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My best friend and ex-boyfriend: inappropriate friendship?

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Question - (25 September 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 September 2012)
A female Canada age 30-35, *raphicChiky writes:

Hey Everyone,

I found out some information last night that is bugging/hurting me and i just would like opinions here.

I was with this guy for three months(who i still really like) and he had hung out with my best friend a few times i guess so they werent that close (she has a very bad drinking problem and sleeps around a lot due to low self esteem)

Anywho i trust my best friend with my life when she is sober i am a tiny bit nervous about her when shes been drinking.

but this last weekend my ex showed up at a bar event he would never ever normally go to and he was well aware my friend would be there. (She never told me about this found out through Facebook)

and they were at the same party the next night and she wanted to leave so he offered to drive her home (1/2 hr drive) free of charge .I asked her what they talked about and she said she was too drunk to remember.

Im the slightest bit nervous although i trust my friend but it seems like he is trying to sleep with her to hurt me..

any thoughts? am i being dumb or do i have a right to be upset.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (26 September 2012):

eyeswideopen agony auntOkay he's your EX so there's that at the git go. Secondly you don't know whether anything happened between them anyway. SOOO you really shouldn't be borrowing trouble on this. Remember he's your ex and you only dated a very short time so no biggie.

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A female reader, Plumb United States +, writes (26 September 2012):

Plumb agony auntYou have all rights to be upset, you should just tell her how much you trust her and hope that nothing happens when she's drunk that'll hurt you. I can't say it's her to blame if something were to happen because she's drunk but I would hope that she'd know not to mess with him..

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