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Archived questions from: October, 2014 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

How do I tell him my feelings???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

29 October 2014 (F) - I have decided to tell my best friend that i love him but i don't know how to tell him we have known eachother scince we were rely young so it will be hard. When im around him i feel rely happy and special. The thing is that i live in a different ...

My boyfriend is sending mixed signals, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

29 October 2014 (F) - dear cupid, i need your help. i am a virgin and i have been in a relationship for almost six months now. my boyfriend has had sex before and lately hes been hinting that he wants to have sex with me. i was a little scared at first and i kind of felt ...

He's 14 to my 15. He had a Gf but broke up. Should I keep talking online to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

29 October 2014 (F) - There’s this guy at my school in the year below me and I've had my eye on him for a while (just thinking he's cute and what not), but when i found out my friend knew him i made a move and found out he had a girlfriend. We talked for a while an...

I do miss him. But first I want him to miss me. So HOW do I ensure that he really misses me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

29 October 2014 (F) - Okay so there is this guy I like. recently we hung out and he told me how he thinks i'm beautiful and that he likes my personality. I like him a lot too hes really cool, and we seemed to have been getting a long just fine, but the problem is. ...

Should I go with girl A? But what can I do about Girl C's jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

29 October 2014 (M) - Hello DC, it's been a little while. I need some help. Girl problems, as usual. Pretty wordy, this one. Sorry. There's a girl, let's call her Girl A. She's new to my life, but when I met her, I knew something good would happen. I had asked her ou...

Since my parents divorced my mother has changed. Why does she continue to reject me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

28 October 2014 (F) - My parents are divorced. It was a messy, painful battle, and my mother is the one who initiated it. Since then, she has moved away and changed into a completely different person. Her social life is so busy she no longer has time for me. And when...

My Gf is seeing her ex, but has not told me. What is the best way of dealing with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - Hi, My girlfriend is still best friends with her ex boyfriend, which I aren't really okay by, but I know that if I confront her about it then she will just say don't make me choose, so therefore that means that she will chose him over me. I woul...

Do I tell him that I have a crush on him and that I love him? I don't want to ruin our friendship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - I dont know what to do anymore. I am head over heels in love with my best friend and we have known each other since we were 6 years old. I now live in a different country from him and we dont see each other a lot. We might see each other at christm...

Met on holidays. Is it too early in our friendship to get him a birthday present?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3708 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - I met this guy on holiday, he's in the army and is posted in Germany. But comes from the same place as I do. Just after I met him he was being deployed to Afghanistan for 3 months, we spoke everyday and he'd ring me sometimes too. After his ...

Have I already ruined my chance to ever be aroused by a man because of my porn addiction and my enjoyment of masturbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3709 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - I don't know if this question is appropriate for this site, but I really need to talk to someone about this. Please help. I'm a 19 yr old girl addicted to pornography. I had never had sex (or anything sensual/intimate with anyone) until last ...

I have trouble with eye contact with people and I look down or I stare. What to do? I Need help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - Omg, i am terrible when it comes to eye contact! I am 15 now but ever since i started secondary school (11yo) i've had trouble keeping eye contact, especially with teachers. I used to NEVER make eye contact, look down etc. except when i spoke to ...

I really like this boy but I'm 14 and he's 12. I'm worried what people will think

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

25 October 2014 (F) - I have recently meet a boy a couple months ago and I really like him. The moment we started taking we instantly clicked and I feel like I've know him my whole life, I've never meet anyone like him and I feel as though I could tell him anything. The ...

Is it normal to have romantic feelings for lots of people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

22 October 2014 (F) - Is it normal to have strong feelings for many people (like ten) at the same time (guys girls everyone)? My best friend thinks it's kind of slutty but I just seem to like (have romantic feelings towards) lots of people is there something wrong with ...

I don't feel like I'm good enough so my teacher's encouragement seems like a fraud

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

22 October 2014 (F) - Why does my teacher see potential in me when there are other smart students? I am a standard student and get standard grades in my history class. Although i am told i am smart, i just don't see it! Ever essay i do feels like rubbish and i fe...

The girl I have a crush on now hates me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3713 days ago

22 October 2014 (F) - Hi. So im a bi girl, and i love this other girl, SN, with all my heart. Now, she found out some time ago, when we were still good friends. When she found out, she avoided me for two weeks, but then we sorted it out and we were good friends again, e...

Cheating boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3713 days ago

21 October 2014 (F) - Me and my boyfriend known each other for 10 years but have been together romantically for the last year. A few weeks ago I noticed he had been sending sexual messages to another girl over skype; when I called him up on it he broke down in tears, ...

