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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I really thought there was chemistry between us. Did I read him completely wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

31 March 2009 (?) - So I'm in a bit of an awkward situation. A little background. My ex and I were together for what would have been two years next month. We broke up nearly 8 months ago but were on and off until February when I cut off all contact. He broke up with ...

Girlfriend plans to attend her ex-boyfriend's wedding (without me)! So upsetting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - recently i found out something about my gf's sexual past with one of her ex's that was TMI and in my opinion, borderline deal-breaker. we've talked about it a couple times and was making good tracks on moving past it because i think she's worth it, ...

X is just making me crazy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - Wondering what the deal with X's that make it super hard for you to date ? Ok let me clear it up her for you. Me and my X have not been together for about 6 months now and still to this day she is posting stuff about me an how I hurt her and how...

We're broken up but I still can't stop thinking of her..wondering what she's doing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

31 March 2009 (M) - My ex and I dated for a year and four months and during that time (and a few years before that even), she's been obsessed with British guys. She talked about one day marrying one but I didn't think she would actually leave me for one! We'll just ...

Please tell me what a player is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi all, my ex bf said on the phone just a few minutes ago that he's also a player, I said no he's not but well not when I was with him, but he said he was on his best behaviour with me. He said that there's no one down the pub to do it to but then ...

Why do I care that my ex has someone else when he was so horrible to me when we were together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I have a simple problem, one that I pretty much buried myself in and that even typing seems child-ish, but I can't help the way that I feel. I dated a boy for almost 2 years before we broke up because he had gotten out of hand (ie. yelling at ...

I compare my new interests with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I have a problem. I was with a man on and off for about 5 years, and he was different that any man I've met before or since then. We broke up officially a few months ago, actually I broke up with him, and he is now dating someone else. I am happy ...

She parades her child in front of us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - What is your take on this. my partner in life has had a child with TI during the course of our relationship. I became aware of this after the child was born, that is 4mths ago. TI now finds herself in my neighborhood in which my sister also lives ...

My ex has become my best friend but what does he want from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I found out recently that my boyfriend of one year has been cheating on me. He moved here last year for school. I found out about the other woman by accident. His explanation is that they were dating before he moved here, but he didn't love her, ...

Help I still love him!

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30 March 2009 (F) - I have a problem. I dated my ex for 4 and a half years. I worshiped the ground he walked on. We ended up fighting alot in the end of our relationship over stupid things. A lot of which I realize now that I was wroung about. We have been broken up ...

Is it best for us to stay together or go our seprerate ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and I have an amazing girlfriend, she's also 15. Well we've been going out for two years and we've had our ups and downs but were still together. here are some of the bad things. She cheated on me about 2 or 3 times with her her ex that ...

I can't seem to accept his past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hi, this may sound silly or selfish, but I have recently got engaged, and I can't seem to accept his past! I know, in the back of my mind, it shouldn't bother me, but for some reason it does. He is the first person I slept with, but his ex was the ...

Ex lovers can rekindle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend went out for about a year. We were young but both had things for each other for 2 years and were each others first everything. He was my very best friend as I was his, and one could easily argue we were two people living in ...

Can someone help me stay strong and keep my word...to leave this guy alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hey aunts i finally did it...i broke it off with the committed guy...it's been two days and i almost fell in today but by the grace of God ive stayed strong and haven't contacted him... this is how i did it: i called him with the thought of us me...

I moved overseas with my family to forget her... I can't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I'm married with a two year old son. Around a year and a half ago, I became close to a female friend of mine, who is also married. This grew quickly and I fell in love with her and she fell in love with me. It kept growing and growing and got ...

He works with his ex, they still call each other, and its bothering me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid i have been with my bf for a year and a half we are in a committed relationship but still don't live together yet.My problem is that he works with his ex-girlfriend whom dumped him three years previous and who is now married and has been ...

I told my husband I don't want his child (from his previous marriage) to be near mine

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Well do you think i'm wrong to have told my spouse that i don't want this child that he has gotten outside our home near my child. I told him that i know the child is innocent to what he and the child's mother has done but due to there disr...

