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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:well this girl that I like lets call her girl A I met through being friends with this other girl lets call her girl B and by the way girl A and girl B are really good friends.The problem I have is that I really enjoy being friends with girl B and I don't want to do anything to hurt her feelings or anything like that but I am positive that she has a crush on me. What makes things even more complicated is that a friend of mine has recently met girl A and since I was not rushing to make my feelings known or to make a move on girl A to not hurt girl B's feelings, he asked her on a date and she said yes. What amazes me about the whole thing is that my friend is really terrible when it comes to girls. At first it has seemed like I didnt need to worry because when he were all hanging out recently she didn't seem to be in to him at all, I actually kinda impressed my self cause I did really well then, I wasnt a jerk at all didnt ignore girl B and it kinda seemed like girl A might actually have feelings for me too. Now im starting to worry now because my friend just came back from hanging out with her and her friends and then she made a twitter post that could be interpreted that she is head over heels for him. What do I do? do I try to ruin things for my friend? do I tell girl A how I feel and try not to make it look like we are fighting over her? Do I try to talk to girl B about it risking hurting her feelings? or do I do something else? please help their date is soon approaching
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reader, abbieloulous  +, writes (29 January 2013):
 I have been in the same position but it just all depends on how much your friend with girl a means to you. How deeply you really feel for this girl. Everyone's different but when it was me I left my friend to it as I treasured our friendship and I really liked the guy she was getting with. But then each to their own if you really feel you have to be with this girl then so be it we can't choose who we fall in love with. In this situation your best of following your heart.
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