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Sex: Help and advice

Question on BDSM: What things could I do or use sexually to drive my B/f wild?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - Hi cupids, this is a question in hope of gathering all of the BDSM style members. My partner is into BDSM and loves anything considered dirty/experimental. In the past we have used hot candle wax, being tied up etc but what I'm here to ask is, how ...

Could I get pregnant from dry humping?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I dry humped. I have like cheer shorts on, they are short and thin plus underwear. He had underwear and like guys athletic shorts. Well we were humping and I felt something wet down there. Im scared I could be pregant please help!...

Do guys always stop intercourse after they cum?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - Hello agony aunts and uncles! So I just have a pretty straightforward question, do guys always stop intercourse after they cum? Every guy I've been with has. But I've heard before that not everyone does (i don't know if they're lying or not) th...

I don't know how to get intimate with a guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

31 July 2014 (F) - Hey agony aunts! I know this will sound really pathetic but I don't know how to get intimate with a guy. There is this guy I like a lot and am super attracted to and I can hardly think of anything else when we're together- I want to get close to him ...

I want to help my boyfriend last longer in bed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3758 days ago

30 July 2014 (F) - I'm dating this guy and I am absolutely in love with him. We've had sex a few times and each time it's only been for about 10 minutes. (if that) because he cums pretty fast. we do a lot of foreplay and he normally fingers me and things like that ...

What sort of vibes do these men want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Hello. Happy to find you guys and ladies here. My problem? I've been told by a couple of guys that the reason they haven't approached me or tried to have sex with me is because I haven't given them those kind of vibes. well, I don't know what vibes ...

My B/f's having a relationship with another girl who I was led to believe was his ex, I snooped though his texts and guess what I found?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

28 July 2014 (F) - Hey all so I've been dating this guy going on 3 months we started dating while he was in another relationship. The relationship was serious he and the girl he was with had been together a year and 3 months and they lived together. Any way I was so...

He was sexting and then had an affair, I cant decide whether to forgive and work on it, or leave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

27 July 2014 (F) - I recently asked for help over my partner sexting another woman and I have now spoken to her and she was very willing to tell me that they had know each other for about a year and that they were only friends and although she wanted more, he said ...

Should I tell my wife that I'm considering a visit to see a prostitute?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3703 days ago

27 July 2014 (M) - Yes, this is a weird question to ask. However, my wife of 20 years will not have sex with me and has not for more than 10 years. It is something we have talked about many, many times but nothing ever changes. She doesn't want to divorce me and I...

How to spice up our sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

26 July 2014 (M) - My FWB and I have been having sex for the last six year. Of course when we had short term relationships in between, we stayed away from each other. We tried being together romantically but we were a mismatch when it came to longterm. We realized ...

He had a girlfriend but I let him take my virginity ....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

26 July 2014 (F) - I met this guy almost a year ago, we became friends and started talking a bit. I started liking him but found out that he has a girlfriend so in my head I kind of labeled him as well just a friend even though I liked him. One day I dont even rem...

I'd like to give him oral but I'm not so sure about his hygiene

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - I want to give my new boyfriend, of 4 months, oral sex, but I've noticed an off smell down there, and I think it's due to him not washing himself properly under his foreskin area. The other guys I have been with in the past haven't had the ...

Have no intention of replicating my taboo fantasies in real life. But is one of my fantasies too taboo to share with my Bf? What counselling could help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

25 July 2014 (F) - To put it simply, I have a really bad kink that involves getting off on taboo fantasies. I've fantasized about strange things most other women don't such as picturing my boyfriend with another woman, and I have read incest erotica online, but NONE...

Why have I never felt this way about any other guy? He makes me tingle.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is the one and only person that I have ever been with that literally makes me go crazy horny when I think of him. I'm thirty years old! I never felt this physical attraction with anyone else.. Sorry for TMI but my clitoris literall...

I've made it clear: monogamy is my preference. Am I over-reacting to his suggestion re a threesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

24 July 2014 (F) - Help my partner has told me he would participate in a threesome with me and another man if I ever wanted that . I told him that I would never ask for that and the fantasy is one thing but in real life a threesome is not something I'm interested in ...

Should I choose loyalty or my own interest? I'd love to have kids but her condition means she cannot have intercourse.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

23 July 2014 (M) - Hi, I am in my early 40s and in a relationship with a woman for a very long time. We really get along very well and I would be happy to spend the rest of our lives together... IF it weren't for the fact that she has a health condition for a ver...

The man I know now is so different from the one I knew 2 years ago. I feel trapped being with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

23 July 2014 (F) - I have been going out with this man for 2 years now. He seemed very sweet and attentive at first and has always desired me more than I do him but I've looked past that and tried to see other qualities in him. He is 45 years old and had been living ...

