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22-25,
*razydude
writes: Every often i used to get shame because of my face. When the clock goes time to go to school, i feel upset because i have an ''afraid feeling'' of being bullied once again. Bullying makes me feel like I can't stand for being an ugly freak. Can Someone help me to stop being so sad and anxious about being bullied?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2014): Anything happening at your school that bothers you, your parents have to know about it. If you're afraid of these bullies and they are getting to you, you get your help from people close to you; so they can come to your aid.
Please go online and look-up local hotlines for "kids being bullied." You can call and talk to a counselor. The counselors will tell you where and how to get help. Never be sad alone, always find an adult who will listen. It's too hard for a kid to handle things like bullying by themselves. You need others to protect you, and someone you can talk to.
Bullies know you will not tell anyone. That gives them the power to keep picking on you. When someone knows, they can be stopped. You also have to learn to be brave and standup for yourself. You can't let teasing from one or two people terrorize you. They need your fear. So don't give it to them. If they don't beat you up, it's only words. Put your hands over your ears and just walkaway. It's time you also talk to the adults at school, and make them do their jobs to make other kids behave. If you never tell anyone anything, you'll continue walking around scared and sad all the time. If you want it to stop, do something about it.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (8 October 2014):
I suggest that you talk to your parents about what is happening at school. It might seem that it will make it worse but believe me it wont. These bullies need to be made aware off and taught about how they are making others feel.
If you cannot go to your parents then go straight to your teacher and tell them what has been happening. People can be cruel but deep down everyone has insecurities about themselves. Bullies only try to bring you down to make themselves feel better. Please tell on them straight away so that this can stop.
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