My parents object like crazy that I wanna go out with a guy alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3714 days ago

21 October 2014 (?) - Hi there :) I recently told my parents that I like a guy and that he likes me too. And I really wanted to gain their trust of just hanging out with a guy. They object like crazy that I wanna go out with a guy alone. Which in a way I understand...

He said he liked me and was going to ask me out but then asked out another girl instead!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

21 October 2014 (F) - So I have been talking to this guy, and he was honest about liking me and this other girl, he told me I was the one he chose and how it was going to be me, and then he asks out the other girl and I really started to fall for him and his been my ...

A friend thinks I have a crush on her ex but I don't

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3715 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - Ok, so i have a crush on this girl 'S', but she knows and now she has decided she hates me. There is another girl, 'A', who is one of both mine and 'S's best friend. Now she thinks i have a crush on her and told a couple of people this, includin...

Strict parents and I'm nearly 16. How can I convince them to allow me to be more independent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

20 October 2014 (?) - Hi everyone :) I need some advice on how I could convince my parents to let me be more independent when I hang out with my friends. This is what I mean by independent: I am almost 16 (in 3 months), whenever I go out like to hangout with my ...

How should I apologize to my Bf? I spoke to him harshly about his video game playing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

20 October 2014 (?) - Hey everyone My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and we do fight occasionally. Yesterday however i accidentally blurted out "Fine go play your games that seems so precious to you" and I really didn't mean to say that. It's video ...

I've been wondering if my LDR Bf is lying to me and cheating. Or has he stopped loving me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

19 October 2014 (F) - Ok so i'm dating this guy on the phone I live in one state and he lives in another place. Anyway so first he was all in love with me and all that and then after a while we started to argue a little. After some more time he said he is so busy with...

First my Dad cheated. Now I don't know how to face my Mom now that I know she's having an affair with a married man. How can I face this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3717 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - please help me, my mom and dad are divorced my dad cheated on my mom when I was 9 years old. I went through what I thought was the darkest moment of my childhood. Because of this my relationship with my dad is almost non-existent. I survived thi...

Despite all the troubles, why does he keep on coming back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3716 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - i dated a boy for nine months, we broke up publicly in may 2014, however soon realising the mistake we had made and that we still loved each other. We tried to continue our relationship in secret. however one night he held a party, but he spent mo...

I like him but I'm too shy to talk to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3711 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - I like a guy, but I'm kinda shy. I don't have the guts to talk to him yet. I had his sister tell him I like him and he said cool. But the thing is, he doesn't know me. I was going to have his sister introduce us, but I don't have enough confidence ...

I miss her. Do you think she is in a rebound relationship? If yes, how long do you think it will last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - Hello, I have a question, but i need to tell you the most important details you will need for decision in the shortest possible way. My ex (also my Classmate!!) had a boyfriend, but I got her from him and she became my girlfriend, they were ...

Could I be Bi? How will my parents react if I tell them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3718 days ago

18 October 2014 (M) - I'm very curious with boys at the moment. I'm madly in love with a girl (A) and she lives far away and she is very hot but there is also a boy who goes to my school, all boys) and he's called (B) I fantasize a LOT about (A and B). I don't kn...

She never seems to have time for us to talk

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3711 days ago

17 October 2014 (M) - Well, I've been dating my gf for 29 months now. We are in high school. We talk everyday in class but only for a short time cause everytime we try to talk, our classes start. So yesterday I got really annoyed by her behavior when she promised to ...

I lost my virginity. What should I do? Talk to my Dad? Or talk to my Dad's apprentice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

17 October 2014 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and I ended up losing my virginity with my dad's apprentice. My dads apprentice (J) is 18,and I've known him for 3 years . He came round last week to drop off the keys to my dad's work car. I was home alone as my family was...

He asked me out but now he ignores me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

16 October 2014 (F) - So 2 years ago I found out this guy liked me. I didn't like him at the time and thought he was gross. He always flirted but I rejected. So he then asked me out and I said no. Then I realized i like him ALOT. And I'm a really shy person so I can't ...

I'm going to see him for a day at Christmas, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3720 days ago

14 October 2014 (F) - i realy like this guy and we are best friends and i realy like him but now i live in another contry i also kinda like two other guys in my class and they both tease me a bit. I'm going to meet my friend at christmas for a day. what shall i do i ...

Is this really a ''Guy thing,'' as my fiance implies? His remarks upset me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

13 October 2014 (F) - My question is for guys. When you're in a serious relationship do you look at girls and think in your head if you could get with them, or not, if you were single? My fiance and I have a baby together and we went out to lunch near his work and he s...

Should I confront her about what was going on or wait for her to talk about it first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

13 October 2014 (F) - At the beginning of summer I talked to a friend of mine a lot and we started flirting. I couldn't really tell if it was that kind of joke flirting friends do with each other, but it was very real for me, and when I showed my best friend some of the ...

