it was just...

I'm suspicious of my boyfriends and all the girls he works with... (long)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7031 days ago

5 June 2005 (?) - Am I ruining my relationship with suspicion? I'm 34 my boyfriend is 33. (We will call him K) We have been together for almost five years. I have been married twice before. Both of them were liars and cheaters. One had a child with my own sister. ...

My wife can't see that I'm a better partner than her (male) friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7137 days ago

4 June 2005 (?) - My wife and I have been together for about 8 yrs now. 5 yrs before marrige and 3 after. We have a son 1.5 yrs old. Before marriage my wife was attracted to her best friend who was also in love with her. She admitted that to me and we worked through ...

Can I have one last fling with an incredible guy on my way to the altar, or not?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

2 June 2005 (?) - I am getting married in August to a man I love very much and we are in a very happy relationship. However I met a man through work, and we made a heart stopping connection. There is a chemistry between us and I can't stop thinking about him. I rece...

Should I believe my bf when he says that the raunchy text message wasn't his?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6371 days ago

1 June 2005 (?) - Been dating 3+ years, thought he was Mr Perfect. Found a raunchy outgoing text on his phone that seemed to imply having slept with whoever he sent the text to. (wasnt Me!) Went nuts but he insists he lent his mobile to his friend who put his sim ...