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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Why aren't I sexually attracted to him when he's the hottest guy I've dated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is smokin' hot. We both have really deep feelings for eachother. He wants sexual activity, but the idea to me makes me gag. Normally I love being sexual with my boyfriend but its different for him. Why aren't I sexually attracted to him ...

Should I have sex ASAP? Or wait next till forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - Hello all, I asked a question on here a while ago about a girl that had only a tendency to date "douchebag" guys, and now she's mine 3 yay! But someone incepted (planted an idea in my head, nerd reference) me recently.. Last night me and my girlfr...

Has my masturbating taken full control of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - I'm a 26years old male from nigeria and havn't any sexual intercourse with any woman before, but i do masturbate and this year will make it 13years that i have been masturbating. I watch a lot of x-rated movies and read a lot of sex novels. but i'm ...

Did I orgasm or just get really close to it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, on saturday night, me and my boyfriend were lying in his bed making out, and he started pressing and rubbing my clit. it felt absolutely AMAZING, and before too long, my legs started shaking uncontrollably and the feeling just kep...

How can I stop this "urge"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4911 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - This is a really weird thing to ask and talk about to me but how do you stop an "urge" to want to have sex. I went to my BF's house the other day and he said that he wanted to do something to make me happy and kept saying a bunch of other thi...

What is the proper place of sexual attraction in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - Aunts, you know, here is my issues: over and over I have fallen for a girl because she gets me excited. She is hot, sexy and attractive. So I enter a relationship with her only to find we are not oompatible at all! She and I clash with our values ...

My partner has had a lot of lovers- why does this bother me so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - Hi Ive been with my partner quite a while now, and things are great. However at some point we talked about past partners. I was surprised to find that at 43 she has had 28 previous partners, 5 of them "one nighters" (although she had hope...

Low libido or unsatisfied? She loves me but shes tired!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - She says she loves me! She says she's attracted to me. She says shes tired. Ive been living with my gf for about a year over seas. We live together and work for the same company, we share the same dreams and get along very well. we are both at...

I grew up feeling sex was a dirty thing, not meant to be fun!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My problem is threatening to obliterate intimacy with my fiance. Since I was little, my family was always clear that sex was a dirty thing, a sin and just given into for the purpose of procreation. I understand why my mother had the attitude that ...

Is it normal to worry that you won't be good at sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - Hey Just a quick question. My boyfriend is older than I am, and I know he isn't a virgin, whereas I am. I'm a 17 year old girl and we've been together for 8 months now, and we're ready to take the next step in our relationship and sleep together...

Why is my boyfriend not into fingering?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4914 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Why does my bf not seem into fingering?? Well he hardly ever does it let alone oral sex... he's done it three times in the last year. If he fingers me its not for very long and he always wips his fingers on my legs or on my belly. Makes me feel like ...

My girlfriend still wants more after I finish. What do I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - my girlfriend has an extremely high sex drive, and once i 'finish' she still wants more. what do i do?...

Is it normal for men to get erections for no reason?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Is it normal for men (not teenage boys) to get and erection for no reason? My boyfriend gets them supposedly for no reason..he is in his late 20s. I am aware of morning wood and so on and so forth, but we will be doing something as simple as ...

10 years no sex, engagement ring I've never given to her..what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - I am 38. My girlfriend is 40. We have been together since 1992. When we first met I was almost (but not quite) totally inexperienced with women and my girlfriend, although having had sex with maybe 5-6 guys was inexperienced with relationships. S...

110 guys before me??

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - how do i deal with the fact that my wife has been with 110 guys beffore me 107 all f buddys or one nighr stands and i know knew 20 of them? i feel like a fool. one guy did her in a bathroom at a party and never spoke to her.....

He masturbates next to me in bed - is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3571 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - my huband masterbate in bed right beside me .is this normal?...

Can women tell when men have erections, by looking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - I was reading the question about the guy who wondered if his girlfriend felt his erection when she brushed up against it while cuddling. It made me think of something even more base, which is: Can women tell when men have erections by lo...

