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writes:Hello. Happy to find you guys and ladies here. My problem? I've been told by a couple of guys that the reason they haven't approached me or tried to have sex with me is because I haven't given them those kind of vibes. well, I don't know what vibes they want beside me smiling, complimenting, and visiting with them? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2014): I was told many times that I don't give out any vibes, but I know why, because I am married. if you are just friendly with them, like too friendly they get an impression that you are taken.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (28 July 2014):
 There is acertain way of being sexy that is nearly invisable to most but guyscan pick up on itfrom a mile away. A look, a smile, a flip of the hair., a twinkle the eye,a way of talking (R-rated)..etc. It's not possible to explain butif she's got it she's got it. Maybe you don'y "got it" no big deal! When the ight guy comes along, he'll make a pass at yu and you'll either reject it or savor it. Don't try too hard(it shows), just lax and let nature take it's course. Before long you'll be like most women and complainig that all men want to do i ravage you and take you to bed. You can't have it both ways. Chill out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2014): Dating guys and gals want to know two things: are you available and are you interested?
Sometimes it takes a few tries to get these points across. Flirting is a skill and it's instinctual so I would keep practicing and you will succeed!
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