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If you want to wait, then wait...

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Article - (28 May 2011) 1 Comments - (Newest, 1 June 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, The Devils-Angel writes:

ok i've been reading some questions that put some people in very tricky situations. There was one about a girl who couldn't decide if she wanted to "go all the way" so if your having the same problem here's a tip. Sex isn't everything. if your boyfriend truely cares about you then he will respect your decision. He won't try and pressure you into something you don't want to do. He will not try and put you in a situation where he could end up hurting you emotionally. so if you are having the same problem as this girl then listen to this tip. Do not be afraid to tell what you truely believe in. If you want to wait then wait...he will see that and respect you for your decision if he loves you as much as he says he does.

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A female reader, Mickkiee United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2011):

Mickkiee agony auntI would totally agree with this.

I have been in a relationship for around 5 months now with someone i feel so secure with. Sex has been discussed from the outset. We decided that it would be best if we waited around a year before even contimplating it, as we both feel that our relationship will have fully blossomed by then.

A year to some probbaly sounds a long time but if it's love it will last a lifetime and there is no need in rushing. The worst thing you can do is possess regrets and it is better to use your head not your hormones, especially when it comes to sex.

Sex is something that once you begin it will take your relationship to a whole new level, but if the levels beneath have not been completed how will you ever know what satisfaction felt like always looking back wishng you could start over or revese actions. However know your heart and follow your mind.

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