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Archived questions from: May, 2013 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I'm 8 months pregnant b/f cheated, he lied until the girl sent the video of them having sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - I am 8 months pregnant and just found out my boy friend cheated, he said it was a mistake and he's so sorry but I don't know what to do, I want to be with him but I dont at the same time! The worst part is she filmed it and sent it to me, he ...

I am unsure how to help my online girlfriend with her sexual needs

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

31 May 2013 (M) - This will probably sound odd at first, but please bear with me. So for the past eight months, I have been dating this girl in MA online, and for the most part, everything has been going fine. We have our ups and downs, but we love oneanother deepl...

He wants to do sexual things and I do to but am unsure of how and what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - I've liked a guy for about 5-6 months and we've recently told each other that we liked each other. He said he likes me and wants to do things and become more than friends and i agreed. However, i have never done anything sexual with a guy before, ...

Tissue problem when giving oral!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - I love pleasing my wife orally. However, there's often some tissue remnants. just small bits which is really off putting. Blokes, is this common? How do you deal with it in the moment? Ladies, how can I broach this with her?...

Was it a one night stand or does he have other plans?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - So I went home to my sister's wedding and I met this guy, he is Danish, anyway, we end up getting so drunk and we spent all the wedding day together, to make things short I went back to his hotel room and we had sex. I was actually the one that ...

The thought of sex with just anyone makes me physically ill. Am I the only one out there like this? Will I ever meet anyone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3721 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - I am 21 years old and never had a boyfriend or sexual contact or anything. Yeah, I've had self esteem issues. But realistically, I've never even ever met anyone in real life that I had any feelings for. I never met anyone that I was attracted to. ...

Has anyone with retrograde jealousy ever come to terms with it and found peace?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

29 May 2013 (M) - About 2 years ago I posted an issue in this forum about how my wife cheated on me while we were dating and how lost her virginity to another man. This was despite her telling me she would not have premarital sex with anyone until married and I ...

Sex can give you STDs or cause pregnancy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4190 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - My name is Kayla I'm 15. I think today the world should know about what sex can do... It can give you sexually transmitted deceases (STD's) or end up pregnant at a young age then your whole childhood is gone! sex is a big step in a relationship you ...

I see my marriage as an obligation, not something that I can enjoy and have fun being in

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - Hello! After a lot of time that i haven't seen my ex-boyfriend, i think that i don't really feel the need to be with him anymore. We only talk some times in the phone in a friendly way. We remain friends after all, but i don't like a more intimate ...

Feel dizzy/faint when touch vagina?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - Hi. So just some background info.. I just turned 18, I'm not a virgin, I've had sex a few times but it was really painful each time so I kind of have avoided having sex since then. A couple of years ago, I tried putting in a tampon, and I pu...

My girlfriend only wants to have sex when she is drunk

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 May 2013 (M) - My girlfriend of 5 years only wants to have sex when she is drunk, also she always want me to come fast and don't touch her again till next time. I been working a lot on fore play, getting down on her, learning about what makes her feel better, ...

Is I t wrong to watch each other having sex on camera?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I was wondering, i have been dating my boyfriend for a while, but we live far apart (about 5 hours. And well the other day he asked me if id watch him masturbate, cause that would really turn him on. So I did and i also took my top off. I was kinda ...

Should I have phone sex when I don't think we'll ever meet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I met a guy online who appears to like me, but only wants to have phone sex with me and although we live in different states, I don't think we'll ever meet. What are the chances of our ever getting together?...

Cross dressing boyfriend...help!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years and about 1 yr ago I found erotic pictures of him on the computer cross dressed. I was so upset and freaked out! He said he didn't need to do it. Well, I kept finding new clothing. When he started ...

How do I get my husband to focus on me in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Hi guys. My hubby and I have a good sex life. But I was wondering how I can get him to focus on me in bed? He doesnt give oral- so thats out of the question. When we are intimate, I think I initiate a bit more, Ill kiss him rub his body, give him a ...

Need advice after having sex with my co-worker

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - My co-worker and I have known each other for a couple of years and been flirting since. He has a long term girlfriend but I didn't know this till a year later cause he never mentions her, so a long time after I developed strong feelings for him. ...

Shouldn't watching porn boost his sexual drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - So my boyfriend and i have only been dating for about 5 months, when we first got together, we had a very healthy and consistent sexual relationship as well, it hasnt really been that way, lately we've had sex maybe 3 times a month, and its not ...

