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writes: Hi,Here's my problem, this guy I have known for about 4 years always flirts around me. He tells me I'm special, sexy, high up in his books and would make a great gf. He has even said he loves me but he has a gf. He has had this gf for the whole time I have known him so why won't leave her for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2006): he is scared to take a chance. . simple as that. . i lost the one shot i had at that special person because i was too scared to leave somthing im still stuck in. .
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reader, becky05 +, writes (29 June 2005):
He wont leave her because it sounds like he wants to have an affair with you. By giving you all these compliments, hes buttering you up and making you like him but dont be fooled, he'll never leave his girlfriend if he hasnt done so already.
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reader, matuatabu +, writes (29 June 2005):
Just face up to it...if he has a gf then you shouldn't have wasted your time on him..just move on..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2005): This is going to be hard. But if you want to get somewhere with him you have got to lay it out for him straight. Tell him how you feel and just check with him as to whether you are wasting his time. Whatever he says you can act upon whether that means moving on or actually dating. Either way you wont be stuck in limbo or having your heart torn out by someone who isn't serious about you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2005): The reason why he won't leave his girlfriend for you is..he genuinely loves and respects his girlfriend. She is Number ONE in his books and just because you "look" sexy and he flirts with you...doesn't mean he's in love with you. By telling you he loves you is cruel...He's leading you on...he's just is lusting after you for some fun kicks. Go find your own man and leave another woman's b/f alone. This guy sounds like a player, anyways. He isn't worth it. Go find a man who will sincerely treat you well and love you for just who you are.
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reader, thats1foru +, writes (28 June 2005):
Why would you want him to dump his girlfriend for you? Don't you know that old saying?! If he did it to her he will and is going to do it to you? I think that you need to find your own boyfriend and leave other people's men alone. Remember that beauty can only take you so far; the rest you are going to have to do on your own and that is going to take brain work. Never settle for anyone else's left overs.
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