My boyfriend wants to take our relationship to the next level and have oral sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Ok, I really need some help. So me and my boyfriend have been dating over almost a year now. We are closer to each other than anyone else, and everyone knows it too. We were bestfriends before we started daying and had known each other for two ...

Is it normal for a girl to bleed even at the third time of sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - so about half month ago I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and i sort of bled a lot that we had to stop. I had some spotting for the following few days, which seemed to be normal according to what others say online. Then 4 days later ...

Last night I lost my virginity to him. Now I'm jealous of his past

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I'm 23 years old and lost my virginity to my 26 years old boyfriend of 7 months last night. He's my frist boyfriend, my first kiss, my first everything, but I'm not his first. I'll start at the beginning because it will be a little easier to follo...

I am at a point in my life where I can't stop hating men and it is poisoning me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I need some help. I am at a point in my life where I can't stop hating men and it is poisoning me. Six years ago I was kidnapped and raped by a very sick individual. Since then I have honestly tried to not look for evil in men, I r...

Do dotted and ribbed condoms make a difference?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4915 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - do ribbed and dotted condoms (such as durex pleasure max) actually make a difference to your sex life? can both partners feel the difference and is it a pleasureable difference? please let me know your experiences, stories, tips or advice with the...

Boyfriend always makes me initiate sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - when me + my boyriend got together we were both virgins . we have been together for 8 months + have been having safe sex for just 1 month. i enjoy having sex with him, but it always seems to be the same. he will innitiate it, + then lie back + e...

Guys: How experienced do you like your girl to be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - So here's a question to the guys out here. Do you like the girl to just lay there during the first times you have sex with her so that you can feel more confident, do you like that she takes some initiative (like?) or do you just want t...

Did I get carried away flirting, at the bar? Not sure if I liked what I did! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - The fact that i'm asking this straight after getting back from a night out just shows how concerned i am about the person i'm becoming. Tonight i went out and was stupid and the type of girl i'm normally not.. I went to this bar/club and i f...

Boyfriend talks about sex but when the opportunity arises he backs out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and 4 months (whos counting :P) and i am really beginning to think that i love him. the problem im having is that we are always talking about having sex, but when an opportunity comes up, he ...

I'm so angry and regret giving him my virginity..any advice?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - i have been really close to this one boy for almost a year and i have never felt this way about anyone before! but he gets through girls really quickely and i was just another one of them but then we both lost our v with each other a few weeks ago ...

Does it mean anything when he says he wished we slept together when we had the chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - I have liked a male friend of mine for a long time. Does it actually mean anything that he said he wished we'd slept together when we had the chance? Does it mean anything when he says he likes me better that he think I do? Does it mean anything ...

If you want to wait, then wait...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4914 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - ok i've been reading some questions that put some people in very tricky situations. There was one about a girl who couldn't decide if she wanted to "go all the way" so if your having the same problem here's a tip. Sex isn't everything. if your ...

How can I overcome being so very shy with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend loves me going on top,infact he more than loves it, but i get shy sometimes and at times i feel like i'm not doing anything good enough, has anyone got tips on how i can overcome being shy and how i can do anything special whilst on ...

He wants to try oral but I don't want to

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I just turned 15 in February my boyfriend just turned 14 in may well im a virgin and we have been going for three weeks now. He says he wants to eat me out but the thing is I dont really want him to should I let him do it? ...

Opinions on young teens fooling around.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Hi, im 14 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, the other day suggested that we take things further. When he says further, he means blowjob, fingering, dry sex and sexting. I spoke to my mum and she said she wasnt bothered as long as ...

After 1 year of being the perfect FWB, I ended things. I will miss him but did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Hi, Everything started one year ago. This guy and I got extremely close and I honestly thought he felt the same as I did. We slept together during all this time but he started to be more and more distant. It was clear for every one that he didn...

Husband won't have sex and its driving us apart

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - my husband wont have sex with me and its driving us apart. we have been married for 5 years and in the beginning it was great. but for the last 2 years im lucky if we have sex once a month, and its always me who instigates it. ive tried talking to ...