My boyfriend originally thought I would be his one night stand! This bothers me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a very wierd start to our relationship,he thought I would be his one night stand but we never had sex,we eventually started hanging out more and became exclusive! I never met him with an intention of sleeping but he did and ...

My gf is never interested in sex and I am starting to miss my ex. How should I deal with this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

27 May 2013 (M) - My girlfriend seems to never be interested in sex. We've been together for eight months now and only had sex TWICE, two months ago. It's getting to the point where I can't handle the frustration anymore. I take her out, I buy her gifts, flowers, ...

How can I deal with my husband's need for sex when my sex drive is low due to pregnancy. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I'm so stressed out at the moment me and my husband split in November last year I had a couple of one night stands and ended up pregnant. Time has gone on and my husband wants to try again I have decided as I am almost 7 months pregnant I want to ...

Herpes. How do I tell my volatire partner? Should I avoid a big fight and not tell, or take a risk??? please help!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, Im a 28 yr old female. I just took standard blood work because im in the health field and a routine gyn pap, every thing came out normal. I got a letter about about my bloodwork. I called the office and found out I have Herp...

Is it wrong to be a serial lunch dater?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - I view lunch dates as a fun way to meet new people, as well as a diplomatic alternative to me saying NO DATES FOR YOU. But recently a friend told me: You shouldn't go on dates with men who you aren't attracted to... that is the equivalent of le...

My boyfriend doesn't keep me informed without me asking and it bothers me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - dear cupids, i have the most amazing boyfriend ever who takes every thing in his life seriously , his work , the scout and for sure me, but when it comes to telling me about it, he simply never does, even when his work involve issues that are ...

After a fight and make up, girlfriend says no sex. We are going on a holiday and no sex???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

26 May 2013 (M) - Hi AA's This question is long winded so apologies. Ive been going out with a girl for 4 years now, in reality she is very insecure but also has to have her own way as she believes what she wants is the right thing and dosnt see outside the bo...

Is this single guy looking for a threesome with me and my BF? Who makes the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - So here it goes. I have a male friend he split up from his girlfriend a year ago and is still looking for someone. Recently he spoke to one of his other female friends and asked to have a Fwb relationship. She agreed but ended up getting back wit...

I had sex with a girl and then had sex with her sister too. Should I try to talk to the one I like, or would that make it worse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 May 2013 (M) - I have a pretty odd situation I'm in right now that I'd like some advice on: Basically, I was friends with a girl for about 2 years, she used to have a boyfriend during this period, so it was always friendly chat, I never tried to flirt with her o...

Since this girl came into the picture its like I don't even exist!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - Hey everyone I've been debating whether or not I should ask for help on this problem because it's so long and confusing but I'm really confused and need help and need to get this all off my chest. I've always had a great relationship wit...

The do's and don't of sex and pierced clit??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

25 May 2013 (M) - My new gf has a pierced clit. Any ideas on things to avoid and things to do with her intimacy wise? Thanks for any advice....

Will we be passing HPV back and forth if we keep having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

25 May 2013 (M) - Hello, well a women friend of mine, had a pap smear, it came back she has hpv, am the only man she's been with in years, I'm wondering, I've been told it can up to 2 years for your immune system to clear it up, I know their is a lot of different ...

Please help me understand my bisexual boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

25 May 2013 (M) - My current boyfriend, Johnny, used to go out with a 21 year old bisexual guy, Kevin. They dated for 4 years. During that time, their relationship was open from the start and Johnny who is gay, forced himself to conform to Kevin's ways and slept with ...

The little death--a man crying after sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - I want to ask people about something I recently learnt about called "The Little Death" when a guy cries after sex. Why is this? None of my exes did this. Can someone explain this further?...

Are there some women that just do not like receiving oral sex?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

24 May 2013 (M) - Hi there, I have a question about oral sex on a woman friend (or lack of). Several months ago when we first became intimate, she performed oral on me (with condom)and i politely asked if i could return the favour. The answer to my question was 'No, ...

Is it fair on us to be considering a LDR with her, in view of our past together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

24 May 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid I m in a tricky situation. my ex and I broke up last November after about 3 years . The relationship wasn't perfect but good. She had trust issues and at times she used to be really angry over the smallest things. We had loads of fig...

Am I facing a big problem here? Could my boyfriend be interested in this girl who talks really inappropriate sexual stuff with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm sorry but this is going to be a long post. I am really upset here and I need some advice. A girl my boyfriend knows (they're not really friends, but know each other) is always trying to talk to my boyfriend about stuff that I fee...

