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Archived questions from: May, 2013 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

I have a crush on my lecturer. How can I stop this feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4220 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - Hi I'm 18 this year currently a college student and I have a huge crush on my lecturer. He is 22 years old which is only 4 years difference. In class he acts like a Lecturer but out of class he is like our friend. During short breaks between o...

How do I tell him of my inexperience?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - So I'm in a relationship with this guy. I've never been in a relationship before him, because honestly I've never really wanted to date until he asked me out. I'm 17, he's 18. I am a virgin and have never gone further than second base. He is not a...

I made a mistake and I want her back but I'm not sure how to win her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

31 May 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently split up, after being together for 7 months. I broke up with her: I was insecure and scared that she didn't love me back. For some reason, I had failed to notice many of the subtle, beautiful things she did for me to ...

I am unsure how to help my online girlfriend with her sexual needs

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

31 May 2013 (M) - This will probably sound odd at first, but please bear with me. So for the past eight months, I have been dating this girl in MA online, and for the most part, everything has been going fine. We have our ups and downs, but we love oneanother deepl...

I have reached the end of my patience with my boyfriend, but I'm too much of a pushover to let him go. Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Okay. Well where do I start? I have been with my boyfriend now for almost 5 months. I'm not going to go majorly into the backstory about how we got together, but before hand I had been in a 9 month relation...

How do I show her that I won't listen to my friend's advice anymore and convince her to give me a second chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - hi i'm 16 year old boy and I i've been such an idiot..... I liked this girl and when I eventually asked her out she said that she wasn't sure if she liked me. then her mate says to me that she likes someone else and that she doesn't like me. the ...

Do you think I have good reasoning to question his sexuality? Do you think he could possibly be gay or bi?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - I have this friend, who I'm head over heels for. He's extremely cute, smart, kind of socially awkward, etc. We hang out a ton and I consider him one of my best friends. Although there's one problem - I think he's straight and it would never work ...

Am I in love? Should I talk to her about getting back together with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3926 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - There is this girl that I have feelings for and these are different than what I normally feel. We dated for a while and broke up in December and I never stopped having said feelings. We have been talking every night since summer began for an average ...

One of my best friends is in love with the boy I like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - There is a boy that is in all of my classes and has been all year. When I met him, my first thoughts were of how good looking he was. As I got to know him, I also found out he has a crazy sense of humor. He's tastefully halarious and isn't ...

Is it selfish to be a bit upset that my freshly-out gay friend will never feel for me what I feel for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - I've always considered myself pan-sexual. I only fall for special people, regardless of gender. I can only fall for personality and not sex, and never people I haven't known for a while. I have a really good friend, whom I've been infatuated with ...

I'm torn between 2 boys. One is an ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - Im torn between these two boys "A" is a ex who I've always had an amazing connection with we were together for a bit last October after we admitted feelings for echother finally i kinda used to put him in the friend zone beacause the thought of us ...

Huge row and now he isn't talking

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - HELP me and my bf are 15 and been together for nearly 11 months, its now the half term and me and my bf had a huge row Friday night because I saw him hug one of his female mates, I texted him asking why this happened he told me she hugged him b...

Do girls share everything with their friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

29 May 2013 (M) - I like this girl lets call her a. So in school a also responded me well.it was well obvious we both liked each other. We chat on facebook. And now i came 2 know.. Whenevr i used to chat with her,she used to share that with other freinds. Does gir...

I like this guy but feel pressured since its almost the end of the school year. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - So, right now my life is not perfect. Currently going through a very rough time and sometimes i wish something good would come out of my life just for once. Anyways i ve never really been in a relationship but for some reason i kinda feel if i did ...

Hopeless Crush on a Childhood Friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - There's this guy that lives a couple houses down my street. He's only one year older than me, and we used to play together all the time when we were much younger. I didn't see him around for the past few years, but since the past couple weeks I've ...

Help!!! Am I being irrational?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Hello:) Recently I've been having some problems in my relationship. It started when I started to feel a bit taken for granted, all me and my boyfriend did was sit in at mine or his, and then go out with friends, which I love doing... But sometime...

Risk our friendship by stating I still love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4225 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I dated this guy for a few months. He graduated last year and I'm a sophomore in high school. Please don't start saying he's too old for me because my mother is okay with it and so are both of his parents. Well, we broke up a year ago because he was ...

