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Archived questions from: March, 2014 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

How did my close friend manage to keep all this to herself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

31 March 2014 (M) - I can't understand what happened on saturday night with this girl i'm friends with, i've known her three years and never seen this side of her!! She's always been a confident, talkative and happy girl. We're on the same course at university and I...

I can't block the ex because we work together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - Just a week ago my boyfriend told me that his no longer interested in me and wants to move forward with another girl. I have deleted all his contacts and pictures from my laptop and cell. Worst thing is we both are working in the same company. ...

Regaining sexual confidence after wife cheated

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

30 March 2014 (M) - I have a question on confidence lost for a man after my wife of 20 years cheated on me. Basically we had been together for 20 years, I was 17 when we met, she was 16. About 2 and a half years ago she cheated on me with an old friend of hers. ...

Fallen in love with a guy who told me he is not ready to commit from the start.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

30 March 2014 (F) - This is not my first broken heart. I've had worst. I just seem to not being able to let this one go. Scenario: I work in a healthcare industry as an Administrator, met an owner of a pharmacy who is 9 years older than me. He told me from the star...

Does my FWB want more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Let me start from the beginning, I signed up for a dating site, decided after a few days it wasn't my thing. I later found a message on FB from a guy who found me on the dating site. He said my profile disappeared, so he Googled my email address. WE ...

Don't know if I want to date him or get back with my ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Is it ok to go to watch a show at the theatre with a man that isn't your boyfriend?. What do you think about that?. I don't know if I want to date this guy, and I don't know if he wants to date me. I'm also not sure whether I will get back with my ...

I feel he has been rewarded for leading me on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was with my boyfriend for 9 months. The relationship ended because I pushed him to move in with me and he was clearly not sure. I was patient but then he decided to end it with no reason as to why. He never formally did this - just ...

I need help in understanding ......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

29 March 2014 (F) - MOD NOTE: Two questions from same asker, combined. Firstly let me say that this is kind of my last hope of getting some actual real advice. I have been with this guy for a year now actually a year since yesterday. Lately he's been really distant,...

Can I never trust a guy after this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - Please help me. In January I met a guy in Facebook and we both started chatting. After few days of chatting we both exchanged our contact number and he started calling me. After few weeks we decided to meet at one of his friends home. We both wer...

I'm worried I should have given it more time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

27 March 2014 (F) - I met a guy and we dated for 3 months and it was amazing in the beginning he chased me took me to places I met all his friends. The only thing was that he ended a relationship for 2 years and after 3 months she started to date his friend so that ...

I genuinely thought I was over my ex, but lately I keep thinking about him and it's getting me down!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Hi guys, I'm having a bit of a rough time at the minute. My relationship with my ex ended 2 years ago after several break-ups and him cheating. However, we do consider each other friends and do speak every so often. I thought i had moved on and...

Should I give it another try? Really miss him, but he's still broken over his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Ive been seeing a guy for 2 months, and i really like him, but hes not over his ex girlfriend. She dumped him and she is now seeing one of his best friends, so he's really hurting from it still. However we had an amazing 2 months together spe...

How can I control the jealousy I feel when he visits his daughter from a previous relationship, especially now that we have a child of our own?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - Me my boyfriend have a child together and he also has a child from his first relationship... often he goes to spend time with his other daughter and it's really getting on my love. He loves his daughter very much but sometimes I hate the fact th...

My ex and I made each other miserable, but we had a spark I don't feel with my current boyfriend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

26 March 2014 (F) - I was completely in love with someone a while back. Person B. It was the first time I had ever fallen for someone, and It was insanely intense. One thing lead to another and we ended it. While we were a rather passionate couple, we made eachothe...

Feels like no one is genuinely excited about our engagement. There are challenges. What can I do to cope with it all?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - It feels like no one is genuinely excited about my recent engagement. I've been dating a wonderful man for about 6 months and he recently proposed. We are in a long distance relationship, and there are a lot of challenges to us being together-t...

I'm clear that it's over between us, he's not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - My "ex" boyfriend and i have not talked in three months. i wanted the break but hes not over me. he texts me, calls me and emails me. I told him i dun wan this relationship anymore. he treated me bad. now i've moved on. i've been hurt too much to go ...

My GF is mates with her ex GF.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3894 days ago

25 March 2014 (F) - my GF and i been together a few years but she is back in contact with her ex partner who she was with a long time also and lost touch with but are now friends and in touch again. they talk on the phone now and again and meet up. i havent said ...

