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Our relationship is secret, but I want to spend more time with my Gf. How can I keep my job, and the respect of my boss and still see her daughter?

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Question - (26 January 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 January 2013)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my girlfriend are in a secret relationship because we work together and not allowed to date. I should also mention she is my bosses daughter. We only get to see each other about once a week for an occational movie. How can I spend more time with her without making it obvious to her mom. (I'd like to keep my job.)

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (26 January 2013):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntBrother... this is like living in a glass house and wondering why everybody knows that you walk around naked at night.....

Fuggeddaboutit.... keeping this a secret. Man-up and decide that you fancy this girl and will accomodate what it takes to continue seeing her under more-"normal" circumstances.... .OR, decide that your genitals are too small.... and you will have to continue as you have been doing....

Good luck...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2013):

"How can I spend more time with her without making it obvious to her mom. (I'd like to keep my job.)"

You can't.

Sooner or later your secret girlfriend's mother will find out and she will neither respect you as her dishonest ex-employee nor her daughter's dishonest ex-boyfriend.

You're in a no-win situation. Start looking for another job now, no way you're keeping this one for any length of time. Your boss isn't going to fire her daughter before you.

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