I don't want him to know I'm a virgin. How do I fake being Good in Bed and experienced, the first time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - So I really like this guy and he really likes me but he doesnt know I'm a virgin and I'm not planning on telling him. I've told him that I haven't slept with anyone for over a year but have said I have had one sexual partner. There is no way I am ...

What is this beautiful girl doing with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - After a night of her crying on my shoulder over the last douche bag to cheat on her, my best friend of over a decade and I slept together. Believe me, I've been totally in love with her since we pretty much met and believe me, it was totally not how ...

Why is so grossed out by what is natural during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend takes forever to bust and I cannot last long in bed. IS there any way for me to be able to last longer than just 5 minutes? Also, he gets disgusted when my cum is on his cock, why is that? Hes also grosed out by his own cum. Why?...

Why did my ex leave his current g/f when he says shes better at sex than me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Me and My Ex Broke Up 2 Months ago and a month later I found out he had a new girlfriend , his friends told me he would say she's awsome in bed better than me and gives him whatever he wants when he wants it. but Recently their relationship ...

I'll give him hand jobs, but won't let him finger me. ..is that weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 May 2011 (?) - Hi there, So, I've been a 'thing' with this guy for over a year. We've started to 'do' stuff, he knows I won't go all the way, we're both virgins, but I've given him hand jobs and he enjoys it, I enjoy it. Except, he keeps trying to finger me, but ...

Any tips on performing oral sex with a small tongue and a sensitive partner??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4918 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - so me and my gf had oral sex... i have a really short and small tongue... i can't seem to please her really well... she says her clitoris is too sensitive... when ever i try to lick it she cant take it... even if im being slow, soft , and gentle she ...

How do I deal with somethng I did a long time ago??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I have a really big problem along time ago when i was 14 i did a sexual act with my third cousin i regret it so much i not attracted to him at all this mistake i made was because he harrased me until l gave in now im 20years old im still a virgin ...

Guy is pressuring me to give him oral sex but I am scared!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - soo here goes...im not very sexually experienced and have only gave oral once and was very drunk when that happened. I got with this guy and we just went straight to sex (i was a virgin before this ) i have never gave him oral or he has never gave ...

My bf is getting too rough in bed. What does it mean and what do I do about it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 May 2011 (?) - Me and my bf have always been rough in bed. I do anal and gag and stuff and we both like it. But these past few months it has got a little weird. He hurts me. He shoves his member down my throat and it is agonising. When i climax he covers my mouth ...

Question about anal sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have tried anal sex a few times throughout our one year (and counting!) relationship. I currently work in the medical field as a CNA in a nursing home and I see almost everyday what bowel incontinence can do to a person's dignity. ...

Why do I like getting attention from guys but then never following through on it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Is it bad that when i go on a night out i like the idea of meeting guys and getting the attention from them? I want to make out with them, but not so that it leads to sleeping together cause i couldn't do that with a stranger! But I don't understand ...

Sex with him leaves me unsatisfied.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I came to my current partner as a virgin although, I had experienced oral sex before with my ex of four years. I didn't want to have sex with my partner but it happened anyway and after a while, I learned to like it. But now, I don't feel the same. ...

Older male dating a younger one, who was a virgin and is now seeking more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - I am a 38yr old male dating a 20yr old male who was a virgin. We have had sex, though I have not penetrated him. He is still wanting to wait, and I am fine with that. We have been together for 4 months (as of last night)and he has started masturba...

Should I try something gay? I do have a girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - Bi-curious's profile: I am having a big urge to have a gay sexual encounter. I have a girlfriend and she let's me watch gay porn nd gets turnd on by how I get turnd on so much by it. I've told her my fantasies and was a bit unsure about it but sed ...

Help me please my husband! I need sex tips and ideas for his homecoming too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - well my husband left for 3 weeks to help with some volunteer red cross work in japan. hes coming home in about week and id like to surprise him by doing something sexy and fun. i also wanna try and use this night as a way to tell him im ready for ...

No sex after having a baby....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - My gf and me have been in a relationship for about 7 years. we live together and have a 10 months old boy. everything is great except that we have had sex once this year. I would like to have sex 3-4 time a week, at least. not 1 time in 5 months. ...