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*arissalover1
writes:me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and 4 months (whos counting :P) and i am really beginning to think that i love him. the problem im having is that we are always talking about having sex, but when an opportunity comes up, he backs out. i dont understand why, but i am beginning to think hes just afraid, im just not 100% sure :S any ideas? Reply to this Question
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reader, jcena  +, writes (30 May 2011):
hey,
tell him dnt talk just show me wat u can all the very best
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (29 May 2011):
he might be virgin
if so it is very normal
Good Luck
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reader, j321  +, writes (29 May 2011):
Some guys are emotional stimulated more than the physical. When he starts emotional fore play like that follow through and start the action and see what happens.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (29 May 2011):
 larissa? are u originally from Greece?
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (29 May 2011):
 Talk to him and ask him why. He may be insecure about penis size, might have hangups about his body. You'll never know unless you ask. Communication is key in a relationship, so you should be able to talk to him about this kind of stuff.
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reader, Partyboy123 +, writes (29 May 2011):
 hey,does he have any religious views on sex before marriage?does he have a low self-confidence/self-esteem? - this may seriously make him afraid to have sex with you.theres one solution! CONFRONT HIM, ask him WHY he talks about it but won't do it with you... i mean hey, it can't hurt to ask?hope i helped
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (29 May 2011):
 Could be he is actually letting his better judgement control his actions. Sex before marraige isn't exactly the thing that parents teach their kids is an OK thing to do. Why not just wait? It's not all it's cracked up to be anyway.You ever heard of the story about the couple that put a penny in a jar each time they had sex once they got married, then after the first two years they would take a penny out. The jar still has lots of pennies in it. Trust me it's not all that it's made out to be just relax...breathe love life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): Don't push him to do anything he's not comfortable with. Just wait and let him know that you love him and won't leave him. Be patient =)
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