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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

If I do well in my exams, will he come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

30 January 2013 (F) - My cousin proposed to me and i accepted. We didnt go for outings although we wanted because we cant make it. After 2 months he said that he wants me to concentrate in my exams. Its been a year that we had break up but i still cant forget him. He ...

He's 24. I told him I was 18. How can I tell him the truth that I'm 17 and not lose him when I do tell?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Hello, I'm 17 years old and iv met a guy and we have been seeing each other for about a month and we really like each other. However, I told him I was 18 as we met in a bar that I got into. He's 24. I want to tell him that I'm actually 17,...

Should I date a guy who's shorter and younger than me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid! I'm a 17-years old girl and there's this 15-years old boy, we kind of like each other. But wouldn't it be weird to date him? People would talk about us. Also he is a few cm shorter than me, I think, and to be honest, looks more like my ...

Any tips to help me get over this and move on? I am about to break up with him. He's happy I'm leaving. His teenage children rule the house. He refuses to back me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I won't make this too long but would really appreciate some of your views. My partner has asked me to move out of his house. We have been together 5 years and i moved in 3 1/2 years ago away from all my family and friends. He has 2 kids tha...

Do I tell this girl my real feelings for her? But then there's my friend, and I know he likes her too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4313 days ago

29 January 2013 (M) - well this girl that I like lets call her girl A I met through being friends with this other girl lets call her girl B and by the way girl A and girl B are really good friends. The problem I have is that I really enjoy being friends with girl B a...

Trying to make my marriage blossom, but I can't last 5 minutes without thinking about my lover

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - Married for 23yrs I met the love of my life who has been married 24yrs. We had an undeniable connection, and made love 24hrs after meeting. His first time and my first, since our weddings. We live in different states. I returned home and ...

I love him to no end, I would do or give anything for him, I can't move on but it's tearing me apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - 1 year and 9 months ago me and my boyfriend broke up and he refused to speak to me afterward even though he said we could still be friends. although we never spoke i could never get over him and a year and 2 months after we broke up he started ...

Why is he telling loads of girls (me included) that he likes them and wants to kiss them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - I don't have an issue, I'm just curious to know what's going on. So there's this guy at my school, I'm my class infact that claims to like me. So we were chatting and he said he has liked me for a long time and wants to kiss me (and he asked me...

How can I be better eye candy without looking tarty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - I really don't think I am girlfriend material! Or I just repell boys I have no idea But I just don't attract anyone and if I fancy someone it just never works out Can I have some tips on how to be better eye candy without looking tarty? What do...

My ex FWB and I still flirt but now he thinks his g/f is pregnant. I want to help but its painful for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - A few months ago me and a friend ended up admitting we really liked eachother and had a few intimate encounters. However we agreed that due to the fact we are in a band together it would be better if we didn't make it anything serious and he also ...

Why did he break up with me? I don't understand

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - Im in love with a guy who has all the character of being a flirty one. He always wanted to go out with me but it wouldnt work out. He ask about my likes and dislikes to my friend. After 3 months he said that lets break up. I asked him why he said ...

Are my parents right to be worried and should I worry a bit more about my crush on this 49 year old salesman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - I am a 19 year old apprentice hairdresser, I have fallen for a 49 year old salesman who delivers product to our salon. I have always fancied older men and have had a few affairs and slept with them. My parents are worried that he his using me and...

Caught fiancee cheating whilst I was pregnant now I am sleeping with his boss

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - Me and my now EX fiance where dating for 1 and a half years and i became pregnant and we were excited but 6 months into my pregnancy i came home early from my part time job as i wasn't feeling to good so i come home and i hear him shouting out my ...

Our relationship is secret, but I want to spend more time with my Gf. How can I keep my job, and the respect of my boss and still see her daughter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

26 January 2013 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are in a secret relationship because we work together and not allowed to date. I should also mention she is my bosses daughter. We only get to see each other about once a week for an occational movie. How can I spend more time ...

Now my girlfriend wants to breakup, all because I looked at a girl's cleavage. Is she being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

26 January 2013 (M) - My girlfriend wants to break up with me because I glanced at a girl's cleavage. There was nothing sexual about it and I wasn't looking for anything. I don't know how to convince her that this isn't a big deal. Advice?...

How can I learn to accept that I may never have a boyfriend? They don't even show interest.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4314 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - I'm not really the type of girl that guys like. Nor do guys show any interest, in me which is fine. I do get lonely at times despite having friends and an otherwise happy or successful(to me at least) life. I keep telling myself that it will hap...

