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writes: I'm 18. I dated this guy for about 7 months and we were crazy about each other. But we fought a lot, and he ended up breaking up with me to date a girl 3 years younger.... To make a long story short, 4 months later, he was back with me where he wanted to be all along. But I still can't get over how hurt I was when he was with her- I lost weight, couldn't sleep, couldn't eat, etc. Now that we are back together, I can't get over how hurt I was. I mean, I'm absolutely thrilled to be with him, I love him, but I obsess about her, and it's coming in between us now. I'm pretty sure the only way I'll stop hurting and stop hating this girl is to stop loving him...what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (6 June 2005):
 Baby girl, why in the heck did you take this jerk back? You knew you were going to still be jealous. Hurt like this only goes away if you support the healing. Let him go. As long as you are with him, you will continue to feel the hurt. He cannot erase what has happened. And you are only human, you may be able to forgive but it's hard as heck to forget. Especially when the cause of your hurt is staring you back in the face. Let him go darlin', let the healing process begin again. You will find someone who values your love and sacrifice. He's out there looking for you. But you have to heal first so your new love can have a fresh you, one he deserves. Take care, sweetie.
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