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Archived questions from: 3 May, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

We live together, we share a son. But she says she is also in a LDR. How can I cope with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - my girlfriend of 19 years with whom I have a son, says she is dateing someone out of state, but lives with me, sleeps with me, and i hold her every night. She says she might leave me, but goes to counselling. what is she doing? also says she might ...

We broke up January. Now I can't seem to control my urge to have sex. How can I control it better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I broke up and have finished our relationship in janruary. i have been going out with friends and i have also slept with 2 people since my boyfriend and i broke up and i feel so bad about it. however i just seem to be wanting sex ...

How do I improve my performance when I'm with my partner? Is there anything I can do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - When we have sex, I find that it takes a long time to climax and I am not always sure that I have done so. I continue thrusting for at least twenty minutes. Is there any way of trying to improve trying to climax during sex?...

Our relationship lacks intimacy and sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - My husband has never wanted to kiss me or caress me. I am not ugly, I take care of myself and exercise an wear makeup well. If I try to kiss him he scrunches his nose like I am a disease. I have to give him head but he never gives it to me. If I ...

Freaking out before orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - I've never had an orgasm before. Tried solo a few times, still didn't happen. My boyfriend and I have been trying...and every time I get really close I freak out! I just have to stop. Don't know why. The only thing that gets me to that point is ...

Why is it bad to lose your virginity to a Prostitute?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - I'm a 28 year old male virgin, who has never had a girlfriend. I have asked dozens of women out in my life though I was always rejected. There were plenty of women that I liked but did not approach them because I knew they had boyfriends already. I ...

We haven't, but one day I would like to. How do I ask her about having a sexual relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - Hey guys i need some help with my relationship. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 1 month now and I want to someday have a sexual relationship with her. Can you please ignore my age for this but if you have to know I'm 15 and almost ...

He doesn't want to touch me much. Is this a bad sign?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - dear cupid: I'm a middle age lady that is starting to date again, I'm curious. when my boyfriend and i are starting things up I'm all over him because he has a body that i like. A little cushion. I love it and i let him know it. with me he hard...

Her past is tearing me apart, but I love her so. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - So I've been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months now, she's my first real girlfriend and I do love her so much. Everything is perfect except for the fact that I can't get her past sex life out of my head. She's 18 and has been with 10 guys bef...

I have a very strong need to talk to my coworker about "that night." Should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - I have been happily married for almost 9 years. About six months ago while away on a business trip I had a brief encounter with a married coworker. We didn't have sex but we kissed and a bit more. Ever since I met this guy there has been a clear ...

Girlfriend will no longer give oral sex, says she hates it. Why did she do it to every guy in the past then?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3601 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and me are together for a year now.. and have a decent intimate life.. we stay in different cities so meet just maybe once or twice a month.. Since the past 5months she hasnt given me any oral sex.. and i didnt pressurize her.....

Gave him heads and he refused giving me oral with him tongue.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Last night i was making out with my boyfriend and i ended up giving him a blow job, after that i asked him to give me oral sex with his tongue and he bluntly refused, i begged him and he still refused. I was hurt so much that he couldn't do that to ...

Why do they go soft when we try to have sex? Is it me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - dear cupid i have been with my boyfriend for a while now everytime we start to make love hes try to inter me and he gets soft on me and leaves me hanging. he is 50 years i am 53. i have had this same thing happen t me in the pastwith other m...

How dos an 18 year old introvert get laid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - I'm 18 and I'm still a virgin but I'm not very bothered by this, except when my friends make jokes about me and when I get the horn on. So, I'm coming to realise that I know absolutely nothing about how to get into a girls pants. I understa...

If you give a blowjob are you still a virgin? Is he?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - If you give a guy a blowjob are you still a virgin? And is the guy still a virgin too?...

Does it really hurt that much to have sex the 1st time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - My mom told me this "since you are now 14 and have a boyfriend I want you to be more careful with your actions. Don't do it it with him. It hurts to have sex for the first time and it hurts even worse to have a baby" is that true??? Does it rea...

I feel uncomfortable during oral sex and don't want to be deceived if he's just saying he likes it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Kind of hard to ask this, it is very personal. I have been sexually active with my new guy for just a week, but I have loved him for a long time. He has gone down on me and I am not sure I have liked it, I suppose I was tense and nervous about it so ...