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writes: Ok.. where to start.. I went out with my ex for 2 months. Now that may not seem a long time but it was sooo intense.. we were together all the time and it was crazyy! He is a bit crazy bless him and he could never decide what he wanted... when he was happy he was overly happy and when he was a bit down, he was almost depressed! (His mum thought he had manic depression).. anyway we split up 4 months ago and ever since then we keep meeting up for sex. I know that he doesn't want to get back with me and that it is just sex but I just cant stop meeting with him. Its like he has a magnet. I do still really like him and I know that he is prob just dangling me on a string however we get on so well when we are together... Oh god! What would a straight thinking person do hey??!(Apologies, as Im sure many people have asked the very same question)Xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2006): while i mostly agree with what the last guy just said, a part of me disagrees. he's right about the no s**t einstein part that he's using you. that's obvious. but the thing you have to decide is if you can just use him, too. or if you have too many emotions invested in him to do that and come out of it okay. if you like him and still want more from him than just sex, i'd say get out of it, as you will only hurt yourself in the end. but if you can detatch yourself from him emotionally, and just enjoy the sex, i'd say go for it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2006): If you like what you're doing, then continue to do it. I don't see a problem here if you don't have a problem with it. Some people may say he's using you for sex, etc - no s**t einstein (just referring to those in the future who may think/say that), but you know what? If you feel good having sex with him, feel good being with him, then just do it.
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