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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Me and my two friends all like someone in college (not the same guy) My friend (A) added the guy she likes on facebook, he's single and since she added him they have spoken once but both always make eye contact around college. My other friend (B) after alot of persuasion added the guy she likes on facebook, he has a girlfriend and tonight is the first night they have spoken. Things are going well, and he has asked for her skype.I haven't added the guy i like on facebook as i think he may think i'm strange adding him as i dont know him, i only see him around college. Also, he has a girlfriend. I know i don't stand a chance of him even looking at me in any sort of way as she is really pretty. I have no confidence atall. Should I add him?How do I boost my confidence?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2013): "My other friend (B) after alot of persuasion added the guy she likes on facebook, he has a girlfriend and tonight is the first night they have spoken. Things are going well, and he has asked for her skype."
Do you not see anything wrong with that OP? He has a girlfriend and she's trying to build a relationship with him so she can get him?
OP he has a girlfriend so just stay away and find another guy you like who is single.
You're not going to build your confidence by screwing over his girlfriend or getting close to a guy you can't have or if you do get him you'll have cheated. Makes no sense. None of those are good outcomes. If he's a nice guy he isn't going to leave his girlfriend or cheat on her so you'll just be feeding your crush and wasting your time. If he does take the bait then you don't exactly get a good quality guy but a cheater.
Add a guy who's single who you like if you like OP, never try and get to close to any guy who has a girlfriend if you like him, it never ends well.
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