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writes:I want to give my new boyfriend, of 4 months, oral sex, but I've noticed an off smell down there, and I think it's due to him not washing himself properly under his foreskin area.The other guys I have been with in the past haven't had the foreskin so I've never had this problem before. I just don't know how to bring it up, as I don't want it to be awkward or to offend him.He has never asked me for oral, not even once, he never tried to force anything upon me, which I think is nice of him. It was me who mentioned oral sex when we first stated going out, before I realised about the smell, and he said he really would love that. But he has not once asked me for it. I've noticed sometimes the smell is worse than others, and then sometimes I can't even smell anything, so I'm thinking he had a good clean. I don't mind the smell as what we are doing now, but I wouldn't like to taste it as I think it would put me off the whole act, but it's something I want to do for him, as I think we would both really enjoy it.How do I bring it up? And when do I bring it up?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 July 2014):
 Tell him... I guess it is awkward, but I always just ask the guy how long ago did they wash up. Even before intercourse. I am likely to get UTI if a guy isnt clean and fresh, so I just ask "when did you clean yourself last?" If it was cleaned 10 minutes ago, and he still smells/tastes funny, then its his natural smell/from what he eats and drinks. Pineapple will remove such a natural smell. He must drink the juice or eat pineapple a few hours prior. If its been a while since he washed up, just ask him if he can go do it before you have sex, for hygienic reasons. Not everyone are aware that thery smell, if they are inexperienced.Same goes for you btw. Always clean up before sex, because women smell too, especially if youve just had a pee, he can taste that... So rinse well! (soap not needed, just enough rinses with water)
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (26 July 2014):
 I think you should gently tell him. Tell him that you're not used to guys who haven't been circumcised yet, and that sometimes but not always, you notice a smell down there that may interfere with you giving him a mindblowing BJ. Just ask him seductively to clean there a little extra for you.
His smell down there can be sweat as well, so it's possible that for the first few times, like Mistresskiki said, you may want to incorporate a good thorough cleaning as a bit of foreplay before the oral itself.
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reader, Mistresskiki +, writes (26 July 2014):
If you want to go down on him, why don't you make a big thing of washing him ALL over, so he is shiny and clean for you?
Quite a few men love the idea of being washed by 'their' woman, and consider it a major turn on.
Even if he isn't that bothered at least you know he won't be smelly.
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