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My boyfriend wants to take our relationship to the next level and have oral sex!

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Question - (29 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok, I really need some help. So me and my boyfriend have been dating over almost a year now. We are closer to each other than anyone else, and everyone knows it too. We were bestfriends before we started daying and had known each other for two years, so now i've known him for three. Anyway, he wants to take it to the next step and have oral sex. I've given him a handjob through his underwear, but never actually touched him. and he has never touch me down there. I think im ready, but how do i know for sure? Also how do i give a blow job, because i have no idea how at all. and if he wanted to 'eat me out' should i shave all the way? like, would it be better for him? im have no idea what to do at all :( please help me out!

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A female reader, babyfayce123 United States +, writes (4 June 2011):

babyfayce123 agony auntBefore you actually give him oral sex, take the time to explore each others body first..get to know each other on a more physical level. and YES, you should shave before he eats you out..well atleast most guys think its a turn off when a girl has a hairy vagina! but anyways, let him finger you before oral..do the reasonable stuff before the serious things. and when all that is done, if you two are still wanting to do oral, have at it!! but make sure you dont use teeth!!!! also when your sucking, make sure you get lots of saliva running down his shaft! There are also alot of guys who like when your sucking to use a free hand and stroke the bottom..but maybe hes different...thats why you gotta figure out his likes and dislikes & use lots of tongue and tell him to let you know before he "cums" so you can decide if you want to spit or swallow..the taste of a guys sperm really isnt the best taste in the world..i like to describe the taste of it as....SALT WATER!! :/ so if you want to swallow just to please him, its always good to have a glass of juice or something near..and good luck to you both!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2011):

You will want to take it slow start with more hand jobs and fingering, then if it feels natural move to oral.

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