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26-29,
anonymous
writes:My cousin proposed to me and i accepted. We didnt go for outings although we wanted because we cant make it. After 2 months he said that he wants me to concentrate in my exams. Its been a year that we had break up but i still cant forget him. He lied to me that he does not have any girlfriend but i am his first girl. But later on i realised that he had a girlfriend but they are not together now. My friends told me maybe he break up with you because he wants you to concentrate on your studies and after your exams he will come back for you. But i dont think so because now he is with another girl. I checked his facebook that he always mentioned that he is in love with a girl so much and he is missing her badly. My friends told me maybe it couldbe me. I dont think so because i asked my cousin sister about him. She told that he is in love with a girl same age as his. Again my friends adviced me that do excellent in your exams he will come back. Do you think he will come back?
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reader, Treadlightly  +, writes (2 February 2013):
No. If he really liked you he would be there to support you! Not leave you when you need him the most. That is foreshadowing the future. You don't want to be with someone who leaves when the going gets rough.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (30 January 2013):
Do I think he’ll come back if you do well in your exams? No, I’m afraid not. This is about more than exams: if he was only concerned about you doing well in your exams, he didn’t have to break up with you. He could have agreed to keep his distance and not spend so much time with you to free you to prepare and revise for them, and he wouldn’t have got another girlfriend. Whatever his reasons for breaking up with you, the easiest thing for him was to say that it was because of your exams. Unfortunately that has left you hoping that if you do well in them, the relationship will be resumed again. That’s not going to be the case so you need to move on and accept your friends have got this one wrong.
I wish you all the very best.
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