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anonymous
writes:soo here goes...im not very sexually experienced and have only gave oral once and was very drunk when that happened. I got with this guy and we just went straight to sex (i was a virgin before this ) i have never gave him oral or he has never gave me oral. neither have i or him used hands/fingers. And now that we have had sex he has asked about me giving head and i'm just kinda scared, i don't know where to start and what to do... every time we have foreplay i think about going down on him but get nervous and never do. All my friends say its pretty good and i just want to get the confidence too. Is there anything that will make it more easier and any tips on how i can please him properly? Please share your first time (oral) experiences and what went well and what i shouldn't do ... thanks x
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reader, RedLips +, writes (28 May 2011):
 Well, technique wise I always say this drives the guys I've given oral sex to crazy...
Use one hand to hold the base of the penis, and let saliva pool in your mouth (your tongue needs to keep him nice and slippery). Make a loose fist with your other hand and slide it up and down his penis, closing it when you reach the head.
Get the hand motion right first, then add your mouth, letting your hand act as an extension of it. Create a snug vacuum (but don't suck), then slide up and down, your hand following your mouth if your scared of putting it all the way in.
Oh and if you're not the most coordinated person, hold your hand still at the base of the penis and simply move your mouth up and down the shaft using your tongue here and there. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2011): Your friends are giving you very poor advice. Some women like performing oral sex on a man and some do not. Fellatio is not a male birthright. There is nothing wrong with a woman who doesn't enjoy it. Some guys will tell you there is and that every other women does it. This simply isn't true.
If you don't want to do it then keep it simple. Just tell him no, that you're saving that for when you're in a serious relationship. Do NOT discuss it any further. If he pushes, then leave.
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