Why do guys pay flirty, promiscuous girls so much attention?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Do guys usually like the flirty and promiscuous type of girls? I need some advice because I hate to say I'm a little jealous of this girl I know who gets so much attention from my guy friends and just a lot of guys in general. She sleeps around wi...

No sex for 2 years - should I walk away from this otherwise happy relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - My mate and and I have not had sex for 2 years He says he can't get a hard on anymore, but he can materbate and watch porn alone, I am not sure if it is me or if he avoids me, I am happy about everything else in our relationship but the sex. He ...

My girlfriend may be hiding her past from me. How can I know whether she's a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

23 May 2013 (M) - Hey friends.. I have a girlfriend and i love her much. we are in relationship from past 2 months. we met and became friends in her hometown. actually i guess that she is hiding her past from me and i dont feel good..so here her past goes.. ...

My fiance says that if I gain weight, he won't make love to me in the same way! How should I respond?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - My fiance has told me he hates fat women. He thinks they are disgusting and have no self control. His mother is heavy and he points to her for his reasoning. He told me, while making love to me, that if I ever gain weight, that he will not make...

I don't know if I've had an orgasm. What does it feel like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Hey, I'm just going to get right down to what I want to ask. I just recently lost my virginity and before any of you very nice agony aunts ask if I used protection and all that. I did, that was the first thing I made sure we had, it was a whim, bu...

My bf's sex drive has dropped and I am worried he may not be interested in me. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Hi all, I'm having insecurities about sex and my boyfriend. He's recently started a low carb diet to get more in shape. He's a trainer and knows a lot about food. He says his sex drive has dropped since he started it. We were doing it about 4...

Every few days we have anal sex but I hate it and scares me to think of having it all my life!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Hello! Straight to the facts: I have a rather big problem in my nearly perfect relationship. For introduction, I must inform you that I am (23) in relationship for nearly 7 month, 2 month ago we have moved together, he is so much caring and lovin...

No sex since January. Am I being paranoid? My instincts say he's messing about, but hides things. How can I be sure of it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Am I paranoid or is he up to something? I recently have noticed my boyfriend is acting like he's up to something lately. We haven't been intimate since January. I put this down to him having a low sex drive and he had made comments about not gett...

Distressing personal comments from my Gf :( I have told her that these comments, or jokes, are making me insecure. How do I respond when she says it's just a joke?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

22 May 2013 (M) - I have been dating my lovely girlfriend for 2 year now. We recently began having sex, both our first times. I am just above average in penis length according to many quoted sites. However she has made a few comments that have seriously den...

Do you think he has started having different feelings? If so I might as well end this relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - So for the past 5 months I have been in a fwb relatioinship with a friend I met thru a friend. The thing is I'm married and he's not married but is already in a relationship himself. So we work on eachothers schedule. Now the sex isn't always the...

What can I do, to stay strong, and stop myself texting him hurtful things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - my boyfriend keeps leaving the house when we start arguing and saying its over. I struggled a lot just before we met with money being on my own working mininum wage and having two kids. He has helped me out but now throws it in my face. I've gone...

No diagnosis for his ED and lack of desire! My marriage is almost destroyed by this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - I hope there are someone out there in my situation. I feel so alone with my problem. My 28 year long marriage is almost destroyed by this, and I dont know what else can I do. So my husband has a chronic sexual/erectile dysfunction, and complete ...

How do I stop being insecure about my penis size?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4207 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - So im an Asian guy will be having sex with a white guy. he's amazing and that's also what he thinks about me. But as any Asian, size issues make me feel insecure. Also, this gonna be his first time being with a guy and i wanna to make it as good as ...

What do you think his deal is? Does he just want to be friends with benefits? Or is he just shy and reserved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - This guy I've been hooking up with, seeing, hanging out with...not sure what to call it, is confusing me so much. I'm so unsure of how he feels towards me. Right now, I would describe our relationship as FWB. We met at work. At work, he remains...

Is it normal to obsess about the person I gave up my virginity with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - up until last week i was a virgin. Im 18 and wanted it to be with someone special and it wasn't, i lost my virginty on a 1 night stand. I regret it so much but i know theirs nothing i can do. But now i am obsessed with the guy i lost it to, i ca...

Why does he want to do it himself instead of being intimate with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

20 May 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months and we are in love and live together. We have a really good and happy relationship apart from one thing. He would rather masturbate than have sex with me. Iv talked to him about it and he said that he ...