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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

G/f's ex FWB still contacts her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Me my gf have been going out for more than a year now we are living together. I don't think of my self as being a jealous or a controlling Bf. Her ex fuck buddy would text her every now and then for a chat. I have never like him contacting her b...

My g/f has been away for 6 days and I sexted another girl. Do I tell my g/f?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4422 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Hi guys, This website is really great and I hope i can get some decent advice from you :) So first off I am going to admit I am a douche regarding what I did, and I feel terrible. My current gf who I have been seeing for five months now is...

What do you think she's up to?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - So I dated my ex for 5 months, and everything was great except for a few really bad arguments. I wasnt committing to her, because i thought it was too early and wanted us to take our time, and she wound up breaking up with me. I realized i really w...

Is my ex in denial over our break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend last week over his bad temper and slight emotional abuse. Anyways we live together so it's hard to completely cut it off and not see him anymore but he said he would be looking for another place to live. We've been doing ...

My ex and I reconnected over Facebook and then he suddenly blocked me! Why would he do that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4421 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I sent a Facebook message to my ex boyfriend to smooth over the awkwardness after we broke up (almost a year ago) and kind of extend a hand of friendship, which he gladly accepted. A few months after we broke up he wanted to get back together or ...

Why can't I ever get a guy who cares about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Ok so here I'm going to give a little back ground before I ask the question hopefully so you all somewhaht get a better idea of what is going on. In July, me and my ex broke up because I found out he was cheating. Well, I gave him another chance a...

How do I get this balance right between wanting to be myself and neither be a doormat or too much like his ex? I want to be appropriately assertive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hello Everyone, I've asked for help before about a relatively new relationship and it was so helpful - but I have another question please... my confidence is still a bit low in regard to relationships because I had a very difficult one for a ver...

Does the love for a previous partner fade away in time, or is there always something there?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - This question is directed mainly at the guys, but ladies please feel free to answer too :) My current boyfriend is my first for everything, and hopefully he'll be my last! We're a long distance couple, have been together for two years now and I ...

My boyfriend asked me if he could be friends with his ex girlfriend who he was deeply in love with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - We are engaged to be married and have been seeing each other for 3 years. His last ex-girlfriend dumped him badly. He was deeply in love with her. When we got together after their break-up which was only two months later, he called me her na...

I'm having a hard time letting go... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4428 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - This guy and I went on and off for 8 months. We moved extremly fast, moved in 2 weeks of our relationship., the first time we split he said he wasn't ready to be in a commited relationship, and the pain felt unbearable. 2 weeks after I was just at ...

I found out recently that my ex cheated on me far more than I realized. Should I talk to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - So I was with this guy for 5 years; we didn't work out for certain reasons. And I've moved on, I'm dating someone else who I deeply care about. Recently i hung out with me and my ex's mutual friend and he confided in me that the entire time me and ...

Is the man I'm dating waiting in the wings for his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4426 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Hello, My bf and I have been in a relationship for about two months. He has two children with someone else and they are still friends which is fine but @ times I feel he's still very involved with her life. She has a total of 6 kids and has bee...

What did the dream about my ex mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4430 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Well i know this isn't the best question for this site but i feel lke there is an answer some where. Anyways i dreamt that my my ex was crying and hugging me telling me he misses me and loves me and doesn't care if im dating someone else. Well i ...

I always think about my ex's in my relationships and I can never be satisfied with the present, and its stopping me from falling in love! What is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - I don't know what's wrong with me, but please help me out! When I start dating a new guy, I always think about my exes and I don't feel happy because I'm thinking of/comparing him to the previous guy. It's like I can never be satisfied with the ...

Why does my ex still keep letters and pictures of me, when he was the one that broke up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Well my ex and i were together for 7 months and i recently found out he still has a spot where he stores all of the letters and childhood pictures of me. i found out because his mom only knows im currently dating right now but why does he still have ...

Why is he ignoring my requests to return my things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Hi there. I had been dating a man for just over a year. We had spoken of getting married ETC. He suffers from depression therefore it was not uncommon for him to be distant sometimes. A few months ago he told me that he would like to leave things ...

She broke my trust in her... what shall I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4431 days ago

25 September 2012 (M) - i met one girl proposed her, she accept me with one condition need time to settle her other time pass love which is without sex, i said yes. in one year she went her ex room to settle with him lots of times, since i trust her i never said no to ...