Am I right to wait for this girl after she broke up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

24 March 2014 (M) - Here's my situation: I've been in a relationship with this girl for 9 months now. She's a wonderful girl, and complements me in so many ways that I really thought we were sort of perfect for each other. I'm more of a cynic and don't get 'happy' ...

Is it even normal to spend so much time with someone who you dated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - I feel horrible for feeling like this but I can't stand the fact my boyfriend is still such good friends with his ex girlfriend. Is it even normal to spend so much time with someone who you dated?! We have been together for 8 months, and it w...

Why won't he dance with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - My husband to be dance competitively in college - salsa, tango and ballroom with his ex wife for many years. We've been together 3 1/2 yrs and not once has he taken me dancing. Our wedding is this summer and I don't know how to deal with the first ...

Should I worry about him checking out his ex on facebook ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We live together, have a puppy and were going to buy a house and get married next year. I just have a niggling suspicion that my boyfriend still has some feeling for his ex. Be it hate, longin...

I still have feelings for my ex, but she didn't reply to me. I deleted her number; what should I do next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

23 March 2014 (F) - I can't stop thinking about my ex-girlfriend. We broke up 6 months ago. I asked her out for drinks tonight; she said she will let me know but she never text me back. I am here over thinking and trying to get my mind off but I am going crazy. I ...

My current boyfriend versus. my ex... help!!! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - Hi, just going to skip to the point realy, My ex-boyfriend- i still have little feelings for him,but they aren't as extreme as some people think, i don't know what to do though. We hardly talk anymore and i'm still in teenage years so you kno...

A super out-of-the-blue booty call? Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

22 March 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, and thanks ahead of time for your advice. I appreciate you reading this and giving me your thoughts. I'm nearly 23, and in October '13, I broke up with a boyfriend of nearly three years. It was the most toxic relationship I h...

I hate seeing this woman hurt and string my friend along. Is there anything I can do to help her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - I need some advice. I have a friend who I am really close to. We share a lot with each other and have the type of friendship where we can speak openly. Recently she told me that she felt she could always come to me with a problem because I was ho...

My ex boyfriend keeps going back and forth between telling me to move on and then contacting me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Hi Everyone, My last post was an issue with the older ex boyfriend. Since the last post I've been ignoring him and now he's texting me and trying to get my attention. I ignored each text after another. Problem is I just can't understand wha...

Facing the guy that hurt me, advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - Hi, I posted not long ago about my situation with a boyfriend who I met at my works meal and he was our waiter, he was very full on telling me that he loves me after 2 weeks and took me to meet his mum then dissappears on me and I never hear from ...

Do I act crazy and tell my ex I love her or just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3903 days ago

21 March 2014 (F) - I met my ex-gf for drinks for the first time in months. She actually asked me out. We work for the same company so it was more like a work stress relief. She felt like she wanted to clear the air between us. It was a rocky separation; but the ...

This guy is a scum. Do I tell his gf?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

20 March 2014 (F) - My ex dumped me about a year ago. We had been together for 4 years, including 2 years LDR. We planned to get married, but he broke up with me 2 months before we could finally see each other. He thought I was too clingy. He cheated on me twice before ...

Should I get back with my ex even if he took advantage of me financially?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me 4 days ago and after seeing him at work . He texted me Good job tonight and he feels hurt and embarrassed to take a break from relationship. Should I get back with him even if he took financially advantage of me? I...

I'm feeling like a fool after calling my ex again

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

19 March 2014 (F) - I was at work Saturday past and i was thinking of my ex so i decided to call him, we talked and then he started to bring up the past so it lead to arguing and now he says that he feels good that he made me mad. My question is y do he keeps bringing ...

How can my ex and my current boyfriend and I all get along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

18 March 2014 (F) - My ex and my boyfriend argue and throw insults at each other whenever they meet, and now I have had to arange for my ex to pick our child up at my sister's house to avoid this from happening at our family home. However it doesn't stop them bad ...

My anxiety gets in the way, what I do to learn to just smile, enjoy being with her and take it as it comes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

18 March 2014 (M) - I have recently started dating the best girl I've ever met, and I am finding it hard to switch off. I enjoy my time with her, but I have been plagued with anxiety problems from previous breakups and I find it hard not to feel the same about her. ...

What kind of game is my ex playing? DId our kiss mean anything to hiim?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

18 March 2014 (F) - So here's the story... meet my ex 4 years ago (2010), he broke up with me after 5 months (april to september) for his ex (who cheated on him before he met me) (Our relationship had everything one should have, trust, love, freedom etc) he then get...

