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anonymous
writes:My FWB and I have been having sex for the last six year. Of course when we had short term relationships in between, we stayed away from each other. We tried being together romantically but we were a mismatch when it came to longterm. We realized that we were interested in each other purely for the amazing sex. We still engage in some romance here and there but the sex is the real goal whenever we see each other. And before you go thinking that I'm being a typical guy and taking advantage of her for sex, just know that she was the one who started this whole FWB situation six years ago. I was actually the one hesitant to enagage in sexual activity with her when she approached me but she eventually got me addicted to her seductive ways.We've done quite a lot of things from roleplaying, to public oral satisfaction/finger play. She LOVES getting eaten out and honestly, it's my favorite part when pleasing her. Is there anything that would make that activity more enjoyable for her? Is there any other ways that I can spice up our sex life and keep it fresh?
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reader, StarryEyes101  +, writes (28 July 2014):
 I agree with BMBTL. Start off soft first. Maybe blindfolded, tied up and tickling her with feathers. If you both really enjoy it then look into getting toys. Bondage isn't always the scary stuff! I also agree with anon, incorporate food is a yes yes in my book. Choc sauce, ice cream or whipped cream :)
Also when you are receiving or giving oral have a spoonful of ice cream or suck an ice cube so your mouth is cold. Amazing feeling! Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2014): "I was actually the one hesitant to enagage in sexual activity with her when she approached me but she eventually got me addicted to her seductive ways."
Um, way to portray your FWB as a temptress who weakened your defenses and lured you to the dark side. Not sure if you meant it that way, but it sure sounded like it.
Anyway, you aren't too specific of the things you've done in bed, so what I list might've been checked off. I would suggest toys, new positions you haven't tried, utilizing your environment when picking a location to have sex (office chair, desk, floor, etc...), maybe even incorporating foods.
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reader, -BMBTL- +, writes (26 July 2014):
 Bondage. Seems to be the in thing, what with 50 shades!
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