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writes:im a quiet type of girl until i know the person.There is this guy in our school.During the first day of our class he was sitting with another girl as there was no other place left.I was sitting behind them with my friend.Later that day our teacher changed the seating arrangements and he was sitting next to me.He later says the boy sitting in front of him that previously too he was sitting next to me when it was actually another girl.Anyway a couple of girls started taking interest in him and asked his biodata which is in his diary.He told them something as they were not leaving him and then he turned towards me and said he lied to them.He showed me the details in his diary and the girls snatched it.He used to get me punished along with him when we didn't do our homework or when he is asked some question.He used to turn back and smile at me when going out of the class and i used to smile back for courtesy sake.But he went and said i smile at him to a girl i talk to,though she is not from our class.Later for some reason his place was changed by teacher and we never spoke,but he continued speaking to the girl that showed alot of interest in him,going to her place and speaking to her,she pulling his hand and saying him to pull her hand,he doing what was said.He only behaves nice to her but rude to other girls in class including me because once he shouted at me thinking i was laughing at him but retaliated as i was laughing at someone else.I started ignoring him from then on.but he giggles at me when we happen to walk into each other accidentally in the hall way turnings while he usually scolds other girls if the same happens with them.He giggles at me when a teacher scolds me because of him.His friend once teased him about me and the girl who is interested in him and again he giggles.during an event we were serving refreshments,this guy was there in the group that i was asked to serve,he was giggling instead of taking the snacks.I was so irritated.he behaves so nice to that girl who was interested in him,maybe he is interested in her who cares,but why does he behave like that with me.its so rude.I dont like him,its just no one behaves like that with me so i was kind of disturbed.Teacher scolding me because of him happened only once and even i was at fault,just a little though.but if he said the truth to her both of us would have been severly punished. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2014): Sorry, I made a typo in something I said in my post.
Here is my correction:
"If he told the teacher the truth one time; he was only trying to get you to trust him; so he could do more messing with your head to confuse YOU. Don't trust that boy!!!"
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2014): You're a quiet girl and he's messing with your head. You noticed something isn't right.
He tested you by smiling at you, to see if you would smile back. When you did, he figured that means you like him; so now he's making fun of you in-front of people.
Leave him alone. He's twisted and not very nice. His point is to get others to torment you and make fun. To make you feel uncomfortable when he's around.
You are smarter than he thought you were. You noticed that everything he does, either makes you feel bad; or gets you into trouble. If he told the teacher the truth one time; he was only trying to get you to trust him; so he could do more messing with your head to confuse him. Don't trust that boy!!!
His giggling at you is mocking you.
Stay with that feeling that something isn't right about him; because you're right!
When you see that trouble-maker coming, get as far away from him as you can. He's doing a kind of bullying by playing mind-games. He's a mean kid. You're a very very smart girl, you figured him out! He doesn't know you're smarter than he is. Keep him guessing.
I wish I could give you a high five!
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