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Archived questions from: July, 2006 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

He slept with his ex.... Now she says shes pregnant!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for three years now ,he loves me and i also do. Lately we have a problem which is fading my love for him but he still loves me The problem is he saw his ex girlfriend and due to lust he slept with her, and n...

I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, but I'm still dreaming of my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6691 days ago

31 July 2006 (F) - A while back I was going out with a guy for a couple of months and I was really happy. Then suddenly he broke it off with me and I was devastated. I felt like a failure. I have recently met a really nice guy that I enjoy spending time with. Th...

Things look hopeful between us... I think!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6725 days ago

30 July 2006 (M) - Hello, OK this is my story. Been in a very good relationship for 6 years. One month ago my girlfriend asked for space as she thinks she may want to see other people, but is not sure and she does not want to cheat. That was about 5 weeks ago, so I ...

How do I stop myself from checking up on my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6725 days ago

30 July 2006 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit now and at the moment he is on a trip away with his friends in amsterdam. he is a really good guy and i dont think he'd ever cheat on me cuz he has good morals and he told me he wouldnt. Its just that ...

Thirteen years ago he wanted to settle down but I only find out NOW!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6725 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - Thirteen years ago I experienced this amazing connection with a man, overwhelminginly intense on several levels, not just sexually. We had a brief, passionate and sexually very gratifying few weeks together, but at the time, he was single guy, not ...

We broke up but said we would be friends, out of the blue he turned nasty, I dont know why ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6726 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - I recently spilt with my ex we were in egaged and lived together. My partner was loyal and loving and I know for sure he loved me more than anything. When he ended the relationship I was and still am devastated. He took my engagement ring and ...

I thought the ex and I were just friends, but my new boyfriend thinks he wants a one-nighter with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6727 days ago

29 July 2006 (F) - I have a big problem. My boyfriend of 2 months (been friends for 4 years) has recently expressed his concern for my friendship with an ex. Even though it wasn't official I was still seeing my ex up until I started dating my current boyfriend. The ...

I finished with my ex after months, but we are still meeting for sex as I cant keep away from him, what should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - Ok.. where to start.. I went out with my ex for 2 months. Now that may not seem a long time but it was sooo intense.. we were together all the time and it was crazyy! He is a bit crazy bless him and he could never decide what he wanted... when he ...

Its been 13 years and still dont feel like im over him!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6726 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - I'm still in love with my ex after 13 years, he was my first love. Not many days pass when I don't think of him, it's been this way for years. Problem is I'm now married with children and I feel like my feelings for my ex are getting stronger and ...

We tried long distance dating and she moved on... did I do the right thing in cutting all contact ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

28 July 2006 (M) - Hi, About 6 months ago, my girlfriend of 2 years and myself started having a long distance relationship. I had to move about 100 miles away for a job. I told her we would see each other on weekends and talk all the time and everything would...

His divorce was declined.. anybody know why this could be ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6726 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - Why would a divorce not be granted for my boyfriend? My boyfiend of a year was cheated on by his wife, starting a few years ago. When he found out, he immediately left home but then went back to see if they could work through their differences. They ...

We broke up 2 months ago, he said he could never look at anyone as his gf, but hes got someone new, how can I deal with this!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

28 July 2006 (F) - Hi Ppl. Myself and my ex bf broke up on the 9th of june which is almost two months ago now and I still have not got over him. We were together for almost a year and were engaged (he proposed. Now we have broken up and his friend introduced him to ...

Feeling stressed and depressed, and now having to compete with the memory of my BF's exes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

27 July 2006 (F) - Hello, lately, I have been feeling really depressed about everything in my life. I am stressed out right now about work and school, and also my boyfriend adds to that stress. Since we have been dating about six months ago, his constant talk of exes ...

I'm great as my ex's friend, but she doesn't want me as her boyfriend again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

27 July 2006 (M) - I dated this girl I really care about. We broke up but we still talk on the phone. She says she can really open up with me she would rather call me than her new boyfriend. I know she still likes me but for some reason she won't get back togethe...

My BF promised he would cease all contact with his ex, now he's meeting her for a coffee! Am I overreacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - OK, this is definitely the last time that I am going to post a question about this, but it's driven me to distraction for the last time... My boyfriend and me have been together for over a year now. During the course of this time, there has ...

My BF tells his exes on MySpace he loves them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - I know this may sound silly and i may sound over obssesive but I'm really in love with boyfriend. I'm so happy but the thing is I never use the word love lightly... I have only ever used it twice in relationships one was with him and the other was ...

She's still in contact with her ex and being all "secret" about it...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

26 July 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months and most of the time things have been great. However throughout our relationship her ex has been e-mailing and calling as has his mother. They live abroad and I they know nothing about me, he e-mails ...