I don't know which guy I like more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for about 5 months now and i'm beginning to really like him, we flirt every time we see each other, he has a great personality and he's been coming round every other weekend, and we would end up kissing and cuddling. ...

He has a nickname for me and fights to sit near me, but we don't talk much. Is he interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4219 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I have a friend 7th grade. (Lets say person A)Now i am in10 th grade and we are classmates. We weren't actually talking to eachother since this year. In school at breaktine everyone was stressed bec. we had an exam in few minutes and a close friend ...

I am a fake person online and I don't know how to come clean

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I am a fake person online. I fell in love with an Airforce man. I don't know how to tell him, cause I know he won't love me, after he sees the real me. I am trying my best to figure out a way to tell him, I don't know how and I don't want him to ...

I thought I was gay but now I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 May 2013 (M) - Hi:) i'm 16 and I'm extremely unsure about my sexuality. Ive been certain since I was 13 that I was 110% gay. But recently I've been questioning it. I've never had a full on crush on a guy before and I have these weird dreams that indicate that I am ...

Help! My boyfriend is putting me in awful moods!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. So I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. No, our relationship isn't perfect as I've been struggling with depression and its killed my sex drive but he understands and is really nice about it. However, it really doe...

Don't want to date this guy, but I still want us to be friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, My situation I am in a bit of a pickle. I went on a nice date with this guy and a movie, but I don't want to date. This guy I met in my town just started talking to me and having conversation with me. And we chatted, and he ...

I feel like I'm stuck with my BF of 3 years. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my BF for 3 years now. Looking back, I feel like he was a rebound for me because my first love had completely betrayed me. Of course, I wasn't aware of it at the time. A year into our relationship he moved countries to be ...

I have a friend I'm in love with. Do I just leave her alone? She still loves her ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

26 May 2013 (M) - Okay,so recently I reconnented with a former best friend who stop talking to me because of her then boyfriend. Anyway we started back talking april 15th and we were dating that same day. We been together before she broke up with me Thursday, because ...

He wouldn't even say "happy birthday" to me after I used all my lunch money to buy him birthday presents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - i like this guy who talks to a lot of girls and we started talking and texting for two weeks and we even stayed up together until 3 before but then things started to change..he found out that i like him and just started to ignore me. yesterday was ...

I have to take the bus to see him. How can I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - I've asked a question about this before, but I need some more advice. Basically, I like someone a lot. Lots in common, we argue about literature and politics. I'm 14 he's 16. My last question was based on whether 2/3 years was too big an age g...

Why do guys pay flirty, promiscuous girls so much attention?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Do guys usually like the flirty and promiscuous type of girls? I need some advice because I hate to say I'm a little jealous of this girl I know who gets so much attention from my guy friends and just a lot of guys in general. She sleeps around wi...

How will I manage not being able to see the guy I have a crush on as often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - So i have an issue, im currently about to leave my sixth form after 7 years. I have liked this guy for majority of the time, and i'm wondering just how i am going to manage with not seeing him so regularly. We've always had a sort of weird relation...

Feels like my Gf does not trust me. How can I cheer her up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

23 May 2013 (M) - "Dear Cupid", I just got a girlfriend about 2 weeks ago. We get along really well and we love being around each other because we can almost predict what the other one is thnkng, which I think is a massive improvement on how we acted around each ote...

How can I create a moment with this older guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4230 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Recently I've developed feelings for a guy- a guy who is four years older than me. And who happens to be my vice drama teacher. We've been talking a lot recently, not just about basic topics but also deeper, more meaningful things. I know nothing...

Broke up a month ago. Does he still love me? He said his "real friends" are stopping him from dating me again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend around a month ago. we've dated for 2 and a half years, though i was the one who suggested a break up, i miss him so much, and i actually want him back. The reason why, i suggested a break up was because we always h...

Should I come out so I can see him before he goes? Should I be worried about the 3 year age gap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

22 May 2013 (M) - I'm 16, gay, and in a crisis. I've got to know this guy from my school quite well. He was a sixth former when I was in year 9 and after he left school when I started year 10 for uni we got closer and we both discovered that we were both gay. O...