The spark is gone from our sex life, will bringing in a third person help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

21 July 2014 (M) - Hi. My wife and I have been married for 23 years. We still love each other but the spark has gone from our sex life, although we regularly have sex. For many years I have always told her that the thought of her having sex with another well endowed ...

Is this boy ignoring me, or does he just want sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - This guy messaged me about a week or two ago. We'll call him "Isaac." "Isaac" and I went to middle school together, and he's two years younger than me. He is about to be a sophomore and I'm about to be a senior. When we were in middle school, I came ...

My girlfriend loves penis-jokes, but I am feeling hurt by them!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

21 July 2014 (M) - Hi there, I am in a horrible situation where my anxiety over penis size is ruining my life. I am a 30 year old guy and am not someone to believe in the usual pressures of society, in fact I think they are immoral and insensitive. Nonetheles...

How can I ever tell my wife that due to my diabetes my ability to have sexual relations is no more?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

21 July 2014 (M) - I am a 53 year old man and I have lost my ability to have sex because I suffer from diabetes. I can just can ejaculate but my penis is not hard enough to sustain sexual relations with my wife. I feel guilty myself. My wife is so good, How can I te...

I love my girlfriend but don't want to have sex with her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

21 July 2014 (M) - okay so here's my question. I've been on my relationship for nearly three years nowand let me tell you with the greatest thing that ever happened to me.but here's thing, never had sex with my girl friend.and it wasn't even her choice it was mine. ...

SHould I date this guy even though my family says hes just after me for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3740 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - So 4 weeks ago i started a new job and a co worker of mine has really taken a liking to me. I like him too, a lot, but I am 18 and he is 23. Now i know this is a very small age gap but i have a sister who's 22 and i have always said i refuse to date ...

Is it good or bad to have a high angled Penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

21 July 2014 (M) - Anyone know if a high erection angle, e.g. 11 o'clock, is particularly stimulating to women or is there not much benefit to having one? I have one and sex doesn't feel that great for me because of it, I think. But if it gets girls off particularly ...

I woke up to my bf jerking off 2 hours after I told him am so horny and want him so bad

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

21 July 2014 (F) - I woke up to my bf jerking off 2 hours after I had literary begged him for sex because am always horny. He stopped immediately with a guilty look, and tried to cuddle me, but I was both shocked and disgusted. We didn't talk about it because I was so ...

My affair partner is leaving her husband but becoming distant towards me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

20 July 2014 (M) - What could be the reason for this type of behavior? You would think that she would probably want to get closer to me now that she's "moving on" so to speak, but it almost feels like she's slowly distancing herself from me as well. We have been s...

I used to be happy in this marriage but now I'm just angry all the time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

20 July 2014 (F) - Hi I'm married been together for four years with a one year old daughter. I have a problem, I don't want to have sex with my hubby anymore, I don't like him touching me he has to initiate sex I'm really not in the mood so I can't enjoy it, i try to ...

What other forms of therapy or support might help to get me through my issues with having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

20 July 2014 (M) - Hello. I'm a 47 year old man. I have trouble with having sex. My problems began with my first girlfriend. We had sex that first time. She came and I didn't. For months this went on and nothing seemed to work for me. After the next one I too...

I don't want to give him an ultimatum, either pick me or masturbation/porn but his choice is having an impact on our sex life. What would you do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

20 July 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months has a lot of great qualities but our sex life is lacking. He can't always maintain an erection when we're having sex or when he can he can sometimes he still can't orgasm. He says he watches a lot of porn and masturb...

I am starting to mistrust him .....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

20 July 2014 (F) - My bf slept over in my parents bed because they were away for business. I slept in my own room as we are old fashioned and are waiting for marriage (more his idea than mine). A week later he tells me he had a wet dream and messed up the sheets but ...

Newlyweds and embarrassment of dealing with hair "down there"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3747 days ago

20 July 2014 (F) - How do newlyweds deal with hair "down there"? I mean, doesn't it get uncomfortable with the roughness of hair growing back or the embarrassment of ingrown hairs? I'm getting married soon and have never been intimate with anyone before. I'm anxious ...

Husband has no interest in sex and has ED. Ten years of no sex. How can I address my need for sexual satisfaction?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

18 July 2014 (F) - I'm so sad, I don't know what to do. Me and my husband can't have sex , due to his lack of libido, and inability to get an erection . I just don't know what to do. I'm in such a despair , about this. Time to time, I feel I can't go on like this. I ...

His attitude has me wondering if he knew that he had herpes and didn't tell me. Do I walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

18 July 2014 (F) - Hi - about 12 months ago my boyfriend (who I have been with for a couple of years)was diagnosed with a condition called 'balanitis' and it has been difficult to treat. He also had genital herpes early during the diagnosis which the clinic felt may ...