My boyfriend is wary and thinks I'm not over my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

26 July 2006 (F) - my new b/f and me have been going out for about a month now and I feel like he's very wary of things since he seemed to say "if this works out" and "we'll see how it goes" it sounds negative and I think it's since I compared the first time he said ...

Now that her fling is over she comes crawling back to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

25 July 2006 (M) - My ex girlfirend/fiancee of 8 years left me 5 months ago for another man. She lied about the other guy and I only found the truth out recently. I am almost over her, it has been very hard. She has now broken up with the man she left me for, he is ...

He is currently going through a divorce but I hate him talking about the ex, how can I stop being so jealous!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

25 July 2006 (F) - I had a huge argument yesterday with my boyfriend because I got all jealous regarding his wife and I need to know how to control these feelings and think before I speak before I push him away. He isnt divorced yet, they have been separated 2 years ...

Does my ex regret breaking up with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6730 days ago

25 July 2006 (M) - Hi, My g/f broke up with me after 5 months and claimed that she wanted to be best friends with me, i bought her a ring a while ago and she said that i prefer chucky rings but because the ring design was different she said that she loves it because ...

How can I get rid of my ex boyfriend for good without him destroying himself ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6730 days ago

25 July 2006 (F) - Okay world, I need Help... I am 19 and have been with my boyfriend for three years. However, in the past six months he has been distant and cold. We haven't had sex since april. I was really ready to dump him because he was always off with his ...

Am I naiive for giving this guy another chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

25 July 2006 (F) - hiya, i have a dilemma. I am 25 years old and i was seeing this guy for almost a year but he is only 22. He was attending university but basically never went cos towards the end of our relationship, all he wanted to do was party. We ended up split...

Hooking up with an ex, good or bad idea?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6731 days ago

25 July 2006 (F) - I'm in 7th grade. My ex boyfriend had wanted to hook up with me while we were going out.I still have feelings for him. And he seems to feel the same way. Do you think it would be bad if we hooked up but werent going out. He doesnt live in my town so ...

Do i love him? Should i wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6730 days ago

25 July 2006 (F) - okay well in the begining of this year, theres this guy sean that i went out with a few times on and off. i broke up with him and said it was because i was going to camp but i ended up going out with another guy that i broke up with for the same ...

How do I get this ex bf out of my life? I just want my life back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6730 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - i have split up with my ex now seriously twice! every night he made me cry...!! last time we split he left me for some silly reason and i had enough!! so i didnt go crawling back like i always did!!! he phoned me texted me emailed and kept showin up ...

Why didnt he tell me the truth, he ditched me anyway but lied, now its hard for me to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

24 July 2006 (F) - Hello, i posted on here a few months ago about a , now ex, and how things went wrong. I did care and love him but i realise he just didnt have the same feelings as myself. Its been hard to accept,but somedays arent as bad as others. He alwa...

I still have feelings for the guy who dumped me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6732 days ago

23 July 2006 (F) - What do you do when you at home alone while your ex who your very much in love with still is on a date. Your ex who broke you heart by telling you he wants date others. Your ex who going to date hie bestfriend who he says he's fancied for time. Your ...

Once I saw my ex-boyfriend again, I knew I was still in love with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6733 days ago

23 July 2006 (F) - I was with this guy for almost a year. Well he broke up with me for some really dumb reason. Now i's 6 months later and I have a boyfriend who I care about a lot and I'm friends with his new girlfriend, because she is really nice and everything. But ...

He's a cad, but I choose to further cheapen myself by pining for him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6733 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - basically i have been with a guy for 4+ years.we got engaged last year and WERE due to be married in a couple of months. we have been through a lot of struggles, ranging from him lying to me to being in court. also he has cheated on me. i hav...

Is it right that my ex husband stays in the "family" home with me and the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6733 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - My husband and I have gone through a lengthy separation which was made easier for us both when he got a new job last March and moved over 100 miles away from me our two teenage boys. He recently told me he's met someone else and he thinks alot of ...

I feel lost, he had a few affairs then married one of them, but I didnt get any resolve, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6732 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - hi its been five years since i caught my defacto of 15yrs and father of my daughter having sex with his now new wife. I have recieved no answers and my daughter has not spoken to him since i feel like am stuck in limbo land and am having trouble ...

We did already try a relationship, but not sure if he still likes me now ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6733 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - hey i need help, there is this guy he and i have had a past relationship and i still like him. but i think he likes me but my friend sais that he is the kind of guy who wouldn't and couldn't carry on a relationship. but i really love him. i need to ...

