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Why does my ex still keep letters and pictures of me, when he was the one that broke up with me?

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Question - (26 September 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 September 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well my ex and i were together for 7 months and i recently found out he still has a spot where he stores all of the letters and childhood pictures of me. i found out because his mom only knows im currently dating right now but why does he still have them he broke up with me? i also kept a couple of things but i got rid of most of it to help me move on, but i was just wondering why he still has them? and i tried bringing us back but he didnt soo any ideas?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (26 September 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntSweetie,

I'm 52 years old.

my first boyfriend was when I was 15 1/2 (till nearly 18 so a long time)... I still have pictures of him and me together.. and his sisters and family...from when we were teens...

it's part of my history and brings back memories of who I am and how I got to where I am...

don't think too much about it...some folks just like to have these memories...

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A female reader, Read-the-signs United Kingdom +, writes (26 September 2012):

Some people hoard things and some don't. It's just the different ways people behave. I'm always chucking stuff out and I don't have a single thing from any past relationship. I think it's a positive thing that he has these things, as looking at them must only be giving him a happy memory of the past. But I don't think it means he wants you back.

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