My ex won't let me move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3906 days ago

17 March 2014 (F) - Ok so... I had been with my ex boyfriend for 2 years. We had a very toxic relationship and looking back i really wish i had got out sooner. We would constantly argue, he was very spiteful towards me, he was addicted to porn lied to me on a numbe...

How do I stop basing my life around him and his visits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

15 March 2014 (F) - I was with my ex for 3 and half yrs on and off , we broke up last time In November last year although it was just like any other time I imagined where we would reconcile after a few weeks or months . This time though I found out just after Xmas he ...

I'm honestly scared that their feelings for each other might come back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3909 days ago

14 March 2014 (F) - My boyfriend has been talking to his ex girlfriend recently (after them having almost no contact for the last 6 months or so) and I'm a little worried. They have been broken up for almost 2 years now(and were together 2 years) and we have been...

I just can't help thinking that maybe he was more satisfied with her in the bedroom and now I'm even starting to think he may be comparing us in his head!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

12 March 2014 (F) - A few nights ago my boyfriend and I were talking and just goofing around and joking etc, and we ended up talking about his past sex life with his ex. This is the ex where they lost their virginity's together and the only girl he's ever been intimate ...

Feeling horribly guilty after breaking up with my boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

12 March 2014 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of two years, three weeks ago. I genuinely loved him and felt that we had a solid connection. Yet, throughout the course of our relationship, I had to pay for our $1800/month rent, the bills, and the majority of our ...

I feel my boyfriend was happier in his previous relationship than he is with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3911 days ago

12 March 2014 (F) - I seem to be having a problem and I would like to get some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months. I can honestly say I'm really in love with him and care a whole lot about him. This is what my problem is, I think he loved his...

He broke up with me but I don't feel like it's over

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

11 March 2014 (F) - I have recently been dumped my commitment phobic boyfriend. We were together for over 2 years, lived together, travelled a lot and I knew from day one he had a lot of emotional baggage. Now he's left me, but he still texts every morning and even...

His contact list has a photo of his ex wife but not one for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

11 March 2014 (F) - I'm hurt and confused, would you feel the same if you noticed your husband has a contact photo attached to his ex wife, his ex crush and even a platonic female friend but none for you. Does this mean I'm not pretty enough or not as special?...

I'm in love with someone I can't be with.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

10 March 2014 (M) - Dear Everyone, Some of you may say I'm a sad loser, but I'm really needing some advice. It's been almost 2 years since I split up with my girlfriend. I've never been so in love with anyone in my entire life! I've tried to move on. Dated oth...

How can I feel ok with my past now, especially when my boyfriend's past reminds me of how little I've lived?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

10 March 2014 (F) - I'm a very insecure woman and it's affecting me a lot now that I'm in a relationship. Ok, so first things first, I'm 25 and as a child I had friends and was sociable and didn't care about my appearance. When I grew up, as a teenager, I was ...

He might have called out another name, I'm not sure!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

10 March 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend around 3 1/2 years. Last night we were having sex [Mod note: overly graphic details removed] he was seeing *everything* up close and personal so there was NO way he could have mistaken me for someone else. He was ...

My girlfriend wants me to delete pictures of my ex's on Facebook... Is she overreacting or am I being unreasonable?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

10 March 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm sorry to say that this problem is due to Facebook, you probably get lots of these! My girlfriend wants me to delete photos of me and my ex-girlfriends from Facebook. She doesn't seem to like the idea of them being on my page and she say...

Should I? I want to confront my ex. We broke up 2 weeks ago. We dated for 4 years.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

10 March 2014 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years two weeks ago and now I want to confront her. Following the break up, I came to the conclusion that she's been interested in someone else - a "friend" - while we were dating. She had in fact cancelled p...

My boyfriend is still friends with his ex and I don't like it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

9 March 2014 (F) - My boyfriend keeps in touch with his ex-girlfriend, but I don't like it. I feel that past is the past, and ex's are ex's for a reason. What's the need to keep in touch? What is there to talk about. I'm not saying that he needs to be rude to her ( I ...

None of the guys I've dated since has been able to accept the fact that I'm friends with an old ex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

9 March 2014 (F) - Why do men find it such a big problem that im good friends with an old ex? Background- I got together with my first proper boyfriend when I was 15. We were together for 4 years and he was my first love and my first everything. We had a good young...

I am insecure about my body ........

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

9 March 2014 (F) - I really need help on overcoming my insecurity and body image issues . I have been married almost twenty years and am now separated . I have met someone and am extremely nervous about getting naked with him . I know he has been with women who have ...