My best friend and ex-boyfriend: inappropriate friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Hey Everyone, I found out some information last night that is bugging/hurting me and i just would like opinions here. I was with this guy for three months(who i still really like) and he had hung out with my best friend a few times i guess...

What is everyone's take on your boy/girlfriend being friends with their ex's?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - So I've got a very basic question and would appreciate all the feedback I can get. I've been seeing my girlfriend for 3 months now, and minus a few bumps in the road here and there, we have a very stable, healthy relationship and a lot of trust in ...

I'm pregnant trying to be friends with ex and the girl he got pregnant but its making me sick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I am 6months pregnant with my first child.The father and I are not together because he was very mean to me and mentally abused and took advantage of me and lied all the time.But for the sake of the baby I still remained friends with him because he ...

I saw a picture he had drawn for an ex and it hurt me, how do I feel more secure about the past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend use online art sites because we both love drawing and makings things and both of us have online galleries where we share our art with friends. I was looking through my boyfriends gallery and looked at a piece that was from 6 ...

Contacted the wife of the Ex-Boyfriend she reconnected with on Facebook

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

25 September 2012 (M) - A follow up qustion from a few months ago. My wife's High School Crush and first sex partner from 18 years ago contacted her on Facebook. I posted about this a while back and my question is not about the contact itself between them. But a q...

Both somewhat newly single, but we get along so well!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4432 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - Hi agony aunts/uncles. Here's my situation... I just got out of a relationship of 1 year. It started out somewhat mutual but then it became me breaking up with him. I had been feeling off for a while, at least 2 months, and was already done with the...

Ex of 18 years left me for another man, married him and 3 years later I still can't move on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

23 September 2012 (M) - My partner of 18 years left me for another man. She gave me little explanation and I tried everything possible to resolve the situation but she didn't want to know. After three years she has married this man on the rebound. I desperately tryi...

Despite his flaws I can't get my ex out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - So I have a new boyfriend and he is the most amazing guy I have everrrr been with personality-wise and I really LOVE who he is, because he is caring and he supports me (even as far as going to auditions just to help me have the guts to follow my ...

I need to get over him. I need any ideas you can suggest to help me get over him completely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Hi I need Advice here is the case: before 4 years my BF and I were together for about a year then I got pregnant. That time he didn't have job I have a job, he told me we gonna be together and he will do his best to get a job, a give birth and af...

Is an Ex and Ex? And should it stay that way? I think my Bf may be in contact with this ex again.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - I suspect that my boyfriend might have added his ex-girlfriend back into his phone, I am not entirely sure. I just have a feeling he might have. Should I just ask him if I can look at it? I don't know if it seems odd. I really hate his ex and h...

He says I am the problem, but doesn't want me to get help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Well now where do i begin.. I've been married for 4 for starters total of 4 kids (2 from previous 10 yr relationship) I've known my husband for a total of 12 years altho we've only been together 6 we were friends before. My problem.. when he gets ...

Why does my married ex give me his schedule and tells me to call him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - My ex who now is married, talks to me often. My question is why does he not call me but says it's alright to call him??? He gives me his schedule so i know when to call. Why doesn't he just call me?? i have a bf and it's just nice to talk to an old ...

Am I overreacting to this text from his ex the night before her wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I am getting married in a month to the love of my life. He broke up with this girl 7 years ago and one of the reasons they broke up after a 5-year-realtionship was that she wanted to get married while he didn't. Today my fiancé got home and told me ...

Have you ever split from ex, one or both of you moved on, but later got back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - Question for anyone whos been through this........ Have you ever split from an ex where one of you has got into another relationship , engaged even, and then ended it because you and your ex were meant to be together? and then got back together? ...

Can I expect some kind of commitment from him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I have dated this guy for 2 months. It was a mess at first. Basically he dated me and my friend at the same time. I didn't know about this until my friend told me after a week. I talked to him and he said because we were not BF and GF yet so he...

My threesomes have come back to haunt me

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I am really in a bind and I don't know what to do. A little over a year ago I met my now fiancé. When we met we clicked instantly and became an item right away. He is charming, intelligent, attractive, educated and an all around great guy. About...

What does this master manipulator want now?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - My ex boyfriend went to detox and then rehab for alcohol. He lived with me for two months without paying any rent. When he went back to work, he got apartment secretly while he was living with me. All along he was making a thousands excuses ...