Lend some money to my ex and haven't heard from him since!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6733 days ago

22 July 2006 (F) - I've been spending a lot of time with my ex boyfriend recently and for the last 2 months we've been spending time together most days or speaking on the phone if not. I knew that we werent going to get back together but was enjoying the company as ...

Still hung on the ex bf-what should I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6733 days ago

21 July 2006 (F) - ok so me and my bf have been together for a few months and things have been really rocky, this is due to me though. I split with my ex bf about 3 and half months ago we were together for about 8 months and i was so happy with him, and now i am so mi...

What are my chances of getting her back ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6734 days ago

21 July 2006 (M) - i really messed up with this girl i fell in love with i was going out with her for five months we have been seperated for 1 week what happend was one saturday i got really drunk went to bed on the night and fell asleep when i fell asleep i was sick...

I felt I wanted to be single again, then the ex popped up, now I cant stop thinking about him....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6734 days ago

21 July 2006 (F) - my boyfriend Joey and I have been together for about 2 and half years now. Everything was perfect until up about 6 months ago, before then there was no question who i wanted to spend my life with. About 6 months ago, I began feeling like i wanted to ...

I'm my ex will fall in love with his gf and I'll lose him for good!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

21 July 2006 (F) - I want him back I have been with my ex for 6 years and I have recently found out that he was seeing another girl for a couple of weeks. I was devastated, I really thought we would have a great life together. He said that he was not sure how thin...

It's been weeks and still can't get over her!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - Hi, I went out with this girl a few years back, initially she seemed ok but over a period of time I started liking her more and more and eventually fell in love, but as soon as it was apparant I was in love with her she started turning away from...

Why did he manage to get over me so easily, when it appears I meant a great deal to him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6735 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Well, I broke up with my "boyfriend" over a month ago. And I'm still not over it. We'd been good friends for years and years, and he had liked me for this time as well. Eventually I got feelings for him, which he was really suprised but thr...

She changed her phone number - is it because of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6736 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - i need help about a month a go me and my girlfriend broke up we had been together for about a year. we knew each other since we were kids and then she moved away. A friend of mine was seeing her and through that became friends again. I fell in love ...

I can't get over my ex and it's hurting my finacee

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6735 days ago

20 July 2006 (M) - Hi, I was going around with a women in my office and she broke up. Thnigs were going very smoothly in the beginning but in no more than 1.5 months, when i was completely involved, she broke up with me for al the wrong reasons Like, not spendi...

My ex wants to cheat on his girlfriend... with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

20 July 2006 (F) - Out of the blue my ex called and just wants to chat. We were together a long time....ten years and split two years ago.He has a girlfriend but tells me that he is unhappy in the relationship and says he will leave her when a current legal matter ...

Shall I ignore him, or just tell him to stop contacting me completely ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6736 days ago

19 July 2006 (F) - Shall I tell ex not to text/email or I just ignore? Still dearly in love with him, but I dont feel he loves me back in the way I want. He ignored me and put his friends first. We broke up 3 times, every time he got me back because I love him so mu...

How can I get over this guy and move on ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6736 days ago

19 July 2006 (F) - How do you get over someone? Apart from getting with someone else, or turning your affections to some one else. As both of those are easier said than done. The boy I'm trying to get over messes me about, and doesn't like me, and there is no-one that ...

Scared that shes hanging out with the ex and will get back with him, as we have only dated a short time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6736 days ago

19 July 2006 (M) - alright, so seeing a girl for about 3 weeks now, and moving along quite fast. so she says she cant hang out this week because she is with her best friend on monday (which i promote, never give up friends) and again with another friend on tuesda...

She broke up with me but wants me back... I'm not sure what to do! Any advice welcome

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6722 days ago

19 July 2006 (M) - hi i've been going out with a girl for a year.she lives in my home town but we started going out while i was at university.i came home every weekend as she had to work and i couldnt live without her. holidays were realy good but term time wa...

Why is my ex back in touch with me? What does she want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6737 days ago

19 July 2006 (M) - Hi, I'm still in love with a girl I used to be with, who's married (she married the first guy she went out with after me). It's been almost ten years now (I'm 35, she's 40). We tried to stay friends or at least loosely in touch afterwards but the ...

The girl I think I love has gone back with her ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6738 days ago

18 July 2006 (M) - There's this girl that i have got to know really well and i think i love her. She told me she fancies me and wants something to happen between us but now she got back with her ex for the third time, whats the best way to approach this?...

My ex and I talk and see each other, but she says it might be *years* before we'll get back together...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6738 days ago

17 July 2006 (M) - So my girlfriend broke with me on May 31. We went out for 2 1/2 years. We would fight for no reason. And my outgoing personality made her jealous. We have kept communication open. We talk at least once a week, whether it's me calling or texting ...