I have a boyfriend but I like to flirt with other boys. Is this wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I find myself in a difficult situation. I've just got my first boyfriend, and i really really like him. However i find myself flirting with other guys quite a lot, and i've recently found out that this guy likes me, and starting to ...

I have a crush on a boy, but don't know if he wants a girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4317 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - I've started liking someone since getting over someone else who I think I have overlooked. He's much much nicer than the person I used to like, and I'm certain he's not a "rebound" because he's all I've been able to think about for the last few ...

At 17 how would guys view me if I chose to have an 'open relationship?' or is it just time breakup with my Bf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - Hi guys. What is the male view of an open relationship? I'm 17 and although I enjoy the company of a 'boyfriend' I'm not ready to become monogamous just to one boy. An open relationship where we have the companionship but freedom sounds perfect t...

First boyfriend. But it's not working. What's the best way to break up with a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm 16, I've had a boyfriend for 3 months but I just feel like its not right anymore. How do I break up with him? Do I need to lead up to it- be offhand/busy if he wants to see me, not reply to texts properly etc so he knows...

Am I too small to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - I know this is gonna sound weird but me and my friend got into this really weird conversation about sex (we're both virgins which would explain the constant giggles and blushes) which led to me wondering about how deep my vagina was inside. I actu...

I feel threatened by my emotionally abusive ex. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - Hi all, I broke up with an emotionally abusive ex half a year ago. On top of that, he owed me a few hundred dollars. The breakup was not pleasant. He threatened to commit suicide if I wouldn't get back with him. He has also left voice messages...

14 and confused about my sexuality

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (M) - Im 14 and in the Past few months I have been masturbating and suddenly feel an attraction towards gays and orgasm more quickly. Yet at the same time I have never had a crush on a boy and have had many over girls and regularly get erections thinking ...

Am I being a good boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (M) - As of spring of this year me and my girlfriend will have been dating one year. Throughout this year we have had our fair share of troubles like most young couples and I am interested in knowing if I am doing anything wrong and if I am what I can do ...

I've regained all my feelings for him again. How do I tell him this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

24 January 2013 (F) - So , When I Was 15 I Was In A Relationship With This Guy Who Was Also The Same Age As Me . After Three Months Of Being Together , We Broke Up . But After Several Months Of Not Talking He Decided To Text Me . So We Been Texting For About A Year...

Can anyone give me any hot make out advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

23 January 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm a 17 year old girl. I have a party coming up and my crush is going to be there and something tells me there's going to be some action. Does anyone have any hot make out advice that guys like, but nothing too dirty cause it's...

How can I tell whether or not this guy likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

22 January 2013 (F) - I find it really hard to read this boy! He shows some signs he likes me such as laughs at my jokes, smiles at me, is different around me, makes fun of me. But when I told him I liked him before he didn't take it too well cus he liked someone else, ...

Can I make my breasts perky?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

22 January 2013 (F) - I'm 16 years old, and I hate, hate, hate my boobs. They're cone-shaped and point downward. I'm 36B, and I'm completely healthy. I'm terrified when boyfriends ask to see them. In the past, I've had guy friends accidentally see them, and all th...

Why do some women find aggressive behaviour in men a turn on? I don't get the female mind!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

22 January 2013 (M) - Hey all I have a question on the confusing female mind! I was chatting with a couple of women recently and they both confused the hell out of me. One had slept with some chavy guy who she regretted sleeping with but said she did it because the h...

Is there any way I can make sex more comfortable for my girlfriend? She thinks I'm too well endowed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

22 January 2013 (M) - We have been dating for about 4 and a half years now and used to regularly have sex, sometimes 2 or 3 times in one day and she could handle it, granted she was 16 and I just turned 17 when this happened. We have since slowed down a lot, down to ...

How do I deal with my demanding brothers and step-mom who doesn't seem to care about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

22 January 2013 (F) - i feel really bad and unimportant to my stepmom, she's the one i live with my dad and my 2 full blood brothers and i have 2 stepbrothers. i'm the only girl but when it comes to calling each other i take them all as my brothers and treat them all ...

I don't want to look fake but I don't know how to do my makeup

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - IM blonde blue eyes and i dont feel i am the prettiest of girls so inorder for me to look nice i like doing my make up but i have no idea how boys like it, i dont want to come acroos as fae but i still want to look nice, can you help me?...