One more day at school. Would it seem weird if I gave two guys at school my number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - So I like this guy and he knows. He's ok with it and yea. So my last day of school is in a couple days and I want to give him my number so we can contact each other. And also I have this really good guy friend who is moving and I wanna give him...

My crush knows I like him but he's back with his ex and treats me the same, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - I have liked this guy for a few months now and don't know what to do. I hung around in a group two years ago and was friends with him but then we all went our separate ways. I am now in two of the same classes as him science and english. In science ...

Could my decision hurt me in any way and what do you think of FWB?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Hi. Im 18 young and single. I am getting ready to graduate from high school and will be heading off to college shortly. I have done extremely well and am graduating with a 3.9 gpa. I figure with the year coming to a close why not have some fun. So ...

Do I move on from my boyfriend or just deal with this friendship he has with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I feel like it's time to just give up on my three year relationship. My boyfriend met a girl about two months ago and they seem to hit it off well and I'm suspicious of her. She is the total opposite of me. She is a huge and natural...

My boyfriend of 2 years still doesn't want me to meet his friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Hi!! Please help me, I can't understand this, my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, my issue is that he doesn't want me to meet most of his friends. (they are all male and all of them are students just like us, no drugs...

Does this sound like normal puberty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Im 13. Ive had discharge for two years nonstop with no period. My breasts hurt i get headaches, ive noticed lots of blackheads and clogged pores, and i am constantly grumpy and hateful. What does this mean? help, i think puberty hates me...

Is it normal to obsess about the person I gave up my virginity with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - up until last week i was a virgin. Im 18 and wanted it to be with someone special and it wasn't, i lost my virginty on a 1 night stand. I regret it so much but i know theirs nothing i can do. But now i am obsessed with the guy i lost it to, i ca...

Am I just paranoid or is he just not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

20 May 2013 (F) - My guy friend has been staring at me for the past few weeks. But we stopped talking (I don't know why though) but his 'last seens' were way back. So I know he hasn't been online. He talked to me twice face to face at school last week. I was hoping ...

My boyfriend maintains a friendship with a woman who has a crush on him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - There is this girl my boyfriend has been talking to online. I found out she has a huge crush on him and has been trying to hook up with him for weeks now. What's worse is that I found out she sent him a naked picture. I'm upset because even tho...

I think I wasted my teenage years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Hey guys. I'm wondering if anyone here can relate and give me some advice. I'm 19 years old and I feel like I've sort of wasted my teenage years and that I didn't really live the life of a normal teenager. I've never had a boyfriend, never really ...

Should I text him? Or forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4224 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Hello, Hey so I got the number of this guy I'm into from my friend about a week ago. I sent him a text saying it was me and I was sorry for getting really sloppy while drunk. He replied in about a minute saying it was fine. We then sent about te...

Feel hopelessly bound to him. Do I just try to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Began I relationship with a boy from a very young age. We lost our virginities to each other and were beyond in-love. Due to our age and him wanting to 'be a bloke' and hang out with 'his boys' and the pressure of us having to get on with our live...

I'm scared to ruin this friendship. But why hasn't he made a move, when he knows I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - I'm friends with a guy at college and I really like him. He knows, but not from me. He doesn't act on this though and he seems to like someone else. I'm so conflicted on what to do. Should I seek advice from his friend? I'm scared to ruin our frie...

Attracted to a coworker and want to ask her on a date but confused exactly how to...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4235 days ago

18 May 2013 (M) - So having worked in this low-end job for about a month I've been struggling with the black or white question of whether or not I should try and make a move towards being more than friends. It's taken me so long because working (and dating) coupled ...

Anyone else really hate pick-up artists?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - I've never been remotely interested in a guy like that. It just absolutely puts me off. It's like someone knows I wouldn't be interested in him if he acts like his normal self, so he has to put on a "front" and try manipulative mind games like ...

How to I reconcile knowing something significant about my boyfriend's father that even he doesn't know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - So my partner is one of three children. He has a different father to the younger two and sees this dad as his also. He has no interest in his biological 'father' since he never had anything to do with him. Last night I was drinking with my...

I'm planning to visit my long distance boyfriend, but too young to rent a hotel. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - So, this isn't really a relationship question, but my LDR boyfriend and I are planning to meet pretty soon and recently I've been trying to get everything prepared to go visit him. There are two problems though, I suppose. We're still pretty y...