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writes: hi its been five years since i caught my defacto of 15yrs and father of my daughter having sex with his now new wife. I have recieved no answers and my daughter has not spoken to him since i feel like am stuck in limbo land and am having trouble trusting again (this was his third affair, yes i know silly me)please dont just tell me to get over it as that the problemkind regards karen
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2006): dear karen
you are not alone and please don't blame yourself as in (silly of me!) you must have loved this guy and wanted to save your family the same as me(i found text message) but i knew in the back of my head something was going on! you say it's been 5 yrs and your daughter has not spoken to him has he tried to contact her or anything? have you never asked him why? the reason i ask this as this still might not resolve you as in he might lie or blame you your see what i mean or admit it was all his fault and he's sorry but it don't make you feel better, you have to resove this yourself as i am doing or trying to do. it hurts and sometimes you just want it all to go away, sometimes you forget about it and the bam it's back and you feel like your back to square 1.i'm sorry i don't have an answer for you i would actually like to see the responces you get maybe it can help me also all you can do is try to put this behind you easier said than done i know.
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