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writes: I've been with my partner for 6 and a half years now. We live together and have a son together. We have had no physical contact for about 3 years now and I've recently started work and have fell for someone there. I can't get him out of my head. I think he feels the same way too, I'm stuck and dont know where to turn. What should I do ?
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reader, becky05 +, writes (6 July 2005):
Accept that your relationship with your partner is dead. Talk to him and decide how to end things and then move on with your life.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (14 June 2005):
 You really need to find out why there is not intimacy with you and your current partner, and decide whether there is a future for you, it sounds as though you have gotten in to a routine and you are together for the sake of your son. Sit and talk to your partner first and see if you can change how thigns are as you will be interested in someone else purely becuase you are feeling neglected at home, so any attention from someone else would be good even though it may not be right. Have a discussion and see if the two of you can work it out... if you are both that unhappy you will need to do something about it, bite the bullet and move on. You will be best to sort out this with your current partner first before getting involved with someone else as this will give you a chance to see how you feel, and will beless complicated.. it would make for a messsy split if you get it on with someone else without giving your partner the chance to recover your relationship. If things dont change and you see no future for the two of you, then end the relationship first before embarking on a new one. But do do whats best for you, and not what this other person wants. If he likes you that much he will understand that you have to give it a go with your partner and if things dont pan out you will have a clearer picture of what you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2005): If you have no physical contact that is not a relationship. Sex is a major role in any relationship and anyone who tells you otherwise is a liar. Once you stop having sex everything else goes with it. If you are stimulated by some one else then go for it. Make yourself happy, and forget about other people.
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