Is it silly to think he might like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - On the weekend I went to a house party and a boy who in close was there and we had a past but we have never actually been together! At the party one of my girl friends was following all the boys around and this boy was the one she stayed with for...

My boyfriend's parents really hate me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriends parents hate me! they tried to tell him lies about me and saying stuff they knew will hurt him. when they realised he didn't buy anything they were saying they decided to keep him away from me which means holding him hostage, then they ...

We planned to meet up but it never happened and now I think he has lost interest. I still like him, so how do I save this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - Theres this guy at work that I like and at first I thought he liked me back as he asked for my number and we used to phone each other every day. We planned meet up but they just didnt happen due to conflicting schedules and now we dont speak as ...

Does she like me? How do I make sure I don't give her the wrong impression that I like her when I only want to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

21 January 2013 (M) - I am currently studying in school and I have no experience in in dealing with the most minor matters in love, especially when rejecting someone. A few months ago, a girl in my similar school started a conversation with me on Facebook. We hav...

Am I being reasonable fearing our LDR? Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4320 days ago

21 January 2013 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles I recently entered a long distance relationship and I'm worried. The thing is, I'm scared, really scared. I've been in a long distance relationship before but the distance wasn't so great you know? Now I'm so much more furthe...

Broke up with my GF because I still have feelings for my ex, but she has a BF. How can I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

21 January 2013 (M) - I had been with my ex girlfriend, R, for about 2 and a half years. I always thought that I was actually happy, but near the end of our relationship I realized that I was mostly in denial. When I found out that the girl that I had been with before ...

Are these signs that he likes me? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - It was my birthday yesterday I had a party and uninvited a close boy who is a friend we had a past I used to like him and we had been on a couple of outings together (surfing cinema) and I thought of Him as a close friends and it progressed in to me...

Should I break up with my boyfriend? How can I do it without hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm 16. Recently I started a relationship with this guy, but I made a mistake that hurt him and me. Eventually we worked things out and got back together. Before my mistake I was feeling like I wanted to break up with him- things just didn...

Why did it hurt when I had sex for the first time yesterday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - Hey everyone I lost my virginity yesterday to my boyfriend of six months and he was a virgin too, I'm 17 years old and I don't regret it at all. Ok so when we first started doing it, it was kinda awkward but later we got it right. And we used a c...

Why can't I keep a friendship going? When I get closer the friendship falls apart.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - I seem to have trouble keeping friendships. In the past year alone i have lost two close friends whom i did consider to be bestfriends. I feel like the longer i spend time with a person the farther we drift. I have friends who are not so c...

Do guys back off if their friends show interest in you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - So to make a long story short, a guy from my school was very interested in me, but I have feelings for one of his friends. One day I was talking to the friend, and he basically told me that he finds me attractive but that he felt we couldn't act ...

I want to talk to this boy but I don't know how

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - Im in high school now and when i was in grade 9 i met this boy in the bus. but im in grade 12. I would see him sometimes, depending on what time i got to his bus stop. we would look at each other and every time i got off at my bus stop i felt that ...

He can't handle it now that I no longer have a crush on him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - I still remember when I first fell in love. Or fell in what I thought was love. It was unrequited and I was very young. I managed to stay in that infatuated state for a good four years. Many things happened during that time. For example, he foun...

I have a boyfriend but I'm having lesbian thoughts and its not what I want to feel

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and I'm having bi / lesbain thoughts I'm scared I have an amazing boyfriend I love him I'm scared I'm gonna lose him the thought scares me and makes me cry I love him I wanna clear my head it makes it hard for me to sleep ...

Should I be jealous of his female friend on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - Just so I'm clear, my boyfriend is 19 and I'm 16. So my boyfriend and I recently had problems in our relationship because he felt we were losing our love for each other and we are still trying to get back to the way it was but now I'm having a...

Should you add someone on facebook if they have a girlfriend/boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4323 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - Me and my two friends all like someone in college (not the same guy) My friend (A) added the guy she likes on facebook, he's single and since she added him they have spoken once but both always make eye contact around college. My other friend (B)...

Having doubts about my relationship. Is it because I no longer a doormat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - I've posted on here previously but I'm in such a state with myself lately, I really need further advice, I'm so confused and low and at a total cross roads with where my life is going. I've been with my boyfriend 3 years, we're both nearly 20 y...

I'm confused about my feelings for my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4324 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - My mother's cousin's son and I have been best friends for three years. It's getting close (less than a year) to the time when we will be going our separate ways to go to college, and I'm extremely upset. I don't think I love him, but I can't imagine ...