Have I overstepped the mark with my FWB ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

12 October 2014 (F) - Ok so yesterday I had sex with one of my friends (we have a kind of FWB thing going on). Afterwards we were chatting and I happened to mention that I had told my mum that I was revising at his house and that it was looking kind of suspicio...

The Perfect date to impress her? Any good ideas for an awesome first date, please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3722 days ago

12 October 2014 (M) - So I have a friend who i'm really starting to like but the only way in I have with her is that we agreed at some point in the future we will go on a date. We get on so well and I think if I could just organize the perfect date that the rest wil...

Seven years?? Am I wasting my time waiting for my married lover to leave his wife and children?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

11 October 2014 (F) - I have left my husband but I have been involved with a married man for 7 years.I said I wanted a proper relationship but he said he can't leave his kids who are 15 and 17. We haven't really talked about our future it's like he lives for today yet ...

I think she likes me as more than a friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

10 October 2014 (M) - Ok earlier this year my friend (girl) suggested we go to see a movie together without mentioning our mutual friends. I just blew this off not reading too much in to it. This then changed a few months later when she suggested we study together just ...

My friends say he is a jerk I could do without .... but I miss him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3725 days ago

10 October 2014 (F) - My best friend and I were in love. Well, we never really went out but we were in love. We admitted to it all months later where we mutually confessed to all our emotions. He was everything to me, my best friend of sixteen years, my first love an...

I'm considering running away and getting pregnant to get away from my controlling family! They treat me like a child!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (F) - Am a 17 year old girl,i sudenly fell in love with a 20 year old guy,we,ve been so inlove bt the problem is my famile treat me like 10 year old ,they lock the gate at 18:00 i cannot even text my bf to tel him that i cannot meet up with him because i ...

My first date ever! How do I know what he's thinking and how to casually lay down my expectations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (F) - I need help on how to handle my situation: I'm going to a school dance for the first time with a date. I've never had a boyfriend or even a "thing" with anyone, so I'm kinda nervous. All I've ever had was a few crushes on some past guy friends...

I need help to know why he is behaving like this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

8 October 2014 (F) - im a quiet type of girl until i know the person. There is this guy in our school. During the first day of our class he was sitting with another girl as there was no other place left. I was sitting behind them with my friend. Later that day ...

Can someone please help me to stop feeling so sad and anxious about bullying at school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

8 October 2014 (M) - Every often i used to get shame because of my face. When the clock goes time to go to school, i feel upset because i have an ''afraid feeling'' of being bullied once again. Bullying makes me feel like I can't stand for being an ugly freak. Can Som...

Seeing my ex has brought up all these feelings of being an oddity, help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

7 October 2014 (F) - Its probably a bad idea to ask for advice on this subject but I'll give it a go. I know its silly but I would like some opinions. I am going to be 18 in a couple of months and about 3 weeks a go something really weird ha...

Will the Doctor respect my privacy or is it likely that the Doctor will tell my Mom that I'm not a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

6 October 2014 (F) - I'm 17 and my bf and I got carried away in the moment and so three days ago I lost my virginity. My mom is making me go to the doctor for a yeast infection. I know they will ask if I have had sex without my mom in there but can they tell her I'm ...

He's 17 and he said he would wait, if I did, or we could sneak it? What should we do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - Well, I'm 13 and My best friend has a brother named Jack. Jack is turning 17, and i started seeing him more often and began to realize i had strong feelings for him. I told him I liked him. That night i slept in his room with him we didn't have s...

I can't tell if he's a gentlemen or if he's just not that into me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - I met this guy while he was on holidays with his friends where I live. We spent about a week together and we eventually slept together. I have plans to travel near where he is in three weeks and he suggested I stopped by where he is living so I mad...

Attending college leaves me little time to work out

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

4 October 2014 (F) - Hi all! Hope everyone is having a good week. Some of you may remember I posted a question a few months back about losing weight, I bought an exercise bike and managed to lose a stone! However I am now having some problems with it, and would lo...

My new boyfriend can only become aroused by blowjobs

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

4 October 2014 (F) - My new man will not get hard for me. After making out, kissing, touching...nothing. I did a sexy dance for him and thought it was working when I spotted something in his pants...but after finishing, I realised it was only my imagination! He was not ...

My 17 year old niece was extremely rude to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

4 October 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, this might sound trivial but it is really upsetting me lately. My niece is 17 and throughout her teenage years she has been a typical sulky teen. However since her 17th birthday she has been downright rude to me. She lives in another ...

Is he remotely into me? Is this a crush? What kind of guy does he seem to be to you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

2 October 2014 (F) - Hello, I have only been in my school for a month and there is a boy who has caught my attention. But I have no idea of how to know if he likes me and my friends aren't the greatest help, either way here is what has happen. 1. I'll catch him starin...