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writes:Im in high school now and when i was in grade 9 i met this boy in the bus. but im in grade 12. I would see him sometimes, depending on what time i got to his bus stop. we would look at each other and every time i got off at my bus stop i felt that he was looking at me. this year i saw him with his younger brother. i assume they are siblings because they look alike. Also he sits beside me when the seats are empty or when he is close to me he does not make eye contact. we have never spoken to each other. he attends an all boys school and i go to an all girls. i want to talk to him but really do not know how to start. i wish i knew if he likes me or not... Reply to this Question
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (22 January 2013):
Hi. You're very welcome.
Hope it goes well for you. Take care & best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2013): Guys as my self are very self conscious about impressing a girl so if you think he looks at you when you don't see it he may want you good luck
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reader, Dorothy Dix +, writes (20 January 2013):
Hi there. If you feel his eyes are on you as you get off at your bus stop, it's fairly safe to say, that he could be interested in you.
Really, all you can do is whenever you find yourself walking towards him on the bus, or if you see him at the bus stop as you arrive, or when he arrives, just give him a little smile.
And do this every time you get the chance.
And see if he smiles back at you each time.
He might not do it at first, as he won't be used to you doing this.
So don't be discouraged by that, it could be shyness.
Do this for a few days - just a little smile while you make eye contact - then look away after a few seconds.
Eventually, he will smile right back at you.
And then, once this has happened - he smiles back - then you could say a little "Hi" to him, and see if he says "Hi" back.
Then over a week or two, it might go beyond just saying hi.
You could say something like - "Hi! How has your day been?"
An open question.
Something he has to say more than a yes or a no to.
And then you are away and running.
Boys are no different than girls when you are talking in conversation.
You can talk about general interests, such as:-
(1) Music (types of)
(2) Television shows
(3) Movies
(4) Books
(5) Music Bands
(6) Sports (if you like)
(7) Hobbies (ask him about his interests)
Once you start talking about one thing, and you find you have a good rapport with each other, well then the conversation will just flow really smoothly.
You won't be stuck for things to talk about, because you will both feel very relaxed and comfortable in each other's company.
It will then be easy.
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