Why does he want me to meet an ex friend that he'd been screwing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend had been married, he had what he said was a brief affair. That is not the reason for divorce as his wife never found out. Anyway, I've been with my BF for about 10 months and we are going on vacation in April. He decided to ...

3 guys but don't want to hurt any of them... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have major situation! I was fine, I had everything friends, family etc. I was single and have been for over a year but I was happy just being me and having fun. However, 1. My ex text me saying that he is being sent to Afganistan for 6 mouths, ...

How do I stop comparing myself to the new guy? How to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - We were together for 2 years and it was the most important relationship I have ever had because we started as friends first.(we also did and do work together), we both had issues, tried to work through them and ultimately it ended up that it "just ...

Is he over it all competly or just playing mind games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hey guys im in need of some help on understanding my ex any thoughts would be appreciated my ex broke up with me about 6 months ago when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him because thats the type of gal i am...

I think he's secretly getting in touch with his ex. Should I confront him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Been with my b/f for 3 yrs. The woman he was with before me really messed him up emotionally. She moved to Oregon. We have a pretty good relationship now but it's been a rocky one and I don't think he's over her yet. He was in contact with her...

I have a new boyfriend, but can't get over my ex. I'm so confused and don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I'm 15, and I dated my ex for almost 8 months. He would ignore me on and off for a few months. Sometimes we would go up to a week without even talking, and I'd cry and feel depressed over it. He was with his guy friends a lot more than ...

Hopefully my friend will make the right choice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - one of my best friends likes my ex (me and him broke up cuz idk ask him) well anyways he was kind of retard and yea but after we broke up he wanted to get back together(he dumped me)so i called him a pig and told him to get a life in which doesnt ...

I hate being single!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I hate being single, I'm starting to think something's wrong with me. It seems like no matter what I do, nobody is interested in me. I actually hurt myself quite badly on the way home tonight, I punched a brick wall and my shin really hurts. My ex ...

Advice needed. How do you get over an ex???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone!!! I've got a question! When the guy you are absolutly IN LOVE with goes back to his shitty ex who always ends up breaking his heart after he tells you that he's falling for you too... what do you do to get over it?...

How can I let her see that I am NOT like her ex and would never hurt her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend's EX used to hit her whenever he was drunk, and she was very scared of him. I'd heard that he abused he sexually as well, but she won't talk about it so I'm not so sure. When we met she was on antidepressants, and hadn't been with ...

My boyfriend has stopped talking about it but I cant seem to drop it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hey guys. Im a bit stuck... Ive been going out with my boyfriend for just over 10 months and things have been amazing! we've been so close and I really do love him. But about a year before he went out with me he broke up with this girl that he ...

HE acted as if I was invisible.

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29 March 2009 (F) - Hoping people can help here and will appreciate any feedback. I was at a party last night and my ex, who I have not seen in six months was there. things and When I walked in the door and said hi, he just looked away. He went out of his way to get ...

I know deep down he has returned to her. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I know deep down he has returned to her - but what do I do? I have been seeing a guy who I am deeply in love with. He knows I would do anything for him - but I also know that he still sees his ex and would probably like to get back with her ultimate...

Am I supposed to wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - hi, hope you can help im 18 and i really like this boy hes 18 too but hes just come out of a two year relationship and says he just wants to be casual at the minute with me , he still has pictures of his ex girlfriend on his phone and facebook...

The girl I dated recently is with somebody new. I feel upset for some reason. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - Hey. I just found out that the girl I dated recently has started seeing somebody else. I only dated her for a few months and we split up about three months ago, but for some reason, I feel like this has upset me a little. That seems unusual give...

What do I do if he calls me and actually doesn't want to break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I'm 15, and I dated my ex for almost 8 months. He would ignore me on and off for a few months. Sometimes we would go up to a week without even talking, and I'd cry and feel depressed over it. He was with his guy friends a lot more than he was ever...

