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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend has been talking to his ex girlfriend recently (after them having almost no contact for the last 6 months or so) and I'm a little worried. They have been broken up for almost 2 years now(and were together 2 years) and we have been together for 1 year. What hurt me was when they were messaging each other, I saw how happy he got and how much he was laughing and stuff. Other than that he hasn't really said much else about what they talked about or anything. I know how much my boyfriend loved this girl. They were each other's first love and they had a really great relationship when they were together. I'm honestly scared that their feelings for each other might come back. All of this is making me very uneasy.How should I handle this type of thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2014): theres is no point being paranoid or making all sorts of 'what ifs' and storylines in your head, the only way to know for sure is to ask him. I have been in your boyfriends situation and my boyfriend tied himself in knotts and got really upset thinking there was something going on. I figured out something was wrong and talked to him about it, put his fears to rest.but it could have been solved much sooner if he had of just asked me rather than assuming the worst.
I think you should approach the subject with your boyfriend, whether he still has feelings for her or not, you have been in a relationship with this man for long enough that he owes you an answer and you owe it yourself to ask.
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