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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi, My girlfriend is still best friends with her ex boyfriend, which I aren't really okay by, but I know that if I confront her about it then she will just say don't make me choose, so therefore that means that she will chose him over me. I would prefer it if they wasn't friends, as there is no need for them to be friends, they only dated for 2 months, they met on a dating site and they don't have a child together.I know that this shouldn't bother me but it is, she meets up with him in secret, doesn't tell me when she's off to meet him, he even gave her a practically brand new iPhone. I have a bad gut feeling about him, but I can't tell her as she won't believe me and even if she was to listen to me she wouldn't take my advise, she will just think I am making it up.What do you think is the best way to go about it?Do you think I should tell her how he makes me feel and also that I aren't keen with them hanging out as best friends?
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (28 October 2014):
You're so afraid of upsetting your gf and she's obviously taking advantage of that.
They don't exactly have a long history together so if she'd choose him over you then save her the trouble and choose your dignity over your fear of upsetting her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2014): Trust your gut feeling. She meets with her ex-boyfriend in secret, and he gave her a practically brand new iPhone. Sounds like more than friendship is going on.
When she contacts you again, tell her you're busy. She is sneaky and playing two men. Agree with Honeypie….walk away.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (28 October 2014):
 I would tell her that she obviously DID make a choice and that was NOT you. Then walk away. She isn't having out with this guy because he is SUCH a good friend. And HE didn't give her a new Iphone because she is his best buddy.....
She is seeing HIM on the side. WALK away.
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