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writes: I have a friend who I have known for a while now and recently we have been hanging out a lot. As we started to hang out more I suddenly became very attracted to her and I really like her. Then, a guy from my work, who is 1 year older than both of us, started hanging out with us. As of a little over a month we have been hanging out, just the three of us. Now he likes her and she is starting to lean towards him. I really like her and I know that she knows, but she doesnt know I know. Also, he knows that I like her a lot because we talk about her together. Anyways I was wondering what I should do in this case, and if you have any ideas of how to win her over. Thanks for your help, SincerlyHopelessinlove Reply to this Question
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (22 June 2005):
 Well, I guess you could just come right out and tell her you like her and see what she says and does then?
What does your friend feel for her? Does he like her too in the way you do? Is he competition for her affections I wonder.
I shouldn't think you want to lose either of them as friends, nor they you so perhaps the most mature thing to do would be to be upfront about how you feel. Tell her you really like her and suggest taking her out. She will then let you know if she just wants to remain friends. Hopefully, you will still feel able to be friends with her if that is the case.
Tell your friend what you are planning to do, hopefully he will be supportive and then pluck up your courage and ask her out!
Good luck.
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