After 3 years of a FWB relationship, I broke it off. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

20 September 2012 (F) - I guess what I'm really looking for is affirmation that I did the right thing. I think I did, but it takes one varying opinon to make me reconsider what I did. Anyhow, I've been seeing this guy (not seriously for 3-years). I have dated and "...

How should I approach my ex husband's new girlfriend about keeping in touch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - i got married when i was 19 years old to a wonderful guy i was in love with since the age of 15.My husband is 7 years older than me. He is the most loving, caring person i have ever met who spoiled me like a princess. i'm separating now because ...

My boyfriend's ex still has keys to his flat

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - I'm so stressed out, I really need to share this, I've been with this guy for 3 months, very much like him, but his ex is always coming round. She has like keys to the flat, comes and stays for weekends if she's in town. Plus not only that but she ...

What are my options if my Bf wants to meet up with his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, Thanks for taking the time to read this. If someone could give me an advice, I would really appreciate it. Ok, after a year of gathering up my pieces from my previous break-up, I found myself again and started becoming serious inv...

What if he goes back to her? He is delaying signing the divorce papers served on him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - Hey everyone I've been dating this guy for a couple of months, I have never been happier..he keeps me happy..but now out of nowhere his wife comes in the picture he never told me about him being married..I was upset,I cried I broke things off and ...

I need my ex to be part of my life, how do I get him to be my friend despite me dating someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - How do i get my ex to at least try to be friends with me?? Despite of me dating someone else. He was an important person and in a way still is... i mean i feel like someday we will have another chance. But when we are more mature because we were ...

I need to stop! But how? I can't stop contacting an abusive ex boyfriend. Any tips on how to get stronger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - I can't seem to stop contacting my ex! Any tips? I was with him for 3 years and he turned out to be verbally and emotionally abusive that recently escalated into physical abuse on more than one occasion. We had a condo together and he stil...

My 48 year old husband left me for a 24 year old woman and I'm in need of more advice

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - i will ask my question and leave it at that you all know me. im the one who was left for a 24 year old my husband 48. i want to know why he insists on hurting me with his words. i have to pick up my temporary spousal support from him. and everytim...

My boyfriend is a bit too friendly with his ex wife whom he cheated on before we met

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - i have been dating a wonderful man for 6 and a half months. when i met him he was still living his ex wife in the basement of their home because he was waiting for it to sell. they had a very rocky 17 year relationship that he was never happy in...

I'm concerned about my 45 year old boyfriend's friendship with a 22 year old French woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend who is 45 has a female friend who is 22, who is French, who he met 4 years ago when she was visiting England. She visits every year and they hang out, also he has been to stay with her and her parents in France. The thing is, I...

My boyfriend keeps files on all his previous girlfriends

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend keeps files on all his ex-girlfriends. Is this normal? He was on a dating site before he met me and he had files, manila folders, with print-outs of the women he dated and their correspondence back and forth through the computer. ...

I treated her badly but now I want her back

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

18 September 2012 (M) - I cheated on a woman who was madly in love with me four years ago. Not only did I cheat on her, I disrespected her, lied to her, bit her, talked bad about her behind her back to co-workers and family members. I strung her along and I put her at risk ...

Should I make amends with my ex girlfriend who's getting married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

18 September 2012 (M) - i can't get over the fact that my first love, my college ex-girlfriend is getting married. I heard the news from my former roommate who was also a friend of hers. when she and i were together she was a bit apprehensive with the two of us having sex. ...

Does regular sex with a psuedo vagina have the same health benefits as any other form of sex? And is it OK to date while I am separated from my wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

18 September 2012 (M) - My wife has recently left me, so I have been using a fake vagina for release. I was wondering if having sex with a psuedo vagina has the same health benefits as having sex with a real person? Also I was wondering if it is acceptable to have sex with...

Am I over-reacting? He thinks he may have got a girl pregnant before he me me. I don't think my heart can take.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together going on seven months now I love him and he is the best thing that has happen to me in a long time. He is as good as they come I couldnt ask for a better man. We were expecting our first child together but I mi...

I don't know what he wants, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - Hi, Over the past year my ex has been in contact with me (up until now it's been three years since we were last together - he broke it off with me because his feelings apparently changed), it's been on and off contact. He was always quite fli...