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writes: I want him backI have been with my ex for 6 years and I have recently found out that he was seeing another girl for a couple of weeks. I was devastated, I really thought we would have a great life together. He said that he was not sure how things would go with her, but he beleived that we were over, for the past year, he has seen me as his sister more than his lover. I have gained a lot of weight since we started dating, and I think that this is a big issue for him, I am not loosing it. We broke up a month ago, and I am scared he is falling in love and I wish I could sort of stop it to happen. I am scared he will forget about me and move on, when should I call him, or should I? I miss him terribly and hope that we can have a future together. We had great times, and we thought we would get married, but I feel like I am loosing him for good. I know the saying if it's meant to be, it will be.. but I am very scared. What should I do?thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): I forget ur screen name, but here's my answer to your question. If he thinks that weight is a problem and if he's embarrassed by you, then he is stupid. You deserve better than that. Weight shouldn't be a problem. He shouldn't see you for outer beauty, but for your inner beauty. Here's my opinion, HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU!!! I know that you love him, but if he's that big of a jerk, your better off without him. Good-Luck.
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