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writes: Do I end it after 6 years?I met my current boy 6 years ago when I was 19. I had not had sex with anyone else and didn't really get to experiment with my sexuality amongst guys or girls. He was my first love and someone who I have had an incredible time with. Around three years ago I seriously had fears that I was about to cheat on him with a guy I was working with at the time. I told him later that I had had these feelings for another guy and that nothing happened however it had frightened me a lot. He was very relieved that I did nothing and was 100% honest with him and nothing more was mentioned. Now in the last 6 months I have noticed myself falling for my work partner (whom I have been very good friends with for the past 2.5years). It wouldn't matter except that I am starting to become really attracted him. I think it could very well be mutual. Whilst i would never persue anything i am not sure what I would do if my work partner came onto me. Is there ever such a thing as a successful break from a boyfriend? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2005): I've read your question & what it's telling me is that you're ready to move on. You've been open & honest with him & now it's time to be honest with yourself. I know you don't like the idea of hurting him but it's better to do it on "good" terms rather than doing something silly & turning your life into hells kitchen! Reverse the roles & do it the way you would want him to treat you.
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reader, aunt april  +, writes (28 June 2005):
first of all you're not totally sure that this guy has feelings for you so it would be stupid of you to end your current relationship and not have him to fall back on take things slow this just might be a crush if you really love your boyfriend you will forget about the other man.
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