Is it necessary to let your ex-husband know of your present boyfriend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - My husband cheated on me. However I have no courage to leave the marriage until I meet my boyfriend. We are very much in love. I decided to divorce my husband. Now that we are divorced, we are still staying in the same house because of the c...

I think my ex is stalking me but I don't get why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - after getting out of an on and off verbally and sometimes physically abusive relationship that has gone on for 20 years and i where ive finally grown up and do not want to be abused anymore, i think my ex could possibly be stalking me now. i have ...

My girlfriend won't stop mentioning her ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - I've been going out with my gf for about 10 months now, and everything is going good, but she keeps bringing up her ex all the time, she keeps talking about things they used to do, and how he acted and stuff, but the one thing that threw me off ...

Help! My boyfriend has a low sex drive!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hi Friends~ My bf, 33yrs old, and I, 26yrs old, have been dating for 6 months now. On our second date he told me that 3 months prior he had dated this girl for 2 weeks and after he broke things off with her she came to him 2 weeks later and ...

Ex suddenly very affectionate..never was in the past!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - my ex boyfriend was at the same party as me last week ... when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him even thou he broke my heart .. after stuff that he told my best mate i decided i had enough of making an ...

Will she want to go out with me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - hi well my ex that i loved with everything i had (but i dont anymore only a lil) and i broke up um about a week or two ago and she told me to stop textin her so i did and we havent talked for like a week. the last time we broke up she told me the ...

He's been sleeping with one of his friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - HELP! ive just been told some really shocking news it feels almost like a close family members death. im 18 and i have been speaking and meeting up with a guy for about a month now, im interested and hes interested in me. whats basical...

She's with a new guy but I want her back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend was going out for to years one day we split up i begged her to come back i pushed her to a point where she asked for no contact i left her alone for about 3weeks i didnt ring her or text her she told my friends she hated me...

I fancy my best mate's ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - my best friend went out wit this girls and she dumped him im still gud friends wit her and now i really fancy her i don't want to tell her because i don't no if she likes me or not but i also dont want to go out wit her because i dont want to make ...

Follow up: My husband has impregnated a girl-twice in our marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - This is a follow up to My husband has impregnated a girl twice during our marriage! http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-has-impregnated-a-girl-twice-during.html Thanks to all those who responded to my question i really vaue all your...

Is he sending mixed signals or is he being a duche?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - heyy can ppl please help me understand this its driving me crazy ... my ex boyfriend was at the same party as me last week ... when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him even thou he broke my heart .. afte...

I think he still has some feelings for me a little

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I love my ex so much we split in july last year but carried on having sex after we split, about 2 months ago, we had sex for the last time, as since then hes got himself a gf, but about the 10 feb of feb he said that he wanted to suck my tits and ...

The day the earth stood still

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - Why is my ex being so unfriendly. She saw someone else behind my back, i found out walked away no questions or trouble. Very hurt. I thought if thats your choice good luck. Time passed a year or so i did everything i could to be friends or at le...

I cant stop flirting with other men and it is driving my boyfriend away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - hi i was with my exboyfriend for 7 years on and off i cheated on him and he has left me a few times and gone with other girls and i have bagged him back and he used to come back cos i do belive we loved each other but he could not cope anyway we had ...

I'm the one making all the effort in our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I've been seeing my ex again for around six weeks and it seemed to going well but... My problem is he used to text me a fair bit through the day, not loads but enough to know that he does like me. Now though I only get one text a day and he leaves ...

How do you know when you've ruined a friendship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - This is bugging me so much that I can't sleep. Sorry it's long but I need to get this off my chest. I'm feeling very conflicted about a friend. Part of me feels overcome with guilt because I think I've ruined the friendship and part of me is...

My ex invited me & my b/f to a housewarming party and played a sex tape we had made together!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - dear aunts, my boyfriend and i have been dating for two and a half years. he's funny, honest, smart, hard-working, just everything i could want in a man. i have never connected with another person on so many levels, and i can't imagine loving a...