Why are some women so insecure when it comes to porn?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

18 July 2014 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for the last five years. We met in high school and pretty much hit it off right away. We became instantly close from then and although we have our own share of problems, porn was never one of them. We have b...

Am I being unreasonable? She went too far on a fourth date.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

17 July 2014 (M) - I know I do have some OCD issues which I think may be contributing to this. I have been in love with my current GF for over 6 mos. She is 37 and was previously married for 13 years to the man that she saved herself for on her wedding day at t...

They say I would have been rocked by a tree stump. Do they have a point?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

16 July 2014 (F) - OK, I had sex with a new boyfriend recently. It was our first date and he took me to the highest heaven. My friends were not as impressed. They told me my reaction was based on circumstances and looks, ie it was my first time after 23 years of ...

Why do some men think porn stars are magical being?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

15 July 2014 (F) - Why do some men think pornstars are magical beings? My ex and my first boyfriend were just like that. My ex said "a pornstar works in my office" in a voice as if he had achieved something. My first boyfriend used to call them by their names...

Should I have sex to keep my boyfriend?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

15 July 2014 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years now, (I am -9) and I love him to pieces. We sleep over at each other's all the time and it's all been perfectly fine. Then one night we were at his and he said "my parents wont be home until ...

How do I deal with my husband hiding his impotency!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

15 July 2014 (F) - after 20yrs of marriage i now know my husband had an impotency problem he hid it from me making excuses all the time, i beleived his excuse----how to deal with this please tell me how to deal with this...

We had an amazing weekend connection but now I haven't heard from him. Do I call?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

15 July 2014 (F) - I met this really good looking guy at a friends BBQ last weekend. We hit it off instantly and chatted for hours. We ended the night by kissing. We live in different states and he spoke of me visiting him. We even talked about sex and how he wasn't ...

Not sexually compatible. She's beautiful and we've been together 5 years. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

14 July 2014 (F) - I have a problem that I think may be pretty common, so I would like to hear from people who have been through it, or are currently dealing with it. I have a partner who is great in every way. Independent, smart, good looking, shares a lot of ...

Why do all my relationships end up with me being used?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

14 July 2014 (F) - My relationships always go south and I end up with guys who treat me badly or only want one thing. This last guy, I met at a meeting for this local political group we're both involved in. We ended up talking and flirting a little (no physical con...

Boyfriend's penis is too big!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

14 July 2014 (F) - I starring dating this guy and his penis is huge is feels good during but most times it just hurts. I have been with plenty of other men. Its just I can't seem to get use to it. So my question is will it not hurt me or will it hurt forever....

I saw a condom behind my boyfriend's sofa, should I be worried ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

13 July 2014 (F) - I saw a condom behind my boyfriend's sofa, should i be worried ? The condom wasn't used, as his semen wasn't in it. It wasn't there when I went to his house before that. He told me that he had found it down the side of his other sofa, and he h...

Do girls REALLY fondle each other to attract male attention?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

13 July 2014 (M) - There is this guy at work, who I will call "John". John is a real chick magnet. Every girl, whether workmate or customer, is attracted to him. E.g. while I am talking to a female customer, she snatches looks at John, and many times smiles to him. ...

I don't get wet before sex and I don't know if I've had an orgasm

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

13 July 2014 (F) - I'm 24 and I've been with a few different guys. The other day my boyfriend asked me if I've ever had a orgasim with him and I honestly couldn't answer. I've had times during sex with him where my legs will shake and it feels downright amazing but ...

How can I move on and overcome all the drama that resulted from my sister's complaint about my Bf and I having sex in my parent's home?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

12 July 2014 (F) - Me and my boyfriend started having sex about 2 months into our relationship. We both lost our virginities to each other so everything was need and exciting, we had sex every time we saw each other which was around 5-6 days a week. Problem was we ...

Considering our past history, was what we had together recently a ''one night stand''?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

12 July 2014 (F) - Good day, If you had a relationship with a guy, hook up again a year or two later, have sex and never see each other again,does this count as a "one night stand" ? Even though you were involved earlier?...

Should I take back my ex? He had casual fling during a brief split.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

12 July 2014 (F) - OK, I am very confused. Me and my partner recently split up and just got back together, and I just found out by looking at his phone (bad I know but I had a gut feeling) that he was casually involved with another woman during the break. I know it's ...

I don't want him back but I know I have to arrange for him to be able to see our baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

12 July 2014 (F) - I really need some advice on how best to deal with my boyfriend cheating on me and setting up some form of contact for our baby while I allow myself time to take it all in. My boyfriend of three years had cheated on me while I was pregnant, it was...