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26-29,
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writes:I've started liking someone since getting over someone else who I think I have overlooked. He's much much nicer than the person I used to like, and I'm certain he's not a "rebound" because he's all I've been able to think about for the last few months. He's one of my best friends twin brother and he's really, really lovely. I know of quite a few people that fancy him purely because he was the star of the school production, but he doesn't seem to actually want a girlfriend, and as far as I know, he's never had one. He has turned many girls down, nicely though. I started to like him a while ago, because he actually showed an interest in me. We are really similar, we like the same music, food, tv, same views on things, and we have got to know each other really well. He's one of the nicest people I know and I really like him.He seems to like me too, because I always catch him looking at me and he will blush and smile at me, but never look away. He pays more attention to me than any other girl (apart from his sister), and will always come over to talk to me.I really want to know if he actually likes me, because he's never shown interest in anyone before, let alone me and is absolutely perfect, I've never met anyone who likes Bon Jovi as much as me. I think I like him much more than my last crush because he's actually nice to me, and seems to like me back. I just don't want to up the courage to ask him out and him still not want a girlfriend.
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reader, Dayzy  +, writes (26 January 2013):
You might never know until you ask. I suggest, if you are very good friends with his brother that you ask to set up a double date, or you ask your friend if his brother might like to go for a date to the beach or for a coffee.
Otherwise ask him yourself. You'll soon find o ut if he's interested by his response. Then go slowly, taking time to get to know each other. If he doesn't make any romantic advances toward you after a few weeks then he may not be interested. If this guy is very shy, you might enlist some help from his twin.
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